OUT here on the board and on other social media

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by Old-T

To be honest, that is a rather overly simplistic view of outing, filled with many problems.

Hypothetical situation Old-T... A John and a married whore with kids meet for first time and john falls in love.... Both are members of this community.... Whore convinces him that he is the one for her and they have a torrid affair for a year.... Money stays a part of the relationship..... whore tells John she has kids and wants to leave her husband and be with him..... John buys it....

After a year John comes to realize he has been played.... Whore is with husband and is never going to leave....

First John threatens and eventually follows through outing the whore to her husband by calling him and when that does not break them up and win her back He posts pictures of her and him together on facebook along with the details of their time together including all the horrible things the whore said about him including how she and the john would live happily ever after with both of their kids.....

So now the shit is out on display for even the kids to read....

Do other whores have a right to know these details about the John? Does he represent a danger to others here in the community as a result of his outing he publicly on social media along with point blank calling her husband who was clueless to anything she was doing or that she was cheating on him?

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by Whispers

Hypothetical situation Old-T... A John and a married whore with kids meet for first time and john falls in love.... Both are members of this community.... Whore convinces him that he is the one for her and they have a torrid affair for a year.... Money stays a part of the relationship..... whore tells John she has kids and wants to leave her husband and be with him..... John buys it....

After a year John comes to realize he has been played.... Whore is with husband and is never going to leave....

First John threatens and eventually follows through outing the whore to her husband by calling him and when that does not break them up and win her back He posts pictures of her and him together on facebook along with the details of their time together including all the horrible things the whore said about him including how she and the john would live happily ever after with both of their kids.....

So now the shit is out on display for even the kids to read....

Do other whores have a right to know these details about the John? Does he represent a danger to others here in the community as a result of his outing he publicly on social media along with point blank calling her husband who was clueless to anything she was doing or that she was cheating on him?

Oh hell No

[Old-T]

A quick read of just what you posted, my gut reaction is yes, a guy who does that is likely a threat to repeat it and i would probably have no issue with her posting an alert to other women.

While she is far from blaimless, his reaction as you described it is significantly worse and much more of a threat.

[Still Looking]

Polls speaking volumes..... NO?

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by Old-T

A quick read of just what you posted, my gut reaction is yes, a guy who does that is likely a threat to repeat it and i would probably have no issue with her posting an alert to other women.

While she is far from blaimless, his reaction as you described it is significantly worse and much more of a threat.

Ok. Now reverse the gender in the story......

Its one of the whores that has called a former clients wife and is outing his relationship with her on social media trying to separate him from his wife and children ....

Should her actions be discussed here, the community and anyone considering seeing provided the information to consider?

[Still Looking]

Oh boy here we go...

[Old-T]

Originally Posted by Whispers

Ok. Now reverse the gender in the story......

Its one of the whores that has called a former clients wife and is outing his relationship with her on social media trying to separate him from his wife and children ....

Should her actions be discussed here, the community and anyone considering seeing provided the information to consider?

Pretty obvious this was part two of the question. Again, going only by the description you gave, yes, it sounds as is she should. And as in the first case I think the other women need to be alerted, in this case the other men.

The gender specific forums are an imperfect tool since alerts there can be fabricated without a chane to defend, but in some cases it is probable the best of imperfect options.

[Old-T]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

Oh boy here we go...

No, the train started down the track quite some time ago. Were you napping?

[Precious_b]

Question: It has been raised recently that a Provider is using a third Party to cut the time short of a session by having this Party interrupt BCD. Happened more than once with different Hobbyist.

If this Party is a Hobbyist, can the Hobbyist be mentioned?
If the Party has been viewed by the Hobbyist who is in BCD with the Provider, can a description of the Party be given so as to see if there is a correlation between all the interrupted sessions?

[The Infamous One]

All I know is I've had some really bad things happen by trusting providers. I can play the long game better than anyone else I know. I just stay quiet now & let it go. It's almost like I got magic in my blood the way things happen to the bad people that have crossed me. People are usually so shocked because I'm sweet as pie. I give you the shirt off my back. Unfortunately, people see my kindness as weakness too many times. But they learn. Lol. Most of the time, my enemies fall on their own sword. The ones that don't. I'll wait. I might have gotten fucked over, but I can play the long game. My patience is uncanny. Especially if you 1. Fuck with my family. 2. Fuck with my $.

Best just not to trust anyone provider or hobbyist or have yourself on social media. Or.. Just don't be a bad person in the first place.