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normalguy21 · 09-15-2017, 09:59 AM

Rodney Dangerfield said it best

I GET NO RESPECT

Just add even when its paid for.
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Being human on some level certain things will bother some and not others are a 180 .

My conclusion -It just must be my personality .

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I always repeat when good service is offered and there is a connection in my delusion are a great actress deserves a day time emmy .

Old-T · 09-15-2017, 10:13 AM

James & James, thank you both.

Audrey Astor · 09-15-2017, 10:35 AM

I don't care if my clients are "ugly". Hence, they are paying me. I know that there are much more beautiful women out there than me, so I have no place to be judgmental. I care that they are here for fun, are respectful, communicative, and clean. My favorites are not the most attractive, and I don't care. We have fun.

The only time I want to hand back their donation is if they have a roll that clearly has not been lifted and cleaned in a long time, bad BO, clearly have not paid attention to oral hygiene or arrive with a check list of activities and entitlement. Thank gosh, this is a rare thing. Most guys are on top of their game.

SweetDulce · 09-15-2017, 12:20 PM

Well let me try to clarify a bit. Since it seems some are missing my point.
Let's take references.
When another provider asks me for a reference,
I usually give a simple one-sentence answer, " yes he is a normal clean guy." And that usually suffices as for the reference.
The only time I give unsolicited extra information is if it's a good client that constantly is always tardy. Or if extra large condoms are needed because some girls don't always keep those around .
There are guys on my "don't see again list " because there was no chemistry , but I still give them references because in all honesty they were a safe clean client.
I would not want my negative experience to bias the provider in anyway. Because that's unfair.
I've seen lots of guys over the years and of course I'm not going to have a good session with everyone. And it's not all about the looks. But you guys are acting like it doesn't matter to us providers because we're getting paid .
there have been instances where I open the door and I think oh this is going to be boring. And I'm totally not attracted to the guy. Then after 15 minutes of being in the sack with him I'm like ,
oh hell yeah , this is a way better than I thought , how is this ugly guy so good in bed.? So my point is you obviously know what you are.
And if you're a very ugly old non sensual , non passionate man and you've seen a hundred beautiful women and only 2 of The Hundred were unable to fake the IOP and didn't give you a great session but we're professional and nice and clean , then why would you give them a no.?
You should keep that to yourself. Especially if you were somebody that other guys look to your reviews for solid information.
That is my point.

DallasRain · 09-15-2017, 12:39 PM

I am lucky. I love all men unless they are assholes... As an older provider I see alot of older heavy set guys....but they are the sweetest gentlemen!! (They are actually me "bread & butter")...I prefer them over the young buckstrong ones.......I am the least judgemental of anybody here....My theory is to just go with the flow and have fun in ANY situation...after all were here to make money and provide an erotically charged experience for the gents they are lacking at home.....a session can be as fun as you make it,no matter the situation....we ALL have flaws....my motto is I need a chubby hubby for my chunky monkey! So yall gals who don't like the "ugly and fat" guys send them my way..I will glady care of them!! Lol

VegasJen · 09-15-2017, 02:32 PM

Just a thought... I don't get this thread. Just speaking from my own experience, its no more difficult for us ladies to say 'no thank you' than it should be for the hobbiest. I have taken the time to get to know every potential client BEFORE meeting just to make sure we click. I have turned quite a few down ahead of time based on that. I wouldn't want to waste anyone's time with a session that wasn't fun for both of us. To me, that sounds simple enough. That said, there have been a couple instances where a meeting in person revealed a bit more than the prior conversations did and in those cases, I simply said I'm sorry, but this isn't going to happen. Have a nice day. No $$ exchanged because that decision was on me.

burkalini · 09-15-2017, 02:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SweetDulce

Well let me try to clarify a bit. Since it seems some are missing my point.
Let's take references.
When another provider asks me for a reference,
I usually give a simple one-sentence answer, " yes he is a normal clean guy." And that usually suffices as for the reference.
The only time I give unsolicited extra information is if it's a good client that constantly is always tardy. Or if extra large condoms are needed because some girls don't always keep those around .
There are guys on my "don't see again list " because there was no chemistry , but I still give them references because in all honesty they were a safe clean client.
I would not want my negative experience to bias the provider in anyway. Because that's unfair.
I've seen lots of guys over the years and of course I'm not going to have a good session with everyone. And it's not all about the looks. But you guys are acting like it doesn't matter to us providers because we're getting paid .
there have been instances where I open the door and I think oh this is going to be boring. And I'm totally not attracted to the guy. Then after 15 minutes of being in the sack with him I'm like ,
oh hell yeah , this is a way better than I thought , how is this ugly guy so good in bed.? So my point is you obviously know what you are.
And if you're a very ugly old non sensual , non passionate man and you've seen a hundred beautiful women and only 2 of The Hundred were unable to fake the IOP and didn't give you a great session but we're professional and nice and clean , then why would you give them a no.?
You should keep that to yourself. Especially if you were somebody that other guys look to your reviews for solid information.
That is my point.

