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DreamyKisses · 02-19-2011, 04:18 PM

This is not easy for me to do, but I am a honest and straight forward kind of person, so I am just going to tell everyone what I have to say and I hope you all will respect me for being truthful and saying this openly.

I am afraid I got way in over my head, when I came up with my Dinner Party "gangbang" plans. To be totally honest, my other gangbang experience did not involve the backdoor being open as an option. From what I have been hearing in the e-mails and pms, I have been receiving, that is the main "request", that most are expressing to me, that they want to be sure, it is to be "very"available throughout this gangbang.

Well, that is something I know for sure I cannot do no matter what, and this is the total truth.... because of health problems I have on a regular basis. I am not saying that I cannot ever do it. I can handle backdoor action once in a while, but only for short periods and only when I am VERY prepared ahead of time. So, I thought that I would be able to for some of the guests for a bit, but from what I am learning, that is not what they are wanting or expecting..... It was a lot more..... So sorry! There is no way! Not without me having BIG problems later!! (I am talking ER trip seriously!!) Please try to understand!

So I decided I would cancel the party and not ruin everyone's fantasy of a wild gangbang, by making it just a orgy with no backdoor! I really hope everyone can find a lady that can provide everything for an awesome gangbang here in the Dallas area and soon! It just cannot be me.

I apologize for getting people's hopes up only to disappoint.

I Am Deeply Sorry,
DreamyKisses

pmdelites · 02-20-2011, 08:50 AM

dreamy, no need to be sorry about your limits, dreamy.
i feel it's best when people recognize their limits and let others know them as well.
you do what is best, safe, and pleasurable for you, not for anyone coming to visit you, GB or not.

now, pushing limits w/ a trusted companion is a whole different story.

take care - peace be with you!
pmd

DallasRain · 02-20-2011, 01:12 PM

Thats cool of you to be so open & honest

at my first gb I did a little backdoor but at second one there was no interest

Mos of the guys I see dont care either way

Likinikki · 02-20-2011, 07:49 PM

You should never have to apologize for your limitations hon. My friends and I just had a GB last week. There were two ladies involved...one was ok with DP, however, the other wasn't...and no one was offended and everyone had a fantastic time.

Guest092815 · 02-20-2011, 10:49 PM

please, never, ever do anal if you are not comfortable or relaxed enough. You could get torn or hurt.

I only do it in the hobby bc it's easy for me. My EX insisted on it.. the only way he could fuck. The ultimate irony is, I learned to love it, and he says he NEVER gets it with wifey#2. Ha ha.. too bad he was so awful to me.

Just don't ever do greek if you aren't up to it. There are days I am not, and I say so to guys..even though it isn't often.

You can't open yourself up in that way, if you are not open that sort of play. YOU are an important part of the equation, don't hurt yourself trying to please or impress others, please.

love,
Crystal
admitted butt slut for 20yrs. I didn't like it at first, now i love it. It's like losing your virginity, kinda, if your partner makes you want to do it after a first time. *(wink)* It does get better with practice

DreamyKisses · 02-21-2011, 04:57 AM

Wow, thank you so much for the support and advice everyone! I was so afraid I would get dumped on for being such a jerk for offering this party and then backing out. I almost said nothing and went ahead with the party, cause I was afraid that I would lose future clients and that people on this site would think different of me. It is not easy admitting those kind of embarrassing physical problems on a public board.

Thanks for making me feel better!!

Big Kisses and Hugs !

DreamyK

Guest110511 · 02-21-2011, 11:41 PM

Dreamy and all girls that do GB..should always have a male chaperon anyway, to make sure it doesn't get carried away...if they see that you have protection they may think twice before they try anything funny..

But even then things can go wrong because when I was working in a strip club, a girl did a gang bang with a chaperon and she still got fucked up..they over powered him and raped her..

she was smarter after that..but also a better working girl~
so be smart before you walk into a room with horny men..okay?

DallasRain · 02-22-2011, 06:29 AM

Dreamy babe...just keep on doing what you are doing and it will all be good & fun!

wildwooly1 · 02-22-2011, 07:44 AM

Dreamy,

I think since you came out and was honest about your situation there should be no problems ..everyone knows before hand and you should never do anything that is uncomfortable for you to do...this is all about fun and pleasure and when a lady says NO it doesnt matter what the reason is ..it is ours to respect her decission that she has made not to let you do something ..I m pretty sure you have ways of satisfying a man other than that one option that would leave him with a smile..so dont sweat it because you told them the truth and its not on the menu.
I would never let a lady hurt herself trying to accomodate me because i couldnt enjoy the session if she wasnt enjoying it and i think most men would think the same way !!