Asking for more from a provider - NOT what you think...

[Sunshine Lovely]

Originally Posted by BLM69

From what I've learned being in the hobby nearly 20 years and getting to know a lot of different hookers,.also reading lots of post, MOST that do this hate Men in general,, maybe let down by personal relationships, but fail to understand that without a Man, they wouldn't survive $. So we're screwed gentlemen......

I wouldn't say all providers hate men but for me I just see men in a different way then I use to... As far as fidelty n sexuality goes. You start to see monogamous relationships differently. Don't wanna dste men when you know how they are n what they fo when not around you.

[Sunshine Lovely]

Originally Posted by BLM69

From what I've learned being in the hobby nearly 20 years and getting to know a lot of different hookers,.also reading lots of post, MOST that do this hate Men in general,, maybe let down by personal relationships, but fail to understand that without a Man, they wouldn't survive $. So we're screwed gentlemen......

I wouldn't say all providers hate men but for me I just see men in a different way then I use to... As far as fidelty n sexuality goes. You start to see monogamous relationships differently. Don't wanna dste men when you know how they are n what they do when not around you.

[Sunshine Lovely]

Originally Posted by BLM69

From what I've learned being in the hobby nearly 20 years and getting to know a lot of different hookers,.also reading lots of post, MOST that do this hate Men in general,, maybe let down by personal relationships, but fail to understand that without a Man, they wouldn't survive $. So we're screwed gentlemen......

I wouldn't say all providers hate men but for me I just see men in a different way then I use to... As far as fidelty n sexuality goes. You start to see monogamous relationships differently. Don't wanna date men when you know how they are n what they do when not around you.

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by Sunshine Lovely

I wouldn't say all providers hate men but for me I just see men in a different way then I use to... As far as fidelty n sexuality goes. You start to see monogamous relationships differently. Don't wanna date men when you know how they are n what they do when not around you.

I didn't say all, I said most....but do agree that many Men and Women can't be trusted to stay faithful in a relationship.

[Sunshine Lovely]

Originally Posted by BLM69

I didn't say all, I said most....but do agree that many Men and Women can't be trusted to stay faithful in a relationship.

Exactly, it's the faithfulness for me. Even though I'm a sex worker I crave loyalty but just feel like I would only be with a man if he let me contiue to work.

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by Sunshine Lovely

Exactly, it's the faithfulness for me. Even though I'm a sex worker I crave loyalty but just feel like I would only be with a man if he let me contiue to work.

How can you respect a Man that let's his woman do this for a living? I understand you wanting companionship and someone to love......But unfortunately, it won't work long term.

I choose to be single, why? I have major trust issues and enjoy different women! I do miss the companionship at times, but I understand I can't have everything

[Seeskylar]

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The MOST TALKED ABOUT THEORY IN A HOBBY THAT THEY WANT A PROVIDERS ONE CENT COPPER PENNY THOUGHTS,

Listed below are some very INTERESTING VIEWS FROM HOW I want to respond into a BSC HOBBY WORLD:


Being a provider is stressful, if you have an open relationship okay but don’t disrespect the person who don’t understand the value of privacy. You want to broadcast public opinion than don’t judge when the table is turned.


I will speak for myself when I say don’t get mad when you met the person doing what they’re doing but want to change them to view of family and friends.


Don’t make a person be or do something they are not ready for. Clue one is never play with someone’s pockets or family two never think you are above the law cause in this life everyone is not worried about the next person like the way people sit and wish they had a CIVIL RELATIONSHIP.


Moving forward like I tell the ones who hate, where you think I am talked about I am definitely wanted cause they BLOW UP ALL THREE OF MY LINES TRYING TO GET ME TO COME AND SNUGGLE.

Also to speed up the process HOW WOULD YOU WANT TO WEAR THE SHOE you can’t fit, BORING LIFE THE ONES THEY LIVE. To where they can’t resist on calling and meeting up with someone that never placed them in a bad position.

[Cendell M]

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Very very well said

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by Seeskylar

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The MOST TALKED ABOUT THEORY IN A HOBBY THAT THEY WANT A PROVIDERS ONE CENT COPPER PENNY THOUGHTS,

Listed below are some very INTERESTING VIEWS FROM HOW I want to respond into a BSC HOBBY WORLD:


Being a provider is stressful, if you have an open relationship okay but don’t disrespect the person who don’t understand the value of privacy. You want to broadcast public opinion than don’t judge when the table is turned.


I will speak for myself when I say don’t get mad when you met the person doing what they’re doing but want to change them to view of family and friends.