It's very simple. If you had a good time then you give a yes. If the provider didn't act or do what she intimated she would then you give a no. You don't base it on other reviews you base it on your personal experience. We don't write reviews for the provider. We write them so other guys can evaluate if they want to spend their hard earned money for a session. I recently saw a showcase on a provider that had over 500 reviews and every one of them were a solid yes. I assume she did the best with what she had been dealt. We have bad days at work but if we refuse to work we get fired and most of us don't make hundreds of dollars an hour.

burkalini · 09-15-2017, 02:57 PM

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Originally Posted by DallasRain

I am lucky. I love all men unless they are assholes... As an older provider I see alot of older heavy set guys....but they are the sweetest gentlemen!! (They are actually me "bread & butter")...I prefer them over the young buckstrong ones.......I am the least judgemental of anybody here....My theory is to just go with the flow and have fun in ANY situation...after all were here to make money and provide an erotically charged experience for the gents they are lacking at home.....a session can be as fun as you make it,no matter the situation....we ALL have flaws....my motto is I need a chubby hubby for my chunky monkey! So yall gals who don't like the "ugly and fat" guys send them my way..I will glady care of them!! Lol

Attitude is everything and you have a great one.

SweetDulce · 09-15-2017, 03:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by VegasJen

Just a thought... I don't get this thread. Just speaking from my own experience, I have turned quite a few down ahead of time based on that. I wouldn't want to waste anyone's time with a session that wasn't fun for both of us. To me, that sounds simple enough. That said, there have been a couple instances where a meeting in person revealed a bit more than the prior conversations did and in those cases, I simply said I'm sorry, but this isn't going to happen. Have a nice day. No $$ exchanged because that decision was on me.

Because a lot of us are not going to prejudge like that. I said in my earlier post that what I have thought would be a regular plain session has sometimes turn into a surprisingly wonderful experience.

How could she have known that it was going to be a torture session without even starting the session?

DentBick · 09-15-2017, 03:59 PM

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Originally Posted by SweetDulce

There is a hobbyist in my town that reviews lots of girls. He saw me but never reviewed me. If he hadit probably would be a no.

He was one of the only very few guys that I've ever thought
"Hmmm, let me see, how can I get out of this ? maybe if I offer to give him a ration of the donation back he'll just leave and we can forget about this whole situation.
Now if it was hard for me to get thru the session and me being a mature lady, seasoned in this biz.. that was used to seeing older non handsome, big belly wrinkly fellas, I can only imagine how a young beautiful naive spinner would feel. A girl just like the one he recently gave a no to.

I cannot read Ros, but from the comments it seems like she wasn't into it and watching the clock .
Wow just like my session.
She was probably thinking like me .
"I want this to be over as quick as possible ,this is horrible." This is the worst ever.

I just had to write this thread because I hope that some of the guys that took to heart his no review will at least give the poor girl a chance and think about the fact that maybe it was not one single bit fun to her and more than work that maybe was torture

Damn that really sucks. I'm sorry that happened to you.

But what is a BA in nursing?

VegasJen · 09-15-2017, 04:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SweetDulce

Because a lot of us are not going to prejudge like that. I said in my earlier post that what I have thought would be a regular plain session has sometimes turn into a surprisingly wonderful experience.

How could she have known that it was going to be a torture session without even starting the session?

I don't pre-judge anyone. I take the time to email back and forth, talk, text, etc and get to know them first. Then we can both tell if our personalities will click. Looks have very little, if anything at all to do with enjoying someone's company. It takes a little extra time, but its well worth it.

SweetDulce · 09-15-2017, 04:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SweetDulce

Well let me try to clarify a bit. Since it seems some are missing my point.

And if you're a non passionate man and you've seen a hundred beautiful women and only 2 of The Hundred were unable to fake the IOP and didn't give you a great session but we're professional and nice and clean , then why would you give them a no.?
You should keep that to yourself. Especially if you were somebody that other guys look to your reviews for solid information.
That is my point.

Lol. Now I'm getting pms about how whores do not get to be choosy.

To my own private Troll Dentbick,

Bachelors of Arts.
Back in the day a few schools had nursing programs in Arts category and not Science.
Basically obsolete now.

And this is not about me . Stop acting like you don't have all my Yes reviews memorized!

SweetDulce · 09-15-2017, 04:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by VegasJen

I don't pre-judge anyone. I take the time to email back and forth, talk, text, etc and get to know them first. Then we can both tell if our personalities will click. Looks have very little, if anything at all to do with enjoying someone's company. It takes a little extra time, but its well worth it.

Well that is good if that works for you. I know there are some people like you and there was some people like me that actually have to have a face-to-face interaction for at least a good five minutes before I can tell if there's any chemistry at all. It actually takes me quite a while to not like someone

Guest033019 · 09-15-2017, 05:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by VegasJen

I don't pre-judge anyone. I take the time to email back and forth, talk, text, etc and get to know them first. Then we can both tell if our personalities will click. Looks have very little, if anything at all to do with enjoying someone's company. It takes a little extra time, but its well worth it.

Of course you do your $350hr !

Old-T · 09-15-2017, 06:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Amiliah Rayne

Of course you do your $350hr !

Amiliah, I am a little confused about your point/post.

Are you saying that Jen DOES pre-judge because of her rates? If that is what you mean, I really do not follow that logic. Rates are first and foremost an economic marketplace issue. Pre-judging or not is a matter of how you treat people.

If that was not your point, I appologize, and please take a moment to clarify. Thanks.