Ref's given ONLY if a hobbyist gives a review?

[Guest112916]

Everyone's entitled to run their business as they see fit. These sites are here for the guys, not the girls. We decide who thrives and survives by spending our hard earned money on those who provide a good service, aren't cunty bitches, pimps, or drama queens. It does not matter if you're 18 or 80. providers come and go, Hobbiests will always be here. Those of us who have been here for years see gals come & go. But the one constant is always there. The good providers are still here too.

There have always been girls on the board who refuse to give a reference, get jealous and attack the guy for seeing another provider instead of them, or just think their man yogurt receptacles are the best out there.

When we see the catty, cunty, personalities that come out in the most simple, innocent, yet applicable threads, we also start adding to our DNS list. When those gals attack the good gals, we give our money to the good ones, not the cunty ones. This thread started out in the correct fashion but took an ugly turn against the OP and others who have been here a long time because they're the good providers. it's obvious which providers will be here in a few months thriving and surviving and which ones will be gone back to backpage, Craigslist, etc.

[Kendall4U]

This threAD should have been in the ladies area.... lots of "ladies" have made a very poor showing for themselves. Do I agree with not giving references? No, but it's not my business how another hooker runs hers. Several threads lately have me thanking my lucky stars that my hobby circle is small. The drama is absolutely ridiculous. Carry on children. SMH.

[L.A.]

Originally Posted by Alyssa Marie

MY GOODNESS!!!! girl... you are always whining about something.... or someone.......

seriously... why are you always so... just... whiny????????

you only give refs if someone emails or pms you and it has to be within 3 months... so.... the person youre talking about only gives refs if the person reviewed her.

AWESOME STORY!!!!

Originally Posted by Alyssa Marie

why are you being so catty and "noting" this?? she already notes this in her signature .....

Originally Posted by Alyssa Marie

youre kidding, right??
not only does her signature line vouch for what she has said in this thread, but she typed, " however I am reference friendly & don't mind giving them but it has to be once he's written a review(good or bad) on me" just a few replied above this.....


some of you girls in dallas are so CATTY.

Originally Posted by Alyssa Marie

can i ask a quick question;....

really... what does it mean for a lady when she asks a lady that she only knows off of the internet who is in the same (cut throat) business as her...

when that person says, "yeah. he's ok."

Originally Posted by Alyssa Marie

hey now, I'm 37!!!

seriously though...

why are all of you dallas ladies always down each others throats?? you dont have to all be bffs with necklaces to prove it, but.... you have always been so "IN YOUR FACE." do you really make money and find business this way????

i guess i just dont get it........

Originally Posted by Alyssa Marie

why do you start the ugly sh!t in the first place?????

Originally Posted by Alyssa Marie

tomorrow I'm going to learn how to reply to 6 dumb posts as one. my apologies.

#HTTR!! division champs!!!!!!!!!

I figured someone as brilliant as you would know how to use such a basic board function.

OP had a legitimate hobby issue she wanted to discuss. There was some good info exchange and some not so good info exchange. I don't consider bringing up the topic in the first place as "whiney" or as you so tastefully put it "why do you start the ugly sh!t in the first place".

[charlotteblue]

Dear Nina,
I feel the need to apologize to you. I hope you find it in your heart to forgive. You do you all you want. Not my place or business to judge. I did judge and make it my business, and honestly I am sorry for any offensive comments I made towards you.

I know that you are another woman trying to make her way in the world. I applaud you for that. Goodness knows we need more ladies who feel that way and who do what needs to be done to make a suitable life for themselves and their family.

So, I hope you have a beautiful day. And again, my apologies.

[Kayleehotchick]

Originally Posted by L.A.

I figured someone as brilliant as you would know how to use such a basic board function.

OP had a legitimate hobby issue she wanted to discuss. There was some good info exchange and some not so good info exchange. I don't consider bringing up the topic in the first place as "whiney" or as you so tastefully put it "why do you start the ugly sh!t in the first place".