Don’t make a person be or do something they are not ready for. Clue one is never play with someone’s pockets or family two never think you are above the law cause in this life everyone is not worried about the next person like the way people sit and wish they had a CIVIL RELATIONSHIP.


Moving forward like I tell the ones who hate, where you think I am talked about I am definitely wanted cause they BLOW UP ALL THREE OF MY LINES TRYING TO GET ME TO COME AND SNUGGLE.

Also to speed up the process HOW WOULD YOU WANT TO WEAR THE SHOE you can’t fit, BORING LIFE THE ONES THEY LIVE. To where they can’t resist on calling and meeting up with someone that never placed them in a bad position.

Did you mean blow up your 3 lines because they're trying to fuck? Don't fool yourself thinking it's something else, I yet to see a successful relationship where the woman fucks guys for a living and the guy is okay with it, unless he likes to eat other men's cum

Men value purity and youth, not the opposite! Since when did this change? Guys are trying to fuck, once we nut, we disappear until the urge kicks in again, this is not hate, just reality

[Pangolier]

Originally Posted by Sunshine Lovely

She probably doesn't want to give out her personal number for a reason especially if she only does this once in a while, wouldn't want men in the hobby contacting her main phone. Also, girls in this industry aren't looking to be in relationships. If we were we wouldn't be on hooker websites. Sometimes though clients can turn into friends ( with benefits ) but it's not what we're sought after. Maybe if you get lucky...

I would call my post a personal observation were it not for the fact that the SW I knew who gave birth to a child was working at the time she got pregnant, and the child does not belong to one of her clients. Now, how do you suppose that happened? Artificial insemination from an anonymous sperm donor? Or maybe we can talk about me noticing on an old regular's phone how she is is chatting with random potential "boyfriends" / dates on Bumble after we just got done fucking each other?


No, I have first hand knowledge that most SW are involved with a man in SOME capacity. If it makes you feel better to call the man a sugar daddy, boyfriend, or totem pole, I don't really care. But they only pursue guys who are significantly wealthy. It may be an on again, off again thing, but very very few out there will strictly have formal interactions with clients and absolutely nothing else.

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by Pangolier

I would call my post a personal observation were it not for the fact that the SW I knew who gave birth to a child was working at the time she got pregnant, and the child does not belong to one of her clients. Now, how do you suppose that happened? Artificial insemination from an anonymous sperm donor? Or maybe we can talk about me noticing on an old regular's phone how she is is chatting with random potential "boyfriends" / dates on Bumble after we just got done fucking each other?


No, I have first hand knowledge that most SW are involved with a man in SOME capacity. If it makes you feel better to call the man a sugar daddy, boyfriend, or totem pole, I don't really care. But they only pursue guys who are significantly wealthy. It may be an on again, off again thing, but very very few out there will strictly have formal interactions with clients and absolutely nothing else.

This is true in a regular relationship, women always date up while Men settle and date down. Here are a couple of clips showing how delusional the women of today are. Now throw I'm a hooker and want a BF to let me keep on fucking guys for a living LMAO 🤣

https://youtu.be/y4cSSNb027E

https://youtu.be/E0mzxb4Krc0

[Goodwood]

Hello RegalBeagal43,

Based on my own personal experiences in the HOBBY you will eventually regret this. Although it was when I first started Hobbying, I am guilty as charged myself and suffered more than one sleepless night because I subjected myself to believe what I wanted to believe, and it almost cost me EVERYTHING. Then, just as you I received some very sound advice.

First and foremost, what you need to understand is the providers are here for money and nothing more and their clients are here for sex and nothing more 98.5% of the time. I'm not saying there aren't exceptions, but they are few and far between. Why do you think they're called "HOOKERS" and you are HOOKED.

Second, as others have spelled it out for you, if she wanted something more committed, she would pursue it with you. You should be pleased that she doesn't contact you every other day begging for cash.

Last of all, I received the best advice of all from a poster named PHILDO. He explained to me that "I'm sorry to hear you have become a victim of Cinderella Syndrome". That's when someone wants to believe in something SO MUCH that they believe it's actually REAL. It hurt like hell to read it, but it changed my views and saved me THOUSANDS.

I hope my opinion helps you. Please don't ever lose sight of what this site is all about. You have received some very good advice from some very experienced people here. It's up to you to sift through it and make a decision. Use your head not your heart.

Best of Luck to You,
GW

[Stringtheory8]

Originally Posted by Flavor Gave

Catch flights not feelings.

Great line, I’m stealing this haha…

I’ve had a few real numbers over the years and friendships, but I think both sides in my scenario were pretty realistic and transparent about what we wanted… It’s a slippery slope that I wouldn’t say is advisable 99.9999% of the time, but I guess it depends on both the people involved.