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Dharma · 07-13-2010, 10:06 PM

I hear you Matador. I thought about that too. The fact is, it's not enforceable, in the traditional sense. I am only trying to come up with a way for the guys to tell the difference. Sometimes you like one thing and sometimes another. There will always be people who don't care, deliberately mislead (on both sides) and other. Eventually and not too far in the future there will be another person asking this same question. Is there a term or code we can use so guys can tell the difference?

We have acronyms for everything else. DATO vs DATO PSE vs GFE, ad nauseum. My thinking is to find a way to just tell the difference. The line will always be blurred but wouldn't it be nice to at least have a shot at getting what you're looking for? I suppose "enforcement" would occur the way it does with other things. If she doesn't really provide a real massage, word gets out. Just like if her pics show cleavage and leads you to believe there are extras but the only word she knows is "no" well, you get the idea. Most men who have had massage from trained individuals know the difference well enough to call a girl out on it. If not, well, there you are. Licensed practitioners are different. The set up is usually different, they know more, technically and practically, about massage. There's a list too long to go into at eleven at night.

It's not intended to apply some hard and fast rule. Do it or else! Just a way for you gentlemen to tell the difference, no matter which one you're looking for.

Oh, and this is a board thing or maybe we could also apply it on P411(for example). It's not intended to apply to BP or CL or any of that. This is just a simple idea and I'm trying to suss this out. I hear the complaints every day. Every single day. You men have spoken, you want a solution so I thought I'd take a shot at it.

THE LEGEND · 07-13-2010, 10:59 PM

I like professional massage= BASIC MASSAGE!!! Now how about STIMULATING MASSAGE=BO-R@%S!! I like some of my buddies here claim understand what THEY SHOULD BE GETTING!!! Of course TIP is first B4 ST-MSSG!!

Dharma · 07-13-2010, 11:37 PM

Legend, hi. Would you break that down for those of us who've been up for over 18 hours?

vnurse · 07-14-2010, 09:36 AM

LOL @ Dharma regarding Legend! I KNOW what you mean!

And yes, Matador makes very good points. I think we are having pipe dreams. Someone mentioned earlier about posting ads on BP in the legit section for massage also. Well, I have done that and believe me, you get LOTS of calls from gentlemen asking if you provide "extras" there. THAT is a bit scary. At least if they are calling from here, they seem to ask questions appropriately and such.

It seems that folks look for something that isn't there in more places than one more times than not. Sort of like the grass is always greener of sorts.

I may go in and update my P411 as Dharma suggested. I also changed my sig line. We'll see how it goes.

Bottom line is we (I THINK we) are just trying to make it easier for you massage guys to find us massage gals. Of course, we have all been here for so long that even the new guys should be able to find us with just a little research. I hope so anyway!

I sure hope everyone here has a great rest of the week!