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Old 12-06-2018, 02:59 PM   #1
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I may not be a size 4 or even 14, but I love myself and my body and I focus on the parts of me that are just absolutely astounding. I can understand that super BBWĎs only have a certain number of suitors, but I think youíd be surprised how big that number is. Iím considered a small BBW or voluptuous or curvy. Either way you put it, Iím overweight. But in my mind, that should not have anything to do with booking a date with me. I once spoke with a moderator on ECCIE and he told me that the men on ECCIE were talking about me and branding me because I was the best BBBJ in Kansas City. I knew I was good but I didnít know I was that good! So does a client forgo an overweight woman just because sheís overweight but who happens to be the best in Kansas City at what she does? I think thatís pretty shallow. I donít think you have to be a size 4 to be a good provider. And besides that, Iím 51 so I am the 30-year-olds bucket list and the 60-year-olds diva. I appeal to all ages whereas the 20-somethings definitely donít get the 60-year-olds. And let me tell you, those 60-year-olds are very generous. I love what I do and Iím good at what I do. I donít always love my body but Iím comfortable with it. And I think thatís the most important thing I can say here, be comfortable with who you are and donít take the reviews on this site that seriously because after all, they are all from men who may or may not be intelligent enough to know a good provider.
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Old 12-07-2018, 11:09 AM   #2
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It's not that nobody cares about skill. Men just care about looks more. Which, yes, is very stupid. I'm with you. Lots of pretty girls are stuck-up bitches because they've had their asses kissed their entire lives. And lots of hot providers think being pretty is a substitute for being good. Why try hard when you'll have a line of men knocking down your door no matter what?

Still, while we can all agree it's stupid to judge a woman (or man, probably) on looks, it's instinct and you can't get rid of it by talking to it logically. If you're not pretty by a man's definition, he almost definitely won't have sex with you. Doesn't matter how nice, how funny, how out-of-this-world skilled you may or may not be.
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