Bile, Drama & Negativity!

[burkalini]

I have been in the "can't name it" almost since it started. I hardly ever come in here anymore. It's just a few dicktards stroking each others ego in the guise of being cool.

[urhuckleberry]

WARNING.

The not so funny crap that has been posted in the AR forums has drawn a lot of attention. It is clear that the veiled attacks, insults and disrespect has had an adverse impact on the forum.

Here's the only warning: There will be no more tolerance for general disrespect, insults or diatribes, even it not directed at a specific member. AR will be kinder more friendly site or you will not be welcome.

The "I" in Eccie stands for Information, not insults.

Huck

[urhuckleberry]

Originally Posted by Wakeuр

Nice try huck...but no one gives a shit about them...least of all a moderator...

I'm sorry, but I didn't understand your reply. No one gives a shit about who?

Huck

[urhuckleberry]

Originally Posted by jim1995

If I share my opinion and you read it, fine. If you do or don't like it, fine. If you decide to personally attack me because of it, fine.

This boards direction and topics are all controlled by us the posters. Its not a mods job to wipe our butts but to adhere to St. C's rules and guidelines so the board remains profitable for him. Exchange information about the hobby or not, its up to each of us.

Good comment jim1995. See my comment above, however.


Huck

[ElumEno]

Originally Posted by Sexy_Brittany
Defending oneself from constant personal attacks can be exhausting. Sarcastic, witty chiding cannot be compared with the mean spirited, unprovoked, hateful comments I've been reading lately.

I'm ashamed to admit that someone like Blad could have any impact on my daily life, but.. His attacks on my personal appearance have caused me to have an extreme case of BDD - Body Dismorphic Disorder. I can't work, I can't go out with friends, I can barely leave my apartment. I absolutely hate myself, and the way I look and everyday is completely horrible for me. His insults and horse face comments ring in my head every minute that I'm awake.

I'm not fishing for compliments and I definitely don't need any sympathy so please don't PM me with praises or appointment requests. I'm also not editing this because if I do then I'm afraid I'll talk myself out of posting, so please forgive any spelling or syntax errors.

Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

was that post deleted ???

Originally Posted by Rockydoc

Apparently.

Originally Posted by Hogfan69

I think you have an hour to delete a post. She may have just decided to take it down.

Originally Posted by Stanfeld

It was never posted here, this quote was posted in a thread from 5 months ago. Not sure why it's here without a link.

Originally Posted by bladtinzu

Guess someone wanted to start drama and had to dig deep to be able to stir the pot.. Welcome to ECCIE..

Originally Posted by Hogfan69

Yeah, that was kind of odd to bring that in from out of the blue.

Originally Posted by Rockydoc

Did Britt really post this? I looked back through her posting history through 7-13 and there is no post like this? Certainly nothing in the last 5 months.

Originally Posted by Hogfan69

I never remembered reading that post either. I usually pay attention when she does post.

Originally Posted by bladtinzu

Could have been quoted off of a PM

There is no great conspiracy... she wrote it and then either she deleted it or one of the mods did.

as for it being a quote from somewhere else, from a PM or 5 months ago... the proof is right in front of you.

Lets see..
Post number 1055123770 happened 3-25-2014, 04:47 PM.
Post number 1055123772 happened 3-25-2014, 04:48 PM.

Therefore it is "Elementary my dear Watson" that the post in question (1055123771) was posted some where between those two.

It is also elementary that it was still posted at 5:14 PM when it was quoted by Flyboy182.
We can also assume (yah I know) that it was still posted when BabyDallass made her comment at 5:39 PM.

So that only leaves who deleted the post... the one that posted it or one of the moderators? and that is up to the admin and/or owners to decide.

Originally Posted by urhuckleberry

WARNING.

The not so funny crap that has been posted in the AR forums has drawn a lot of attention. It is clear that the veiled attacks, insults and disrespect has had an adverse impact on the forum.

Here's the only warning: There will be no more tolerance for general disrespect, insults or diatribes, even it not directed at a specific member. AR will be kinder more friendly site or you will not be welcome.

The "I" in Eccie stands for Information, not insults.

Huck

I hope you don't take this the wrong way... but in my personal experience, it never works out well when a moderator makes ultimatum post like this one.
Like I said... that is from personal experience.

It sure reads like you are going to try and dictate who can and can not post in YOUR forums.... at least that is how I read it.

[dearhunter]

I don't mind a return trip to arkietardville........ijs

[Wakeup]

Originally Posted by urhuckleberry

There will be no more tolerance for general disrespect, insults or diatribes, even it not directed at a specific member. AR will be kinder more friendly site or you will not be welcome.

Heh...you realize what you're doing right? You're violating your own order...

di·a·tribe noun \ˈdī-ə-ˌtrīb\
: an angry and usually long speech or piece of writing that strongly criticizes someone or something

Wasn't your post, with it's absolutely awesome bold lettering, a diatribe criticizing members who you feel have made the AR forums a disrespectful place?

You can make "your" forum here have whatever tone you want it to have...only within the limits of the enforceable forum guidelines...

So...let's see how your "directive" works shall we?

P.S.-I didn't fight the points you issued me for general disrespect...but you got my attention...the last two mods who got my attention aren't mods anymore...I just tend to bring out the best in moderators...

[Flyboy182]

Originally Posted by Rockydoc

Did Britt really post this? I looked back through her posting history through 7-13 and there is no post like this? Certainly nothing in the last 5 months.

Hey...I signed on....saw a post that disturbed me due to similar issues I've been close to personally. I responded...that's all. If she took her post down, then my response should come down also as my desire wasn't to prolong the issue. Before any further wrong assumptions are made.....I'm no WK for her either. Saw her twice early in her career...both great visits....but haven't been back. Just kinda like naturals even though she's gorgeous, witty and fun....all of which made her post more disturbing.

[dearhunter]

Is there bile on eharmony?

Is Huck a modtard there and already cleaned up that cest pool?

When a modtard says there will be no more tolerance, does that mean he is going tolerate what has already been tolerated, and that is the line in the sand?

Does the arkietardville modtard handbook have a chapter on tolerating bile and such..........and can we read it?

Did St. C purchase eharmony for one dollar, and this is the unannounced merge of the two boards?

Is it true that the pussy is greener on eharmony?

I am so excited at the prospect of the additional free modtard pussy.

[ElumEno]

Originally Posted by dearhunter

Is it true that the pussy is greener on eharmony?

I am so excited at the prospect of the additional free modtard green pussy.

I'd go green... js

[pumbay]

White girl problems

[Thibodaux]

All these latest posts prove; is, there are no limits to how low any public discussion forum can go. All of the super cool, sunglass wearing, provocateurs are happy. Life is good.
bayou boy

[AmishGangster]

Originally Posted by ElumEno

I'd go green... js

I dont think there's pussy like that on eharmony...but if there is I will pony up the $1 for St. C to buy them out

[Danielle Reid]

I'm so confused

[dearhunter]

You are safe. "confused" is not bile, drama or necessarily negative. So, I'm fairly certain it is tolerated in arkietarville.