16. Never give out money before you get BCD (other than picking up the tab on dates of course). They will try, believe me, they will absolutely try. I'm working on one right now that is a full time college student and working two jobs. She's into me and we text a lot and she sends me cute selfies. She hasn't outright asked me for money but when I ask her to go out for lunch, her schedule is just too full. "If I didn't have to work that second job we could go out" is the vibe I've been picking up. She's telling me how much her car note is and how she needs to pay off her credit card. Like I'm just going to pay off her credit card or make her car note..... yeah, not happening till you put some work in. What's to keep her from bailing after I pay her car note? Nothing, that's what.
17. If you are single, get a burner phone. If you have an SO, I wouldn't recommend getting a burner phone, how do you explain the burner if she finds it? I created a "sugar daddy" gmail account and the bonus with gmail is you can use the gmail account to set up a Google Voice number, complete with your area code. I text all the time on GV number, I also set up my phone to *not* send me any notifications from the SD gmail account. I downloaded a third party email app and hid the icon in a folder on the last page of my phone. I have to manually check for texts. Also, the GV number does not ring, I set it up so I can't make or receive phone calls on it. Perfect for sugar baby contact. Highly recommend.
18. Beware of "Golden Pussy Syndrome." I'm sure most of you know what that is, but I'll explain for those that don't. GPS sufferers are either super-duper hot as fuck, gorgeous face and a slamming body, or they have delusions that they are. Either way, they are so unbelievably hot (or think they are) that you are lucky just being in their presence. The fact that they are even entertaining the idea of letting you touch them is considered a *huge* favor on their part. They are the worst BCD, they just lay there and do practically nothing but spread their legs. Kissing is out of the question, blow jobs are rare. I'm sure we've all found providers with GPS, trust me when I say GPS is a thing in the sugar baby world as well. And this might be a hard pill to swallow, but it needs to be said .... if you are hard on the eyes to an SB, GPS is much more likely to kick in. I'm not saying you need to be a handsome male model, just put some effort in for fuck's sake. Wear nice clothes, take a shower, shave, brush your teeth, put on some cologne, do something. Just make an effort to impress her because it counts, trust me.
Nothing pisses me off more in the escort world than a provider with GPS. I'd rather jerk off than fuck a smoking hot 10 with GPS. Same applies with sugar babies.
How do you avoid GPS? First of all, you go on two or three dates before BCD and pay close attention to her attitude. Is she trying to impress you or is it the other way around? Is she receptive to casual flirting? Does she flirt with you? Does she smile a lot? Does a hello and/or goodbye hug make her visibly uncomfortable? If she isn't trying to win you over and her attitude gives you the impression that you are lucky to be with her, proceed with caution. At the very least, lower your expectations.
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