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Originally Posted by Fiona_theone
Thank you for this babe. It is our body and we are worth what we decide. I respect and love myself and I love what I do so I will not lower my rates. I find it disrespectful for someone to ask unless it is a regular and we have a mutual understanding.
Ladies love Love yourselves. You are beautiful and deserve nothing less than you give yourself.
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all true, but it's also important [for innocentBlonde and others] to remember to treat others with the same respect you'd expect of yourself [variation of the golden rule].
said another way "Ladies love Love your clients. They are beautiful and deserve nothing less than you give yourself."
in my hobby book of 18+ chapters (years), i've found that how a provider treats & thinks about others in posts & private msgs and how she's reported to treat & think about clients BCD ... tells me a lot about what she's like or might be like. i know that it might be an inaccurate reading, but it's a fairly good way of predicting her future behavior.
have a look at any of the "best providers in the xxx - yyy age range" threads and see who's mentioned. then have a look at her posts and comments in her reviews. i think one will find that those ranked highly take their role very seriously and do the best they can to provide a great encounter for their client [that includes TCB, location, attitude, clothing, skills, after-care, etc.].
most of them dont go disrespecting their clients, think of them as a cash machine, bash them, double cross them, etc. cos they know that wont draw as many clients and repeat clients as a more positive & inviting manner.
because this is a "free market", providers can say & do what they want and ask for whatever rate they want. and clients can say & do what they want and pay whatever rate they want.
if a provider wants to project a less than respectful & inviting image, fine.
but, i dont think she should expect many clients to go consult w/ her.
since they dont teach sex providing or sex consuming in high school, college, or university, providers and clients learn on-the-job. to me, the ones who ask for suggestions and guidance and actually apply that knowledge do better than the ones who come in here w/ a chip on their shoulder and think they know better or are better.
so, do as you wish. but honey attracts bees more than crap does.