How long do you wait....

[oldmarine]

in the parking lot after getting to an incall? On Saturday at around 5:30 pm I made an appointment for Sunday at 3:00 pm. At her request I sent a confirmation text a little after noon the day of and got a prompt reply. And, as requested, at 2:28 pm I sent a text as I was leaving home to drive to her place. I got there five minutes early but that is on me. I sent another text telling her that I arrived and got a response a few minutes later saying that she would be ready in one minute. Twenty minutes later I sent her a text that I was leaving and went on back home.

After waiting twenty minutes I was upset and not in the mood anymore. Her excuse was that she had been arguing with a family member so I felt that she would not have been in a good mood either and that the session was doomed before it started.

What is your take on that? Was I being unreasonable?

[Look-at-Stupid]

Nope, I was recently dumb enough to wait over an hour..once u are no longer in the mood, it is a waste of money

[L.A.]

I don't have a hard and fast set time....it's more circumstantial As long as communication is flowing I'm WAY more patient. If communication is dark I'd say 20-30 minutes tops and I'll just drive around or play on my phone then drive home in disbelief lol.

The longer I wait the more I'm not in the mood and likely makes for a bad session. In the hobby world radio silence is about the most frustrating thing to put up with.

[Vanilla Gorilla]

I wait a total of ten minutes after I arrive.

When I arrive I send a text announcing my arrival and request the room number. "I just arrived send me your room number and I'll be up in five minutes".

If I'm given ANY EXCUSE (all lies) or no reply I send my final text five minutes after my initial text stating "I'm Leaving in five minutes". And then I leave. PERIOD.

No one should ever have to wait more then ten minutes for a CONFIRMED rendezvous. That is so FUCKING RUDE that its UNREAL!

There are hundreds of other sluts competing for your cash. I suggest you gentlemen do the same and don't EVER put up with that shit.

[EZ12LUV]

I was dumb enough myself to wait an hour, just to be cancelled on. Was pretty hot but I was a dumb ass, won't ever do that again. I just decided to stop seeing that provider as she was the worst on being tardy. As long as I get some communication I'll give it 20 minutes.

[suiram77]

Originally Posted by oldmarine

in the parking lot after getting to an incall? On Saturday at around 5:30 pm I made an appointment for Sunday at 3:00 pm. At her request I sent a confirmation text a little after noon the day of and got a prompt reply. And, as requested, at 2:28 pm I sent a text as I was leaving home to drive to her place. I got there five minutes early but that is on me. I sent another text telling her that I arrived and got a response a few minutes later saying that she would be ready in one minute. Twenty minutes later I sent her a text that I was leaving and went on back home.

After waiting twenty minutes I was upset and not in the mood anymore. Her excuse was that she had been arguing with a family member so I felt that she would not have been in a good mood either and that the session was doomed before it started.

What is your take on that? Was I being unreasonable?

Great thread OM, but for me it just depends on who I'm waiting to see. I will wait hours for Laura Lynn , but 15 mins is all I'm going to give. I usually have a plan B anyway so I don't trip it about to much.

[oldmarine]

Originally Posted by suiram77

Great thread OM, but for me it just depends on who I'm waiting to see. I will wait hours for Laura Lynn , but 15 mins is all I'm going to give. I usually have a plan B anyway so I don't trip it about to much.

I don't care who she is, I am not going to wait more than twenty minutes. Some of these women think that we need their pussy so bad that we will wait until they are good and ready. It is rude in the extreme.

[LordoftheRim]

15 minutes max although I've never had to wait anymore than 5-7 minutes and I start getting irritated at the 5 minute mark.

[OneStarLuck07]

I've been very fortunate so far to not really experience this yet. Most I've waited after arriving at the incall to get a response is maybe 5 minutes after sending my arrival text.

I've had cases where a provider texted me a hour or two before the time to let me know they were running late and if I could push it back 30 minutes and it would promptly start at the new time. I can live with that. If I ever got to the incall and they asked to wait 30 minutes, I would be pissed since my windows are small.

[daggajones]

depends on a few variables for me. If there is good communication, I'll stick around but go to another location, grocery store, mcdonalds whatever - but I'm not waiting in their parking lot.

No communication... you've either been double booked or dealing with a flake and I'm gone after 15 min max. Even if this is a repeat provider for me.

However if at any point your 'spidey senses' alert - bail without hesitation.

[Gbfsl]

No matter who it is, 15 minutes is my maximum wait time. I have never had a good session when I have had to wait longer than that. And to wait that long these days it would have to be someone I had seen previously. My "play time" is often limited and if they can't respect my time, I will move on.

Next.

[oldmarine]

Originally Posted by daggajones

depends on a few variables for me. If there is good communication, I'll stick around but go to another location, grocery store, mcdonalds whatever - but I'm not waiting in their parking lot.

Point taken on not waiting in their parking lot. Usually I will go somewhere close by to wait so don't take that too literally.

[lda523287]

You weren't being unreasonable at all. I'm mostly outcall, but when I do incall, 15 minutes is my standard.

Semper Fi Marine!

[Charlie Brown]

Originally Posted by oldmarine

in the parking lot after getting to an incall? On Saturday at around 5:30 pm I made an appointment for Sunday at 3:00 pm. At her request I sent a confirmation text a little after noon the day of and got a prompt reply. And, as requested, at 2:28 pm I sent a text as I was leaving home to drive to her place. I got there five minutes early but that is on me. I sent another text telling her that I arrived and got a response a few minutes later saying that she would be ready in one minute. Twenty minutes later I sent her a text that I was leaving and went on back home.

After waiting twenty minutes I was upset and not in the mood anymore. Her excuse was that she had been arguing with a family member so I felt that she would not have been in a good mood either and that the session was doomed before it started.

What is your take on that? Was I being unreasonable?

I hope not and surely it's not a former Marine curse as I felt like I was reading my own post when I read yours.

There's more than one of these girls who do this exact thing more than actually meet guys it seems. Way weird. One of them I know does this what appears daily. I'll not publicly flog them relentlessly, it's not pleasant and it helps little..

PM if you want to know who they are. I've already pointed them out more than once. Happens once or twice - things happen - happens routinely - we got a shit for brains in the house !

Lack of respect and a horrible business sense is my best guess.

I get it ! I show up on time EVERY-TIME. It's important to me for a lady to know she can depend on me. It makes the session much more comfortable. More than once I've had veteran ladies tell me they rescheduled or cancelled with other guys because they knew I'm solid.

15 minutes tops with silence.

" OOHRAH " !

[johnspice]

After 5 minutes of silence, I let her know that I am leaving in exactly 10 more minutes, and that's it.