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cnym · 01-08-2010, 08:01 AM

Not sure I like that idea. It will be like ecom and the ladies will give you something like this “Thank you sweetie, looking forward to seeing you again, I had a great time” blah... blah... blah
And when you think that she is saying that to you genuinely and you love it, you will quickly realize that she is saying something similar to all the guys.
No matter what escorts say or how well they treat hobbyists, it is all about the money. It is sad, no loyalty.
Sometimes someone else’s money is better than yours, go figure!!
(You have an appointment, it gets cancelled on the day off with “good reason”, and then you find out that she met with someone else)
I learned the hard way.
Thank you to all the Ladies that I have met over the years that still respect me and trust me, it is mutual.
Why would a companion say anything negative?

Guest021612 · 01-08-2010, 08:11 AM

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Originally Posted by jackfengshui

Hanna, I can think of at least one good thing about opening the review forums to the ladies. Just like in the Canadian boards, each lady being reviewed favorably will feel obliged to thank the reviewer profusely and mention how wonderful HE was. Wouldn't it be great?

Good point Jack BUT....I'd rather show my appreciation to you in private....nekkid!

Every one of you fine gentlemen is unique in your own way!

cnym....I'm sorry you feel that way. Even for the ladies, it's always good to have a 'plan b' if it's
an option. It's not always about the money though....at least, not for me.
It sounds like a lady canceled on you.. to see another gent? Not good in my book.
I've had that done to me....only to see him write a review of a lady the day of our previously scheduled
appt. hmmmm....would I schedule with him again? Not hardly.

offshoredrilling · 01-08-2010, 08:19 AM

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Originally Posted by jackfengshui

Hanna, I can think of at least one good thing about opening the review forums to the ladies. Just like in the Canadian boards, each lady being reviewed favorably will feel obliged to thank the reviewer profusely and mention how wonderful HE was. Wouldn't it be great?

And I sit here reading that thinking hay she said that to me.

Or what if she said "I got my grill going for that little wennie"

If a provider and I have something to say to each other that is not coed friendy, better in private. Many times in a provider hobby relationship we have learned things that we should not know about each other. I would not want things to come out in a hissy fit. That we should not know in the first place.

I do think it would work most of the time. I just fear the times that it dos not. So I think keep it as is, safer. And one would have less to worry about in the NO review.

If its good remark. I would rather she say that sweet nothing, wispering in my ear over posting it.

LillyLilly · 01-08-2010, 08:24 AM

I'm all for ladies being able to respond to reviews. It would be a good thing.

Hardpiped03 · 01-08-2010, 10:04 AM

I think the whole idea of the ladies being able to comment certainly opens up a can of worms, especially if the session was bad for some reason and a negative review is posted. This board is set up primarily for hobbiests to review providers and make a determination as to whether or not someone wants to see that given provider.

The standard requested for a review with great detail as opposed to a short impromptu review allows the hobbiests to get a feel for the personality of a provider, the setting, the way the activities unfold. As with all sessions YMMV but the Penthouse style reviews do offer the hobbiests a wealth of information.

Now I understand not all hobbiests are respectful, but that is why there are moderators. I think for the most part the reviews posted are typically accurate, respectful and postive.

I also assume there is an area of this board as with ASPD for the providers to have discussions. I assume that also helps them keep tabs on hobbiests. I don't see changing the format as being a positive thing.

Just my 2 cents.

HP

offshoredrilling · 01-08-2010, 10:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Hardpiped03

I think the whole idea of the ladies being able to comment certainly opens up a can of worms, especially if the session was bad for some reason and a negative review is posted. This board is set up primarily for hobbiests to review providers and make a determination as to whether or not someone wants to see that given provider.

The standard requested for a review with great detail as opposed to a short impromptu review allows the hobbiests to get a feel for the personality of a provider, the setting, the way the activities unfold. As with all sessions YMMV but the Penthouse style reviews do offer the hobbiests a wealth of information.

Now I understand not all hobbiests are respectful, but that is why there are moderators. I think for the most part the reviews posted are typically accurate, respectful and postive.

I also assume there is an area of this board as with ASPD for the providers to have discussions. I assume that also helps them keep tabs on hobbiests. I don't see changing the format as being a positive thing.

Just my 2 cents.

