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Originally Posted by evietaylor
As far as the letters or terms, DFK definitely. To me, the kissing is very sensual and probably the most intimate act.
For me a true GFE involves some BFE too. I prefer to have plenty of time to talk, flirt, laugh, etcetera. This is what the GFE/BFE is all about. The flirting and brewing romance.
Maybe we go to dinner, have some wine, and indulge in delicious food. Whatever time allows. As much as you want me to be your 'girlfriend' for the night or few hours that you've booked with me, I want you to be my 'boyfriend'. So, indulge me and let the chemistry between us boil.
The few hours we have together should be all about chemistry, romance (if that's your thing), and me, the companion, surrendering to you. Treat me like I'm your 'girlfriend' and that is exactly what you'll get. Whether we spend an hour making out like teenagers or we have our clothes off before the door shuts behind us.  |
Evie has nailed it for me. [And may I add that she is merely describing how she approaches a date!] Kissing is an incredibly intimate experience and makes all the difference for me. I enjoy some foreplay before the clothes come off [and as they come off for that matter]. As I was getting to know one provider on a first date, she asked if she could sit closer, then came over and v-e-r-y seductively sat face-to-face on my lap. Still gives me shivers.
A little tension is a good thing and the longer that tension can be extended the better. It's not that I don't know what's about to happen ... but I'd like to suspend reality and for a few minutes pretend I don't know how far this date might go. And [this may really be suspending reality] I truly would like the lady to enjoy the time, as well.
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