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*GoddessDallas* · 03-19-2012, 03:40 PM

Some men I have met like to be watched Jacking off...
They don't necessarily want to have help...just being watched...
I will.
Who likes women to watch them jack off?

ElisabethWhispers · 03-19-2012, 03:55 PM

I LIKE watching and have done it for a few friends who I would have rather bedded instead. (They know who they are!)

But with that being said, for the guys who adore being watched ... what's the appeal for you?

Satyrrical · 03-19-2012, 06:23 PM

Being somewhat of a circus freak when it comes to satiation, I sometimes feel obligated to take over for a bit. Many ladies say it is a turn on for them to watch so then it becomes a turn on for me. Kind of a snowball effect (no pun intended

).

huskerz101 · 03-19-2012, 06:33 PM

i love to be watched , especialy if its getting the watcher wet

oglfp12 · 03-19-2012, 08:17 PM

Yes, I like being watched. I like watching her, too.

Fratelli · 03-19-2012, 08:48 PM

By itself, being watched jacking off does nothing for me. But watching her pleasure herself while she enjoys watching me is a turn-on.

DallasRain · 03-19-2012, 08:50 PM

hell yeah--that is so HOT!

soxfan · 03-19-2012, 08:55 PM

Mutual masterbation is so hot!!! I especially love watching a women pleasure herself

Hidaka · 03-19-2012, 09:34 PM

something I was told to be ashamed of , doing it and getting acceptance . totally turns me on . Like to have the girl hod my balls or the base of my shaft/

Centralarnewguy · 03-19-2012, 09:37 PM

Does a woman looking up at you while u jack off so u can cum on her face count as having her watching you jack off? Read my review in a couple days for the details, hehe

Ms. Athena · 03-19-2012, 10:12 PM

But of course it does, having a man pleasure himself while you watch is sexy hot.......

happybanana · 03-20-2012, 05:30 AM

soxfan, i am right there with you. couple of years back, i had a compete session with a wonderful and talented lady where it was all mutual masturbation..
I find watching a woman pleasure herself one of the greatest turn-ons, I recall seeing "last tango in Paris" when is was younger, and saw it for the first time and just fell in love with watching and being watched.

supersarge · 03-20-2012, 06:46 AM

One of my favorite things to do. Love the ladies to watch.

Dfwgent · 03-20-2012, 08:42 AM

Watching one another "get off" can be a very erotic funtime activity, and also instructive. If someone is slightly inhibited or self conscious it can help them to relax, and if you are watching it is always helpful to know those little tricks and techniques that your partner likes to use on themself. I have a friend who was very shy and self conscious about her body. We were at the park for an after work rendevous before she went home to hubby, and I convinced her that some mutual "Jackin and Jillin" while we watched one another would be fun. Needless to say it was very erotic given the location. The next time we were BCD and she riding cowgirl I teased her clit the same way I saw her play with it in the park and she had a huge eye rolling and squirting orgasm. It was the first time she had ever squirted and she said it was her first O ever, up to that time, and she had had three kids with the slam bam thank you mam hubby. I think her experience was a combination of being much more relaxed and comfortable with her own body after our Jackin and Jillin fun, and also my knowing how she liked to pleasure herself.

So have at it. "It can't hurt and don't cost nothing"

RickO'shayRabbitt · 03-20-2012, 08:46 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers

I LIKE watching and have done it for a few friends who I would have rather bedded instead. (They know who they are!)

But with that being said, for the guys who adore being watched ... what's the appeal for you?

I do like it. Even though most of my reviews indicate FS, I do not do FS. (If the lady offers it, I put it in the list of activities so everyone knows it was offered.) JO is a usually a big component of my activity, although not the only activity.

One reason, is at my age I don't quite as easily get aroused, and this takes me there. Then the appeal many times is a D/s sort of deal. I lose most inhibitions once aroused. She can verbally tease and taunt me, making me beg for certain things in order to achieve release. Of course, I'm looking at her while doing this which I guess takes me back to my youth when looking at Playboy.

Yeah, I'm weird, or kinky, or whatever. But I yam what I yam.

Anyway, that's more or less the deal for me.