"Classifying" men who see TS providers

[TestingLimits]

Some people have made their position quite clear, but I am curious to hear from more people.

I also think there is more interest in transexual (or transsexual) providers than people realize.

Edit: for the #2 choice, I should have written "Yes, but I don't care as long as they are safe". That was my intent of the answer.

[AdventureAdams]

As long as providers and clients are safe I have no room to judge. Yes, there would be a little hesitation on my part, if I found a potential client has seen TS- but it would not be a deciding factor for me.

[TestingLimits]

You answered before I finished the poll Want to weigh in on the question?

[Mojojo]

It's not my job to pass judgment on them. Everyone here (esp in this forum) enjoys a fetish of some sort so i dont find anyone weird for enjoying things I don't. To each their own.

[AdventureAdams]

liking TS does not make you gay nor does anal pay there is a big difference between that and being sexually attracted to the male sex IMO

[Mature Companion]

What's there to *classify?* about men who enjoy TS???

What an individual does BCD with *whomever* he so desires. Is no ones business but his. And men who desire the pleasure of a TS don't need to be subjected to being called out for it (called gay, or be told they shouldn't see a companion again,/or put in some classifying category. That's beyond pathetic & ridiculous!


WALDT. That's the beauty of being an adult and enjoying adult pleasures in this adult lifetsyle!


FYI, I would much rather enjoy a man who's open-minded, uninhibited and enjoys pleasures outside the norm, with a TS. Than be with a vanilla boring man who doesn't know what it means to be open mined & enjoy uninhibited pleasures beyond the sucking & fucking.

Originally Posted by TestingLimits

Some people have made their position quite clear, but I am curious to hear from more people.

I also think there is more interest in transexual (or transsexual) providers than people realize.

Edit: for the #2 choice, I should have written "Yes, but I don't care as long as they are safe". That was my intent of the answer.

[Ms. Athena]

To each his own.....We are ALL in the hobby to get our needs meet, SO whom are we to judge others? Its all about having fun and fulfilling out needs is it not?? I have a fantasy about fucking a Tranny, I think it would be So FUCKING HOT!! Are you going to judge me for that as well??

[AllisonofHouston]

I had a Tranny roommate once and we fooled around a couple of times it was pretty hot ..

[Ms. Athena]

Originally Posted by AllisonofHouston

I had a Tranny roommate once and we fooled around a couple of times it was pretty hot ..

LOL Damit, Im SOOO jealous, Pretty face, Boobs and a COCK...What more could a girl want in a roommate...............

[Reya Sunshine]

I'm not sure they would necessarily be "gay" but I think they wouldn't be "straight" in the strictest sense of the term unless the TS was an after operation one who was taking hormones and functioning 100% as a woman(or man) . In some cultures they call TS's "the third sex" as in they are not male or female so being attracted to them wouldn't fall into the same gay/straight situation.

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by Reya Sunshine

I'm not sure they would necessarily be "gay" but I think they wouldn't be "straight" in the strictest sense of the term unless the TS was an after operation one who was taking hormones and functioning 100% as a woman(or man) . In some cultures they call TS's "the third sex" as in they are not male or female so being attracted to them wouldn't fall into the same gay/straight situation.

Thank you for actually sticking to the OP and answering the question. The guy wanted answers and not for us to beat around the bush. I totally agree with Reya here. A year ago my answer would be different. However, life isn't black or white.

A man that sees a female escort and also sees a TS is not gay. He is technically bisexual (doesn't matter whether they're pre-op or post op). As a woman, I can make babies. A TS cannot make babies so she's not 100% woman and to say otherwise is being pretentious. There was a poll/thread on another site where a group of guys that did this claim to be straight and I felt they were in denial.

However, I will agree with the others that say this should not matter. Society classifies us enough. We don't need to classify people in the hobby. And while we're on the subject of transexuals, I saw a super HOT TS while surfing eros the other day.

[pollack]

Large elements of the general population loudly denounce anyone involved in the hobby, at least publicly. For those of us actively involved, judging another based upon their hobby choices sounds a lot like pot, meet kettle.

[Guest082513-02]

Originally Posted by Ms. Athena

LOL Damit, Im SOOO jealous, Pretty face, Boobs and a COCK...What more could a girl want in a roommate...............

+1 !!

[Krunkman]

For clarity, it might be better to further define a TS. There are pre-op and post-op. And that can make a world of difference in how a person answers the question.

Like it or not, society and people in general DO tend to classify people based on what is between their legs. I don't see the need for this to degenerate into a argument of sex vs. gender, but generally speaking most people tend to follow penis = boy, vagina=girl rule for gender classification.

[houston_switch]

Who cares? If two people want to play with each other, why should we care? As a society we need to be more open and less judgemental.