GFE I have to know

[naughtynatale]

Just exactly what this includes or what you guys think it should include in this profession? Ladies I would appreciate your input as well. What do you offer as GFE? How far does GFE go? Some think it includes what I consider PSE. So I am just wanting some clarification here.

Don't be shy. There are no right or wrong answers here.

[jerl0817]

If the guy is clean, good breath, groomed (face and hair, not below) and smells good, GFE to me means lfk, bbbj and msog (encouraged) and multiple positions at a minimum, even if he's a hippo. So many times I have seen bad reviews on providers that I would place in this catagory and very much enjoyed thier company, only to be left wondering if the guy was stinky, smelly or just plain old vulgar. Who likes that? Now if a provider wants to take GFE a little farther with cim, greek and some other services, that's up to her. PSE seems to be just like it says PORN STAR Experience. I feel that is the big show with all the dirty talk, high energy and the not so run of the mill sex, especially when it comes to climax. That's why I always check reviews. I want to know what I'm getting into and I don't want to expect a provider to do something that they don't normally do, thinking that I'm some sort of prize and forgetting that it's a transaction.

[DallasRain]

good question!

I hate labels so I just call my sessions "The dallas Experience"...lol

i think a truely memorable session will include gfe/pse/and even a little fetish!!

[Sooper Lover]

Maybe it's just the romantic in me, but I think of GFE as being just that.....something like being with a girlfriend. Kissing, (preferably DFK over just LFK), BJ (Preferably BBBJ over CBJ), and multiple positions and shots. I guess making out like two teen-agers who know mom and dad will be home in an hour may describe it well But, like you, I may have a different definition and I hate to put a label on it. I try to provide a "BFE" to the lady I see, so that really makes the GFE just come along naturally. I show up dressed decent, freshly showered, and a fresh mouth. That alone should encourage a more "friendly" experience. GFE just may involve more than just the sex part. I think even conversation and foreplay will be part of a GFE.

Here is what I think GFE is not.....rushed, emotionless (even if faked), minimal contact, mechanical.

I'm a pleaser, so its a major turn-off if I feel that the lady is simply going through the motions. I can go through the motions with my hand. GFE should have some kind of a connection during our time together. Does this help at all??

[Murf76]

Sooper Lover,I think you hit it dead on. I appreciate the lady who wants to establish a mental connection along with the physicality of it all. That's why I try not to do 30 or 60 minute sessions. I would rather spend time getting to know the lady,or if I already know her,catch up with what's been going on. I am much more attracted to a lady that has a great sense of humor and can carry on a conversation.

[naughtynatale]

Dallas babe you are so right. I too hate the label thing. And why I asked this I was reading in an ISO thread about she did or did not provide GFE. I got to thinking is there an exact list of GFE. I personally don't think so. I mean with each real life BF I have had none of the relationships were the same. Well except with a bit of the chemistry that was in each one.

I mean if a girl is not into say Greek does that mean she is not GFE? Or if she does not do bbbj or DFK for example. That to me is silly.

Sooper I think your answer is very very good.

So what I am saying is there actually a set list that is required for GFE? In my opinion no.

And as always if you come looking like a slob then more than likely you don't care enough about yourself or me to be with me. Rude maybe.... but if you were going on a first second or even third date would you show up to take your girl out looking like that. Ok that is totally another topic. I have been known to hijack my own threads LOL.

[Maximillian55]

I think clear expectations, an open mind and good preparation are the keys to a beneficial encounter for both parties. N

[naughtynatale]

I agree those are good things to have in order to provide avoid time for all involved M.

[PAPA JOE]

.... i'm BFE, sexxy !

DFK, casual conversation, BBBJ ...

and i agree about the appearance and hygiene. i come to the session freshly showered and groomed, and i expect the same from the lady. i never have a set path for any session, i tend to let them run their own paths. sometimes GFE turns to PSE or fetish ..... variety is the spice of life !

[TheDoc]

GFE = my last date with Natale.
Although in truth I have never had a girlfriend do what you did on our last date!

[naughtynatale]

Originally Posted by PAPA JOE

.... i'm BFE, sexxy !

DFK, casual conversation, BBBJ ...

and i agree about the appearance and hygiene. i come to the session freshly showered and groomed, and i expect the same from the lady. i never have a set path for any session, i tend to let them run their own paths. sometimes GFE turns to PSE or fetish ..... variety is the spice of life !

Yes baby I know you are definitely a BFE.... You are the sweetest thang.

Originally Posted by TheDoc

GFE = my last date with Natale.
Although in truth I have never had a girlfriend do what you did on our last date!

Oh Doc.... you never forget your first... I am ready for round 2

[jerl0817]

I like what papa said. Let things take their course. Take greek for example. About a month ago I had a session that included greek in the menu. One thing lead to another and it seemed to be the thing to do. I am discouraged by ads that say GFE for xxx and PSE for xxx. Just cause something is on the menu doesn't mean you have to do it. But if you cash up extra for the PSE, you almost feel like you have to do it.

[PAPA JOE]

Originally Posted by naughtynatale

Yes baby I know you are definitely a BFE.... You are the sweetest thang.

you are too , Beautiful !!

[1Curiousguy]

The term GFE is indefinable. It means something different to every single one of us. Using the term in an ad SHOULD mean that the lady is going to be friendly, affectionate, and will do at least some basic minimum activities one would expect to see in a civilian encounter, e.g. DFK, etc.

But a true GFE cannot be defined by a bunch of abbreviations, it's an attitude, a connection, real or imagined, between the two parties involved.

Dallas is probably PSE to many, but for me she's very GFE no matter what we do because of how I feel about her and how she treats me.

Too many of us focus that GFE on activities and while there may be justification for it, it's really not what you do, it's who you are with and your interaction with that other person.

Sorry to be so long winded, but I can't help it.

[naughtynatale]

Originally Posted by jerl0817

I am discouraged by ads that say GFE for xxx and PSE for xxx. Just cause something is on the menu doesn't mean you have to do it. But if you cash up extra for the PSE, you almost feel like you have to do it.

AMEN

Originally Posted by 1Curiousguy

The term GFE is indefinable. It means something different to every single one of us. Using the term in an ad SHOULD mean that the lady is going to be friendly, affectionate, and will do at least some basic minimum activities one would expect to see in a civilian encounter, e.g. DFK, etc.

But a true GFE cannot be defined by a bunch of abbreviations, it's an attitude, a connection, real or imagined, between the two parties involved.

Dallas is probably PSE to many, but for me she's very GFE no matter what we do because of how I feel about her and how she treats me.

Too many of us focus that GFE on activities and while there may be justification for it, it's really not what you do, it's who you are with and your interaction with that other person.

Sorry to be so long winded, but I can't help it.

I agree 1CG I am just wondering especially from those who harp on that term why they have not spoken up here. All of ya'll have been very nice in your responses and I definitely appreciate all the input here. I just don't understand why some men (not ya'll) have to label things. Just enjoy the time you have with someone and let it flow where it may. Life is too short to be unhappy and once the moment is gone you can never get it back... it is GONE.

1CG honey I would not expect anything less from you... be long winded all you want darlin.