That's okay. She can feel the way she wants to. No skin off my back.

[FunInDFW]

I need to start using the MJF smh image. Hopefully in gif form. Well played.

[charlotteblue]

What's MJF? I need to Google image search it.

[FunInDFW]

Michael J Fox

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by Von Spieler

Everyone's entitled to run their business as they see fit. These sites are here for the guys, not the girls. We decide who thrives and survives by spending our hard earned money on those who provide a good service, aren't cunty bitches, pimps, or drama queens. It does not matter if you're 18 or 80. providers come and go, Hobbiests will always be here. Those of us who have been here for years see gals come & go. But the one constant is always there. The good providers are still here too.

There have always been girls on the board who refuse to give a reference, get jealous and attack the guy for seeing another provider instead of them, or just think their man yogurt receptacles are the best out there.

When we see the catty, cunty, personalities that come out in the most simple, innocent, yet applicable threads, we also start adding to our DNS list. When those gals attack the good gals, we give our money to the good ones, not the cunty ones. This thread started out in the correct fashion but took an ugly turn against the OP and others who have been here a long time because they're the good providers. it's obvious which providers will be here in a few months thriving and surviving and which ones will be gone back to backpage, Craigslist, etc.

Great post man 👍

[charlotteblue]

Thanks!

[*Ginger*]

Originally Posted by sweet.treat69

I think it's in poor taste and bad way to conduct business.. There are some great, legit guys on here who don't review to be discreet or because that's just their preference..

Sounds like somebody just wants to rack up reviews and not give a shit about her clientele in the long run.. But that's none of my business though

I Agree with*SweetTreat69*and would like to add that i do not mind giving references if the individual in question has been current,as in less than 2 months of meeting whether im reviewed by the individual or not!!

[TheEccie214]

Originally Posted by charlotteblue

Dear Nina,
I feel the need to apologize to you. I hope you find it in your heart to forgive. You do you all you want. Not my place or business to judge. I did judge and make it my business, and honestly I am sorry for any offensive comments I made towards you.

I know that you are another woman trying to make her way in the world. I applaud you for that. Goodness knows we need more ladies who feel that way and who do what needs to be done to make a suitable life for themselves and their family.

So, I hope you have a beautiful day. And again, my apologies.

OMG that's an awesome fucking post - you are by far the best poster of the week. You slept on it and wanted to go classy. Happy New Year to you!

[TheHorseTrainer]

Originally Posted by sweet.treat69

I think it's in poor taste and bad way to conduct business.. There are some great, legit guys on here who don't review to be discreet or because that's just their preference..

Sounds like somebody just wants to rack up reviews and not give a shit about her clientele in the long run.. But that's none of my business though

I have several fellas who don't even have 1 post. They're GREAT GUYS.

To each their own. ~ Just everyone stay safe ~

[Guest110416]

I have a question for you ladies who say your clients are either p411 only clients or they may have a handle on this site and choose not to post, and are great clients. Now that may be true, but how do you KNOW this or they are ONLY on p411? Do they tell you that and you believe it? There are countless guys that separate their two handles, generally so they can be a great guy on p411 and a condescending asshole on Eccie and I bet that the reason they choose not to review is because of that very reason.

[RandB fan]

Originally Posted by TheEccie214

OMG that's an awesome fucking post - you are by far the best poster of the week. You slept on it and wanted to go classy. Happy New Year to you!

this would have sufficed to mean the same and I bet she would understand it better....

"you take care, now. God bless."





Originally Posted by charlotteblue View Post
Dear Nina,
I feel the need to apologize to you. I hope you find it in your heart to forgive. You do you all you want. Not my place or business to judge. I did judge and make it my business, and honestly I am sorry for any offensive comments I made towards you.

I know that you are another woman trying to make her way in the world. I applaud you for that. Goodness knows we need more ladies who feel that way and who do what needs to be done to make a suitable life for themselves and their family.

So, I hope you have a beautiful day. And again, my apologies.