411: Finding a 3 way (Girl only) for my Wife and I

[priapism]

My wife and I have discussed finding a girl to have a 3 way with. Not looking for a provider. More of a website where we can "shop" for someone that meets our interest and hook up with occasionally.

Any suggestions on websites etc were we might find someone of QUALITY.

thanks,

P

[Ms. Athena]

I would suggest the swinger web sites...CouplesTouch.com and SwingLifeSTyle.com

[DallasRain]

Originally Posted by Ms. Athena

I would suggest the swinger web sites...CouplesTouch.com and SwingLifeSTyle.com

you can try those sites.....But they are unicorns{very hard to find}!

good luck!!

[Katharine Butler]

Dallas, is quite right, a hot bi girl for a couple is the holy grail.
Can I ask why you don't want a provider? Ironically, many women feel More comfortable with this idea than a civvie. Ie providers do Not want to steal your man.
Also, have you considered another hot Couple? You can set the parameters that suit you all. Maybe only the ladies interact then the couples can watch each other interact or adjourn to separate rooms to finish up.
Kat

[DallasRain]

Kat my sweety----you are one helluva great provider to have for a couple!!

I love doing mfm.....mfmf......fmf....any combo is HOT!!

{and if you get a provider....there will be less drama.....trust me,I KNOW FROM REAL LIFE EXPERIENCE....lol}

[RebeccaFair]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

I love doing mfm.....mfmf......fmf....any combo is HOT!!

{and if you get a provider....there will be less drama.....trust me,I KNOW FROM REAL LIFE EXPERIENCE....lol}

This is soooo true. The multiple participants can be so HOT and enjoyable. But jealousy tends to be an issue in the swing scene. As a unicorn, you are highly desired, however when the woman of the couple sees how differently the guy acts with you, it's almost inevitable that she becomes jealous.

With a provider, there are drawn lines...and they are more likely to adhere to them.

[Yes Charlotte]

I agree with what has been said that most women usually feel more comfortable with a provider than a civilian to limit the risk of further involvement. But three way sessions are so hott I hope you find the right person to complete your fantasy.

[CountryGentleman35]

But as a hobbyist how do you explain to your SO that you contacted a provider and passed screening?

[GulfCouple]

We decided as a couple to go the provider route for the reasons stated above. The potential issues are eliminated with a provider. Breaching the subject was actually easier than you would anticipate. Discuss the risk issues and mention they could all be negated by a reputable and well researched provider. As a side bonus, she can pick what she likes (blondes, redheads, skinny, voluptuois, etc.).

[Guest050715-1]

Originally Posted by CountryGentleman35

But as a hobbyist how do you explain to your SO that you contacted a provider and passed screening?

Have her help you pick a lady out. She may have a different idea of what hot is.

It is important to set boundaries. Your wife may have hard limits she doesn't want you to cross with the other lady. Things can turn sour very quickly if your wife gets jealous or feels you are paying too much attention to the other lady. Conversely, if you feel your wife is paying too much attention to the other lady (It may be the first time she has been with a woman and may feel like a kid in a candy shop) gently work your way back into the mix.

[Guest061612-1]

Oh Damn....a new doubles.
KAT...go get DallasRain and come on to see me.
While you are at it tell Dallas how good I am.
Missing you Kat girl!

[DallasRain]

Originally Posted by TexasBrowning

Oh Damn....a new doubles.
KAT...go get DallasRain and come on to see me.
While you are at it tell Dallas how good I am.
Missing you Kat girl!

I would so love to play with Kat again! she is fun in a bubble bath! lol

and we just might have to come your way in summer!