what are your thoughts about dating a provider?

[Dodobeans]

Fun topic. Has anyone done it? Pros and Cons? Short term vs long term?

[Theoldsarge]

Short term, like an hour. Anything else is trouble

[curtist196]

I got to spend the night with Angie from Blue spa in the month of March during the shut downs. She texted me and asked if I could pick her up. We had previously texted on and off. I was a repeat customer of hers in the past. I picked her up at the apartment she was staying at off Luna road. We got some take out food and alcohol and stayed at a nice 4 star Hotel for the night. We talked for hours using the Google translator because she did not speak hardly any English. She Skyped her family in Korea and talked to her little kids. I even talked to one of her relatives briefly. I got to see the real and personal side of this girl. She confided in me how she does not like what she does and wanted out. She showed me the Eccie page translated in Korean on the reviews of her and how she hated that. I tried to let her know that I did not judge her and that I thought she was special and someone I would like to get to know. She said no, that she was very damaged goods. Despite what someone might think I felt compassion for her even though she probably made more money doing what she does than I will ever see. I tried to treat her special by taking care of her and massaging her, but I could get the sense that she felt like she didn't deserve this. Finally after she was a little drunk we had an incredible session and she fell asleep in my arms with her big nipples against my chest while listening to music. I could not believe this was happening. She wakes up later and kisses me and we had another session together. It was so passionate, she even told me she loved me in broken English but I knew it was the moment and passion talking, not really love. Then in the early morning mamason called and she had to leave. She repeatedly apologized and did not want me to drive her home. She wanted to Uber and she refused any money from me. I was in awe of what had happed. There is more to this story but, it was an incredible night and I saw both the good and damage in this girl. I have wanted to tell this story for a long time, but the usual people on this board will say it never happed and call me a troll and question how many encounters I have had and so fourth. But it did happen and me and Jr. know it.

[theresalwaysaway]

It can't ever work, as you can see what was just posted
Some are damaged goods,others will use you for whatever gain you have wether is money or a greencard. In the one off chance its real and you "save her" so many stars and planets have to align but even then you can't ever reveal the true reason on how yall met, society won't ever accept her (if you care about that)
Its always best to never attach feelings in this hobby because it won't play out the way you want it in your head
She sold you a illusion and is great but thays not the real her

(I say this because some of my best times have been with bunny and the crazy star, and while I would love to have that on the daily,these women are people with emotions and I have never seen their true colors)
So keep it to a hour and hope they make a return so I can live that dream again one hour at a time

[Bestman200600]

They are women. They have feelings. They know who their friends are and appreciate being treated well. After the shutdown I had a regular that needed help and I spent 3 months with her. Good times.

[yellowfever567]

Well, I’ll tell you about my experience. I met a provider in 2012. I fell in love with her, even tho she was a working girl AND had a bf. After I showered her with affection and money she left him. We lived together....albeit difficult, and I made the mistake of getting her pregnant. The relationship was COMPLETELY toxic. Calls all day n night from clients, her refusal to quit. Bottom line I divorced her after 11 months of marriage. If not for our child I would have never married such a narcissistic person. We tried....I tried many times to get back together because of the baby, however, it was too much to bear.
Even as we were in the hospital ready to give birth, clients were calling. Bottom line, she took me for over 100 k, never truly loved me, my advice
STAY AWAY.
All you will get is a broken heart. These women are damaged beyond repair

[Dodobeans]

HOLY SHIT... THATS JUST ... WOW

[WizardsPeak]

Beautiful story. Thanks for sharing.

[yellowfever567]

If any of you had any idea of what I went through you would understand. After the baby was born, I had to work, then come home and care for the baby as she slept all day and her nanny said it was my job to take over. I will not even get into the days when she worked and swore she stopped performing sex act as to how many times I could see the discharge in her panties. She swore it was just a natural emission from a woman. Well I was married before and never saw that kind of discharge in my ex wife’s panties. Yes my experience was bad, perhaps others had better,. The continuous lies, the deceit, destroyed me. I’ll never recover.

[Dodobeans]

was this an AMP provider?

[yellowfever567]

Sub amp

[Bestman200600]

Some of these ladies come with a large debt to a promoter in Korea. Maybe she was charged 30K for a boob job, 6K for a plane ticket to the US. Paid her family bills and medical and charged 14% interest on the unpaid balance. A never ending life of payments to the promoter.

Many of these ladies paid $100 a day to an amp owner to be at the spa and $60 to 70 an hour for room fees making it tough for them to get ahead. Many are looking for a friend.

[farawayjoe]

I'm sure most of these women have stories behind them. I have sort of befriended a couple of them and I have found that they have lives outside the massage shops. The other thing I have found is that they are generally impersonal and strictly business.

I sometimes think the life ruins them as well as their customers. No one seems to see the viewpoint of the other. I see the way guys on here talk about the women they have seen and it seems that many of them view their customers in a similar way. Its sad.

[azngrllvr]

Went out with Dr Lee a few times. If anyone remembers her. Spent a few nights with her. We'r had a blast.
Then a few years ago I met a sub amp owner. Ended up living together a few years. Won't go into detail. But the breakup was horrible.

[Mental AtrraXXXion]

They just want your money. The feelings are fake.