hesitations about "screening"

[simpleton]

Sometimes you have to start off with ugly providers and work your way up. Just kidding.

[London Rayne]

Once a guy has enough reviews under his belt, all a lady has to do is start asking questions. I mean it does not take a rocket scientist to screen and do so efficiently. I click on the review tab under his avatar, and start contacting all of those ladies. I don't have to "wait" for him to email me their names and website links when that info is right there for me to use. I normally call 3 of the refs, or only one if it is someone I know. The benefit of being a national provider is you meet lovely ladies in every town you visit...I make it a point! Hell I even have 2 utr ladies who helped me in Paris and Valerie is a go to if I ever tour in London.

Every time I see a guy has seen one of the women I know personally, it makes screening a hell of a lot easier. For the OP, at "this point in time" I would highly suggest using P411 or Date-Check, because some women will see you with no checks by your name.

[Ed Highlight]

Originally Posted by nylimey

and how is that Ed?

Originally Posted by Naomi4u

I can confirm this.

Actually, I've been extremely lucky in that my first real hobby experience was with a wonderful woman with whom I developed a fantastic personal relationship and through her I was able to meet others that would provide me a glowing reference. She also introduced me to ECCIE where I continued to develop personal relationships with the likes of Naomi, Valerie, London, etc. way before ever meeting them. Once we did actually get together BCD, there are no better references than those ladies, in addition to my previous references. I also chose my companions very carefully. So when it comes time for me to have the oppurtunity to meet with a provider, we know quite a bit about each other and my references are impecable. Now I have quite a few providers that have traveled to or will be traveling to Connecticut, just to see me!! I've been very lucky!! I suppose that if I were starting out today, I would probably join P411 - But right now, I can survive off my reputation and I kind of like that better.

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by Amber Rain

Well, see that's where you don't have to. You have established yourself on the board. The only thing that I personally would ask for is a way to let each provider remember you specifically... whether it was a spilled drink on her floor.. knocked something over.. a specic convo you had with someone... did you meet for drinks..

No personal info needed on someone with a history on the board already.

Amber Rain

Would taking a dump at the incall be considered memorable?

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by Ed Highlight

Now I have quite a few providers that have traveled to or will be traveling to Connecticut, just to see me!! I've been very lucky!! I suppose that if I were starting out today, I would probably join P411 - But right now, I can survive off my reputation and I kind of like that better.

Yesss! I traveled to see Ed in CT and it was an AMAZING time! . He's awesome guys/gals!

[Chica Chaser]

Originally Posted by pyramider

Would taking a dump at the incall be considered memorable?

Certainly got Monica's attention!

[nylimey]

Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Yesss! I traveled to see Ed in CT and it was an AMAZING time! . He's awesome guys/gals!

so, from a provider's point of view, what makes for a fantastic client time?

[pyramider]

I would guess:

clean
polite
punctual
and finishes within 3 minutes

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by pyramider

and finishes within 3 minutes

I spent all day with Ed. The date was from 2pm - 9pm.
I counted 5-7 rounds btw and they were more than 3 minutes each.
Just saying.

[pyramider]

Better quit pimping Ed . . . All the fucktards are going to start blowing his phone up trying to get an appointment.

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by pyramider

Better quit pimping Ed . . . All the fucktards are going to start blowing his phone up trying to get an appointment.

[automanworld05]

So how does p411 actually do the screenings? It looks like you fill out the app and either give 2 references or your work info with phone numbers.So assume they call your work and verifiy you work at the facility, what else? this IRS info stuff sounds way over board...

[sensualsanaa]

I agree with the fact that if you're concerned with who has your personal information do your research into her. Make sure shes not bat shit crazy. Make sure she doesnt have any alerts or isnt potentially a stalker. What I dont agree with is that a woman who doesnt screen should give you more of a reason to worry. For a few years I didn't screen. It wasnt because I didnt care, it was because I didnt know how! Keep in mind, a girl cant just show up and join p411, she has to get reviews. Now being on the board does make screening a lot easier for those guys who see indy and not AMP and who actually post and arent lurkers. If you're reluctant to join p411 or date-check (which is free for a trail period with references) then building a solid report here on the board and maybe meeting with a few newbie friendly ladies would help. References are really the key here!

[Cpalmson]

Originally Posted by nylimey

but then, how did you gain your experience to be 'known on the board'?

Before this board, there was ASPD which is no defunct. I (like most others) migrated to this board. Back to ASPD, I stumbled onto the site when visiting Texas. I saw a newbie friendly provider that advertised on ASPD. Screening for this date was painless because it essentially didn't occur. The provider saw me, and I wrote a review. Next time I was in Texas, I went to an AMP and wrote a review. By this time, ASPD kinda went under, but I had two reviews on the site (as well as "companion" reviews on other Escort boards). I then saw a Canadian provider on a trip to the Great White North. When I asked if I could pay in US dollars, I guess that passed her screening. Voila, I now have 3 reviews in cyberspace. By now, ECCIE is where I migrated to where I came across a provider who is on multiple sites. She asked for references, and I gave her the 3 names/phone numbers that I had. I saw her and got my 4th review which also got me an automatic vouch to see one of her friends which led to a 5th review. Soon the sessions and the reviews begin to pile up. It is like the "Six Degrees of Separation". I see one provider and she tells another provider and so on and so on and so on. The toughest nut to crack is getting your initial few references. I lucked into a no-screening/light screening situation to get me first references. Another way to get "known" is to be a frequent poster on the board. If active, you get "known" Additionally, when I contact providers, I tend to have an on-going e-mail "discussion" with the provider. I do this to let her get a feel for my personality and the same for me-- get to know her. The bottom line; if you treat a provider like an actual potential date, you greatly increase your odds of her liking you/getting to know you. When this happens, she may make her screening less intense.

Originally Posted by London Rayne

Once a guy has enough reviews under his belt, all a lady has to do is start asking questions. I mean it does not take a rocket scientist to screen and do so efficiently. I click on the review tab under his avatar, and start contacting all of those ladies. I don't have to "wait" for him to email me their names and website links when that info is right there for me to use. I normally call 3 of the refs, or only one if it is someone I know. The benefit of being a national provider is you meet lovely ladies in every town you visit...I make it a point! Hell I even have 2 utr ladies who helped me in Paris and Valerie is a go to if I ever tour in London.

Every time I see a guy has seen one of the women I know personally, it makes screening a hell of a lot easier. For the OP, at "this point in time" I would highly suggest using P411 or Date-Check, because some women will see you with no checks by your name.

Very well played and smart-- use the info at your fingertips to make things easier on us all