If You Are Differently Abled, Unwell, or Otherwise Incapacitated

[Victoria of Houston]

Hey Everyone,

This issue has come up for me recently, and after some private discussions about it, I have decided to post publicly about it.

Mainly in an effort to hopefully bring awareness to the importance of such a thing.


Gents, if the provider you were going to see fell ill, was somehow differently abled, or was having some other sort of similar issue, would you not definitely need to know this info before you arrived for a sesh? Of course you would.


The same goes in reverse. It is unfair to expect a person to automatically handle such moments/issues. I feel, and I am sure other providers do, that should any such situation be present, it is your responsibility to inform us of it beforehand.

That way, if neither party is equipped or just down to handle such a thing, both people's time can get saved from being wasted.


And, along this strain, perhaps we should make a "Disability Friendly" provider list? This issue has come up for me from time-to-time throughout the years and I have always had to turn gents down, as I am just not willing to deal with such things. However, I know that many providers are ok with it. Maybe we can get a volunteer of someone who is willing to put this list together?

[TryWeakly]

Maybe you could so it since you have so much "time" on your hands..... js .... kinda like how Fancy so graciously and diligently handles the "newbie friendly" list ..

[Don T. Lukbak]

I think I'm in prodromal phase of Syndrome Gilles de la Tourette...do that make me an unperson in Rub-n-Tug Utopia?

[GlobeSpotter]

Op was super surprised when the trick showed up with three legs.

[Slitlikr]

Does this have anything to do with counterfeit handicapped parking placards?

[TryWeakly]

Wait, you can get a placard if you have 3 legs?

[NMEufdaST8]

I might be mentally unwell or physically incapacitated from time to time - like when a Houston sports franchise is in the playoffs - but my cash is always the same healthy shade of green.

[SpiceItUp]

This thread gives fucktard a whole new meaning...

[pyramider]

Why? The gimps need lub, too.

[Chlorine]

[spear89]

Gimp, blind, or Tard ?

[Wizzywig1026]

Nice thread, but why are the dickweeds give some bullshit response! Myself I find it a good topic,and no fuckheads, not sick or handicapped

[Bigjohnson1]

Shouldn't be a huge deal. If a guy is in wheel chair because he had his legs blown off in Iraq I can see a girl in RL thinking long term relationship might be a lot to handle but for an hour session I don't see how why it should be an issue

[Trey]

I don't think a list is needed. I would let the girl know beforehand to see how she felt. I guess whats a girls feelings on it anyway. Would you serve someone on say dialysis or in a wheelchair? Whats the stopping point?

[nikkivikkisix]

I've seen many disabled or ,"other needs" clients. They were always kind enough to let me know ahead of time. With enough information and my former medical background I feel confident I can handle what they need. I understand the OP's position though. Some disabilities require changes to a providers routine, and if its a surprise, then we can't accommodate their needs