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StinkyFingers · 12-22-2012, 09:26 AM

These can be a blast! Used to throw them with a couple friends in another city. Here's how we did it:

The Party was open to couples and single women. We did not allow single men into the party. This kept the proper ratio and allowed for some girl-girl and threesome hookups as opposed to a bunch of guys standing around with their dicks in their hands hounding every available female. Everyone had to submit photos to make sure they met our criteria on attractiveness and height/weight proportions. And, everyone was screened. Entry fee was $100 per couple which covered all the food, drinks, etc. Payment by CC only. Single ladies attended free of charge.

We always had food, drinks, etc. for people to mingle. An "insider couple" was designated to kick the evening off to let everyone warm up. That couple would start having some sexy fun in a main room so people could watch and then the couple would split up ... the woman would select one man from the guests and start playing with him. The male would do the same. People were allowed to hookup as they pleased. Pair off and go in separate rooms or join in a larger group. On occasion, we would invite some form of entertainment ... couples who did a light S&M show, for instance.

We had a big bowl of condoms on the counter and everyone was encouraged to use them.

Professional ladies were welcome as guests, but it was understood that this was a private, personal night out. If they met new clients there, no problem.

StinkyFingers · 12-22-2012, 10:20 AM

Just finished reading though all the posts on this topic - Couple more points:

We would just rent out a furnished condo or house for the night or someone would host at their home if they were cool with it.

If a gentleman brought as his companion a lady that he was paying for the evening, no problem. But, that was strictly between him and her. And, it was clearly understood that you were coming to this party to have sexy fun with other people, not just with who you brought with you. That cut out the any BS about "sharing" ... if someone had a problem, the couple was politely asked to leave.

We generally limited the guest list to 10 to 20 people total.

Trey · 12-22-2012, 10:35 AM

What you got there is a real orgy, swinger style. Chicks here only see $$$ this is where it fails, they all expect a big windfall in the end. Guys don't want to pay the increase the girls expect for playing with so many guys. The guys expect a discount as time is split with other guys. In the end they don't show up. Am I the only one that's been paying attention here? We've seen this thread started so many times then we see it fail.

StinkyFingers · 12-22-2012, 10:42 AM

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Originally Posted by trey

What you got there is a real orgy, swinger style. Chicks here only see $$$ this is where it fails, they all expect a big windfall in the end. Guys don't want to pay the increase the girls expect for playing with so many guys. The guys expect a discount as time is split with other guys. In the end they don't show up. Am I the only one that's been paying attention here? We've seen this thread started so many times then we see it fail.

Yes, we set it up that way to make sure it was successful. For the most part, it was a group of couples who enjoyed an occasional night out like this, along with some single ladies (both civvies & professionals) who wanted a private night out having some fun. I am sure several of the professional ladies who attended not only had a fun night out (particularly if they were truly bi), but met some new clients in the process.

If ladies RSVP'd and didn't show up ... no big deal, we still had a proper ratio of men to women, with always a lady or two extra.

StinkyFingers · 12-22-2012, 04:35 PM

Feel free to PM me if anyone is interested in putting one of these together as I have described.

Milfmegan · 12-22-2012, 09:07 PM

Ok so awesome response's im super excited. N yes its planned now for the 29th at 2pm. Ill post add in am. Im rlly happy to say everyone is invited woman too n yes the ratio will be perfect men u will not over rule here lol. Others that r not interested n have so much negative to say look the other way its not ur thing so move on. Pm me n ill send all the details. Thx xoxo

Milfmegan · 12-22-2012, 09:10 PM

Oh n stinkyfingers get ur own thread n do ur own thing this is my event I put together id appreciate it if u dont bite my shit rlly!!!! Thx

StinkyFingers · 12-23-2012, 10:23 AM

Oh, sorry there ... didn't mean to rain on your parade. Have fun.

kerwil62 · 12-24-2012, 02:25 AM

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Originally Posted by trey

What you got there is a real orgy, swinger style. Chicks here only see $$$ this is where it fails, they all expect a big windfall in the end. Guys don't want to pay the increase the girls expect for playing with so many guys. The guys expect a discount as time is split with other guys. In the end they don't show up. Am I the only one that's been paying attention here? We've seen this thread started so many times then we see it fail.

Naww bruh I've been paying attention as well. Definitely something I wouldn't go to!

Milfmegan · 12-24-2012, 04:06 PM

to each is own, I disagree everyone has a opinion and I have not had a issue with it failing I have had a great turn out in the past and I plan to keep it that way. I love wat I do and its NOT a bunch of $$$ for me its more of a get to no me here I am thing for me plus I love to see everyone having a great time that I put together so think wat you like. we will see who fails here!!!

allofamber · 12-25-2012, 08:23 AM

These can work....I attended one as the "service team" no not that kind of service....I was hired as a bartender along with some other XXX ladies who have bar-tended before...it went down in NYC in a HUGE penthouse suite... about 70 guys showed up and about 45 ladies showed up.....the party went from 8pm to 8am and the guys had to pre-pay for there spot 2 weeks in advance ($5000)...

It was fun...& everybody had a great time.

These can be successful if run correctly.

coconut 30 · 12-25-2012, 08:30 AM

Allison where is that club at?

zero2010 · 12-25-2012, 08:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Milfmegan

to each is own, I disagree everyone has a opinion and I have not had a issue with it failing I have had a great turn out in the past and I plan to keep it that way. I love wat I do and its NOT a bunch of $$$ for me its more of a get to no me here I am thing for me plus I love to see everyone having a great time that I put together so think wat you like. we will see who fails here!!!

I for one am looking forward to this. The timing for me is perfect and it's close to my house! Spend my Saturday partying with a bunch of freaks? Hell Yea!

Rifleman · 12-25-2012, 09:25 PM

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Originally Posted by theCFE

I think what would work best as far as compensating the ladies would be this - require each person to bring a date. The lady can discuss with her date what donation she is comfortable with - if we're paying for time anyway, what happens during that time should be up in the air, so long as all adults are consenting. I think two hours is fair, but that's my opinion. That's assuming the party lasts two hours - if it lasts six hours or longer, then adjust compensation accordingly.

I like that idea, but I also have a sense of déjà Vu

StinkyFingers · 12-26-2012, 06:12 PM

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