Sometimes I wonder

[Harley Diablo]

Sometimes I wonder why I try to support the hobby and the only reason I can come up with is I enjoy meeting young ladies and enjoy new and strange.
As of late, I contact a nice young lady I have seen several times and we text back and forth and set a meeting in about half an hour. I text to tell her I am ready to head her way and wait for an hour and no answer. I then send a text and said no problem I guess you got a better deal. Shortly after she answers and said I am so sorry as I fell a sleep and I am so stupid. I said no problem not making the trip now.
Later talked with another lady and set up a time. We had numerous text and since she was new, told her who I was, my age, race and had some nice conversations. Set a time, I get there and text I am here. She comes back with what is your race and age. I laughed and said your kidding, and she 0h sorry.
Should have left but she was beautiful and a spinner body and I went on up. Not GFE and just not worth the effort so got mine and left. She asked for a review and the answer is no as I do not help with that type service.
Later get a text from another local I have seen and said she was just hanging out and wanted to know if I wanted to come see her and her girlfriend. We had already had that conversation as I did not want to do doubles so I just said no to busy at present.
I guess it is me but the lack of professional escorts seems to me to be a thing of the past.
No problem here as I have gotten to the point where I still enjoy the hobby but it is no longer a big part of my time and I seem to be less interested with the crap that I have to put up with to get a date.
Do not want to continue to rant but just my thoughts today as I would enjoy a meeting today but will wait until I see something worth putting my effort to see. Not much left for me to choose from.
Strange that the providers are saying it is slow but do not seem to grasp the situation and put more effort in securing the favors we offer. Guess I am to old school and just do not understand the business any longer.
Maybe I will wait for the Green new deal.

[EastTexasGrown]

Harley ...

Not sure if you can do this but it seems to work for me. I ONLY see those who I know have the TCB skills to follow thru with a future appointment. For example, this past Friday I set up my next play date for this coming Wednesday. There is a VERY HIGH probability this play date will happen 1)based on her reputation and 2)based on our past history. I have it in my mind that I want to play once per week. It helps me by scheduling a few days out ... maybe 5-10 days out. As previously mentioned, I only schedule with the ladies who have excellent TCB Skills but I also only schedule for a day and time that has HIGH portability of happening.

I then have 5-10 days to think about HER!! How special she is and why I want to spend my valuable $ on her. What makes her special!! Occassionally, either she has to cancel or I have to cancel. But these cancellations haven't happened that often. And when they do, my goal is to try my best to pocket the $ instead of making a quick decision to see another lady. I have learned that I normally regret those quick decisions.

But you have been at this a lot longer than I have. You possibly have already tried this. You are also in a different market than I. You also have different daily responsibilities than I that impact how you get to hobby. But I have found being able to focus my thoughts and desires for a few days on only ONE Chosen Lady helps me greatly with chemistry when we meet.

I also feel that the market is part of our problem. What I mean is there are so many choices!! When I found the CANDY back in August 2015, I am sure my eyes were huge. All of a sudden, I discovered I had a sweet tooth. What went wrong is I then discovered the CANDY STORE and all the choices I had!! Choices are good and choices are bad!!

It will be OK Harley. Find you a non-clock watcher and let her take all your worries away!!

[EastTexasGrown]

LOL ... Please do not take my previous ESSAY as my attempt to tell you how to do the hobby the right way. You do have just a few more reviews than I have and been at this linger than I. You know what you are doing. Just step back and refocus. Someone reminded me and I will remind you that this is supposed to be a HOBBY ... have FUN and then have more FUN!!

[Harley Diablo]

Thanks ETG and yes I agree with you. It is just bad market here as everyone feels we are unsafe in our area which is all bs based on my info but what do I know.
Yes I am more spur of the moment as I do not have a fixed time or certain things I enjoy as I change daily and go with the flow.
I have been told that part of what is going on here is my fault and may be but I just call them like I see them. I am too honest to a point but will not change. If it causes me to not get dates so be it.
One thing for sure, there is always someone that will take my money and I will take from her what I can get. lol
Have a nice day my friend.

[Horn^I^Dog]

Gents:

Sadly this is nothing new. I've been around since dirt. When I got here the gents that had been around always talked about the good old days. Things just change; the younger generation has different views.

There are still young, local girls that adhere to the old school. There are also a couple of MILFs. They understand the courtesan aspects of the hobby. I won't mention them in this thread.

Now, I will say that if all I'm gonna do is boink, it ain't worth the change.

HID

[cowboyup1960]

I learned a long time ago to take Chit is stride fellers. Ya win some. Ya loose some. And some get rained out. This hobby comes with its own fruckstrations. Just the way Chit is. This one flakes and the next one fucks. There is always a chance. As long as you stay in the game. Ats jus me.
It is frustrating to strike out over and over though.

[Nicky Wayne]

Every steric starts at one play ball.

[cowboyup1960]

Well now Harley.
Now that I’ve given it some thought ole pard. I believe I have the answer to the original inquiry my friend.
And the simple answer is biological my friend. Why do you bother to try to support this hobby? Like the rest of us you have issues that you seek resolution to.
In plain ole redneckism, ya dick gets hard pard. Simple as that. And as long as the condition persists I’m fairly confident that past behavior predicts future actions. And now that ya know a nice piece of pussy is potentially one (or two, maybe three or four or even a few more) phone call away. I suspect you and the rest of us will continue to resolve the issues as they arise the same ole way. Go for a quick poke, no strings no fuss and no muss. Just a mutually beneficial arrangement between a couple consenting adults. And get right back to the rest of ya life matters. Probably a round of golf and maybe a few beverages. Ain’t no sense in trying to resolve all the worlds issues. Damn world won’t listen anyway.
At least that’s bout the way I got it figured. But like some other old codger that lurks round these parts, I’m just an old wore out country (mouse) boy that don’t really know chit about chit. Ats jus me.