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Old 04-28-2020, 05:17 PM   #31
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No other place to get great advise than a hooker board!!!!
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Old 04-28-2020, 06:02 PM   #32
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I agree.
Also, if you get married again marry a girl who likes girls on the side for a little fun every now and then.

Sigh, sounds fun until they drift into full lesbianism. At least my tongue would routinely get a good workout.

Also at least my SO doesn't give two fucks if I get an escort or girlfriend provided the retirement savings stays intact and I don't bring someone home, so there is that. However some days I wish I was married to a passionate, jealous woman.
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Old 04-29-2020, 12:01 PM   #33
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Sigh, sounds fun until they drift into full lesbianism. At least my tongue would routinely get a good workout.

Also at least my SO doesn't give two fucks if I get an escort or girlfriend provided the retirement savings stays intact and I don't bring someone home, so there is that. However some days I wish I was married to a passionate, jealous woman.
Agree - you have to watch out for that potential conversion to lesbianism but just chase other girls til she comes around.
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Old 04-29-2020, 01:28 PM   #34
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Completely agree, it’s only cheating when our partner doesn’t know about it. Solve the problem and conquer the world together! It’s truly an amazing experience.
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Old 04-29-2020, 02:02 PM   #35
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continue on, but learn to be like a Cat, and cover up your shit after you take one.
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Old 04-30-2020, 04:43 PM   #36
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How is it selfish if you want to leave? Lay low for a while give her your full love and attention until things settle down, then get back into the hobby but me more cautious this next time around ❤️
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Old 04-30-2020, 04:54 PM   #37
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Didn't even know this site existed until separation. All the papers are filed. I put everything into my marriage. She failed me. In every way a wife could fail. I was always around through the bad times taking care of all the bad things. Then she checked out. So now I get to see what else life has for me. Not a cheater. I am now just a pleasure seeker
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Old 05-01-2020, 12:10 PM   #38
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I have never been caught.

I have also been very discrete, careful.

In 1985, in our fourth year of marriage, my wife decided that she no longer wanted to have sex. She became celebrate that year. She kept telling me that we would have sex again someday, just never now. I kept trying to please her and convince her to have sex with me. It took me twenty years to finally sink in that she honestly does not want to have sex ever again.

Now I am an old man.

All of my youth was wasted, trying to convince my wife to lay with me.
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Old 05-01-2020, 02:29 PM   #39
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Retiredsubmariner,I didn't have it quite that rough but still my story is not much different. I bet you passed up some good opportunities at various ports of call.
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Old 05-01-2020, 06:54 PM   #40
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I have never been caught.

I have also been very discrete, careful.

In 1985, in our fourth year of marriage, my wife decided that she no longer wanted to have sex. She became celebrate that year. She kept telling me that we would have sex again someday, just never now. I kept trying to please her and convince her to have sex with me. It took me twenty years to finally sink in that she honestly does not want to have sex ever again.

Now I am an old man.

All of my youth was wasted, trying to convince my wife to lay with me.
This is really, really sad. I hope you've enjoyed the escorts, and get to visit many more!!
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Old 05-02-2020, 06:52 PM   #41
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Retiredsubmariner,I didn't have it quite that rough but still my story is not much different. I bet you passed up some good opportunities at various ports of call.
I learned that I am 'demisexual'. I need to like a girl emotionally before I am attracted to her physically. One night stands do not work for me.



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This is really, really sad. I hope you've enjoyed the escorts, and get to visit many more!!
That is my hope.
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Old 05-02-2020, 09:11 PM   #42
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my 2 cents. do you have kids? if so stayed married; regardless of their age.

lay low for a few months. see how things mend. work on the relationship. if you feel you need to - go back to the hobby but cover up your tracks. and double triple check you are covering your tracks.

dont force the hobby back on yourself; but dont deny pleasure if she ain't giving it.
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Old 05-02-2020, 11:52 PM   #43
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I learned that I am 'demisexual'. I need to like a girl emotionally before I am attracted to her physically.
Wow that is a coincidence as I am demisexual and sapiosexual.
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Old 05-03-2020, 12:37 AM   #44
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what is demisexual... for those who don't know.

https://www.bustle.com/articles/1552...-as-demisexual
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Old 05-03-2020, 07:21 AM   #45
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I’m definitely sapiosexual, although I didn’t know there was a word for it.
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