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Old 05-06-2020, 01:28 AM   #1
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Are there any hands on "female sex coach"? I would think that men who don't feel very confident in their skills in the bedroom, to be able to pay a woman to give a hands on session or session hot shit to have a beautiful woman offer help
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Old 05-06-2020, 12:01 PM   #2
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It would be interesting to see someone try offering services as a sex therapist.
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Old 05-06-2020, 12:08 PM   #3
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I've actually thought about doing this.. the problem is a lot of men do not like to admit that they are not confident in this area and you definitely don't want to approach them you want them to approach you
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Just surfing the net, I've happened across a couple of sites where sexual surrogate services were available. I think this type of service is offered more frequently on the West coast, where attitudes toward such therapies are more relaxed.
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Old 05-07-2020, 04:06 PM   #5
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I've actually thought about doing this.. the problem is a lot of men do not like to admit that they are not confident in this area and you definitely don't want to approach them you want them to approach you
It's actually been a fantasy of mine for quite a while to engage a sexual surrogate or mentor and play the role of student eager to learn. I've never had any complaints about my sexual talents and I'm confident in my abilities, but I love learning new things, too, so why not get schooled by an experienced, seasoned professional? And maybe there will be homework!
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Sienna, I would totally be down for that service. When you get back to KC, lets set that up.
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Are there any hands on "female sex coach"? I would think that men who don't feel very confident in their skills in the bedroom, to be able to pay a woman to give a hands on session or session hot shit to have a beautiful woman offer help
Learn the stages and signs of arousal. It is different with each lady. She should be able to give direction on what she likes.
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Maybe off topic a bit bit, I was seeing a therapist for some emotional issues a few years back. After seeing her for about a year I starting day dreaming about things like fucking her tits, eating her pussy and fucking her mouth. At first they were passing thoughts then after a while I had several sessions in a row where the whole time I was visualizing fucking her in one form or another. I finally thought, what the hell, she is my therapist I should just tell her. So I did. Part of me really hoped that would lead to fucking her.

I told her that most of the time when she talked I was intense watching her mouth move and pretending she was sucking my penis. I told her when I lowered my eyes I often was staring at her breast or wishing I had my head between her legs. She showed no reaction and told me some thing about some kind of misdirected something or other.

During the next couple of sessions I told her that i still wanted to fuck her, but she pushed the comments aside. About a month later she discontinued our sessions. So I asked if that meant we could fuck. Still no.
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I've actually thought about doing this.. the problem is a lot of men do not like to admit that they are not confident in this area and you definitely don't want to approach them you want them to approach you
As I’ve aged I’m not sure so much with me if it’s confidence related potentially not being able to get it up or what. But the last few sessions I had with providers I felt the need to tell them I am struggling with erections so what ever you can get out of me would be good. So I really only saw providers that I was very comfortable with toward the end of my job Hong.

In many ways it is a beautiful thing to be able to share touching bodies with a sexy woman with the understanding that we can try but if I don’t get it up it can still be a wonderful thing.

So even though they are not truly sex therapist a couple of my provider have provided me with safe environments of touch and caress.
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Sienna, I would love to have you teach me when you are in KC. Please let me know if you're coming to KC.
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... She showed no reaction and told me some thing about some kind of misdirected something or other.

During the next couple of sessions I told her that i still wanted to fuck her, but she pushed the comments aside. About a month later she discontinued our sessions. So I asked if that meant we could fuck. Still no.
I think the term that psychologists use is called 'erotic transference'.

Even if she was attracted to you she probably didn't want to risk throwing away her career and her PhD and potentially go to jail in order to have sex with you. Even if she terminates the sessions, I think the legal limitations still continue.

It still sounds pretty interesting I guess she was hot.
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Just surfing the net, I've happened across a couple of sites where sexual surrogate services were available. I think this type of service is offered more frequently on the West coast, where attitudes toward such therapies are more relaxed.
From time to time I work as a surrogate with a talk sex therapist. My experience is limited, but this is usually for people that have deep problems with sexuality for a wide range of reasons. Again....my experience is limited, but I also have to take notes and go with what the therapist thinks is okay for the patient. Basically, if the patient can comfortably have sex with someone, they do not need a surrogate.

With that said and now speaking to the OP, I feel that if you approach each woman with curiosity you will be coached. Rarely, do men ask me if I like what they are doing, but if you do ask and are honestly willing and curious you will get a coached, lead and guided. I have a big mouth so it doesn’t matter if anyone asks.....lol...they will get a instruction regardless.
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lovingC 😂😂 "doesn’t matter if anyone asks.....lol." Same here
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Well aren't we gals sex therapists?
I have coached a lot of gents in the ways of "another realm" lol
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