HP

This way one can do the NO, not my cup of tea, YMMV, was not good for me but can see why others would like. Or what ever type of review one would see fit for the time you had with her.
HP

LillyLilly · 01-08-2010, 02:22 PM

Well, sometimes the girls know "what really happened" or why a session went a particular way. Of course, a reviewer either doesn't know or realize if there was a problem or he does and simply won't be honest to his peers. I think it's time the board changed.

offshoredrilling · 01-08-2010, 03:08 PM

LillyLilly
As I am not a member of escorts.com. I can not read all of the review there. But before I made this relpy I looked at reviews of you on both eccie and escorts.
On escorts can you read all of the review of you?

On another board I am a member of the review can be set up so she can read all of the review or not at the writers wish. They are thinking to change that so she can not read all of the review at all, as here. I was the one of a very few that set so she could read all. She did not reply in post but in a PM and again over a phone call. ok done with edit

cnym · 01-08-2010, 03:17 PM

Now That is interesting. can a provider read all the review at escorts. I am sure they can read the "General Details", but how about the "Specific Details" section ? The responses by the providers are typical.... I look forward to seeing you again....

jackfengshui · 01-08-2010, 03:18 PM

cnym, they surely can!

cnym · 01-08-2010, 03:21 PM

Ok, the following can read the "Specific Details", the Reviewer, the provider and any VIP member. Correct?

viviantonight · 01-08-2010, 03:52 PM

I agree with Hanna, leave it alone. If there must be a change then maybe no replies to reviews by anyone!!!!! All this patting each other on the back seems a bit ridiculous. We all know that you saw her too and also had a great time. Over the past year I have really enjoyed reading reviews...but all the stuff that comes after seems to serve less of a purpose... just my 2 cents

offshoredrilling · 01-08-2010, 04:01 PM

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Originally Posted by jackfengshui

cnym, they surely can!

OK any member then

On that other site I belong to I did the review the same as would have on aspd and the 2 that I have here. Of the reviewers that are on both ECCIE and escorts. Do the review flow and read as they do here. Are they written in the same style. If the same writter dos it one way on ECCIE and another on escort.com, then I would have to say no leave it alone and as is here.

And Why can we not have both. How it is done on other sites and how it is done here. I would not like all sites to become cookie cutter the same.

please no names in reply unless it is self. provider or writter.

Guest091813 · 01-08-2010, 04:06 PM

Yes cnym you are correct, I can see the reviews written about me all the details included, however I cannot read all the details of another lady's review..
on another note..I didnt realize it bothered some of you that we would respond to the reviewer that we had a good time..perhaps I won't respond any longer and let the gent know I had a great time, or he is welcome to come back..
It may seem like the same or said more than once, however if I had a gret time..hey I had a great time. And I wanna see him again if he would like too. I dont believe its about loyalty to a client, as we all know this is a "hobby", and if we were all to be loyal to 1 person, well then there would be no "hobby"..
I also would like to say..I personally have never bumped one gent cuz another was coming along..Not my style..I have however been bumped for other providers ..(must be because of my lovely attitude!!!hahahahahahhah) sure I can laugh at myself , I know how I am..now in the event of us ladies being able to comment in the reviews..well (and I'm sure ya'll will be surprised with my answer)...I choose to not input on that..yep thats right..I am choosing not to voice my opinion..I believe that has already been decided by the owners and keepers of this site..How it will be is simply how it will be..If I have an issue with a certain gent, I'm sure ya'll know, I can get my point across..perhaps a lil to strong, yet it is whom I seem to be...

So thats my thoughts..thanks for reading them..nita..

offshoredrilling · 01-08-2010, 04:08 PM

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Originally Posted by viviantonight

I agree with Hanna, leave it alone. If there must be a change then maybe no replies to reviews by anyone!!!!! All this patting each other on the back seems a bit ridiculous. We all know that you saw her too and also had a great time. Over the past year I have really enjoyed reading reviews...but all the stuff that comes after seems to serve less of a purpose... just my 2 cents

I agree with that. But many time with that pat on the back is a private or ROS statement that you can not see as a provider. Most to ask if this or that part is right. Or to help me do better next time. And other things to many to list. Like hay dummie you got that wrong

Anita: I may not ever be able to hobby with you. I may have just fallen in love rather than lust with you on that post.. ok truth you still on my list to see maybe someday but love the post