Is this normal?!?! Am I getting conned?

[jokacz]

Originally Posted by JONBALLS

well.................if it wasnt for POPLIPS

I'd never would have went to see Vanessa

Was that the Latina looking chick?

What ever became of her?

Still around?

[JONBALLS]

Originally Posted by JohnnyCap

For my part, I think women would be easier to deal with if there was less guys like him..

oh noah, theres no ryme or reason to alot of the things the hooks do.. the best way to deal with them is set an appointment, show up with your balls washed and clean breath, try to have fun, pay and leave..






Beyond that, I don't care for his style, his storytelling reeks of bullshit and reading it is a waste of time. I realize it is my fault for doing so.

I believe his storys only becasue on more than one occasion Ive been told of these scenarios,,, not becasue I did it myself

it was always the hook I was seeing saying she was going "utr" now , and that she started having sex with a client..for FREE.....

Im not saying those conversations ever made my day,,, but hey,, it is what it is

and people are people

you never know whats gonna flip their switch and it usually happens when people arent looking, or

they were trying ALOT harder than me with a better game plan

see, Im one of those fools that will sit and chat with these chicks from time to time while getting dressed..






But for the most part it has been him hurling the insults.
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prolly just self assured, and Ive heard women can find that attractive..?

[JONBALLS]

Originally Posted by jokacz

Was that the Latina looking chick?

What ever became of her?

Still around?

idk...i got tied up doing others and shes stopped posting here

there was some here and there bad press but honestly it just ran its coarse for me

[jokacz]

Originally Posted by JONBALLS

prolly just self assured, and Ive heard women can find that attractive..?

Duh! Could that be how pimps are able to pull off the shit that they do?

If there is one thing I have learned, it's that hookers have zero taste in men.

The better you treat 'em, the more they hate you.

They are so ambivalent about their job, that they need to be degraded and used by assholes.

But, of course, this is all theory. (yeah, sure)

[JONBALLS]

the closest i ever came to "free" sex was at a rub joint maybe six years ago

I went in for just a rub and maybe some topless hj cause I was light, just .60 for tip

so anyways we get in the room and im on my stomach when she starts stripping down

and i jumped up saying whoa that up, I only have .60 so we cant get crazy, just give me your usual great rub

well........... she kept stripping down and proceeded to ride me like she was on a mission

like i said...."no ryme or reason to what they will do"

so anyways

back 7 years ago I had a little "game" ,, I mean hey... I was no Montana

but i could hold my own and that was the hottest 3 and a half minutes of sex , I gave it my all , and my .60

and so did she

[JONBALLS]

Originally Posted by jokacz

Duh! Could that be how pimps are able to pull off the shit that they do?

If there is one thing I have learned, it's that hookers have zero taste in men.

The better you treat 'em, the more they hate you.

They are so ambivalent about their job, that they need to be degraded and used by assholes.

But, of course, this is all theory. (yeah, sure)

like terrorists, they only respond to a badder terrorist,

i would think if your predesposed to being beat over the head

any other type of treatment puts you out of your comfort zone in some weird way

youll respond to what your used to, maybe?

or at least be more drawn to that , so things seem more normal?

[jokacz]

I'm pretty sure it's based in self loathing, the tats and the piercings (self mutilation) are symptomatic of that.

[JONBALLS]

wait ..........im self loathing with NO tats.......

oh yah.....................that must be the seeing hooker thing.......hehe

[Guest072323]

Originally Posted by Paulwantsya

Who is JP?
Is he a midget like yourself?
.

Still waiting on who "JP" is.

[offshoredrilling]

JohnnyCap silly

[Tiger]

Originally Posted by Paulwantsya

Still waiting on who "JP" is.

Oops, you said JP.... stoopit dyslexia!

Sorry, Paul.

[Guest072323]

Originally Posted by Tiger

Oops, you said JP.... stoopit dyslexia!

Sorry, Paul.

Nice one Regit !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!

[poplips]

Update. I know I may get hammered for bumping this thread but I didn't know how to keep the narrative continuous. It was nikki from Lovejoy:

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=718470

and this is her new ad:

http://buffalo.backpage.com/FemaleEs...me-24/11859272

This thing pretty much lasted the whole summer and finally did end last week, when I told her to leave me alone and threw all her clothes into the dumpster (for u JC Sometime in the middle of the summer she went to jail for PT issues, which I did not know and thought only she no longer wanted contact from me. But one day her sister appeared at my door telling me that her sis was in jail and wanted to let me know she was not ignoring me since she was not picking up the phone but was hoping I could accept a call from Alden. Not collect but she just wanted to know if I still wanted to talk to her. She was there for a month and we wrote letters, which was odd, but I guess the girl felt a connection with me. I discovered this is one of those girls that feels crazy alone and looks for the intensest displays from guys to think she has found a connection. On the phone, in letters, she wanted so bad to quit her PT issues, she was doing everything under sun which I discovered as out tryst continued, even the worse of the worst. When she got out she was in a halfway house, I still didn't know much about her, and thought I'd be the cavalier kinda guy and be a friend, but of course, the sex got in the way, and she always mounted me and always wanted to fuck. There was some serious passion in the beginning. I thought her backpage days would be over since she wanted to get on with her life, but I found an ad with a different phone and picture but did note that the verbiage was very similar to the old ones. When I confronted her with this, she said she did it to see if I would get jealous. I realized then the girl had a angle on everything. And I realized if you are posting you have something to feed. The time went by, I met her parents, crazy!, and her dad said to me, you can save her, these were good parents, or at least affluent parents, surprise, surprise, but I realize the more I read about these PT issues the more impossible I could feel confident I would be her savior. I eventually found out she was living in a studio with an older guy also stuck on PT issues, but she would insist that they had a father-daughter relationship and nothing more. When I went to visit her one day they were throwing each other against the walls, telling each other how much they hated one another, and so on. But she always went back to him, that's what her sister always told me. One day it was so bad I had to push him off her because it looked like he was about to strangle her. She would say she wanted to quit over and over again. She would spend the night but I would get so pissed off sometimes, maybe it was jealousy or something, but it became harder to play it cool, as we started to talking about marriage, and the craziest of things that I still don't know how I got so deep inside. Eventually, the dude and I talked, and we almost had a fight, but he kept saying to me, she's his wife, and he knew she was fucking everybody in Buffalo, but he understands, accepts, etc. and looking into his eyes, I realized I couldn't save this girl, I had spent all summer trying to get her into rehab, one night she couldn't sleep because she was trying to kick it, and I realized if anyone had a chance it would be this guy, the guy that no matter how many times they beat each other, they were always back together. She used to cry how alone she felt. One night I got a call from 7-11 around 5am telling me there was a paranoid caucasian female running in the parking lot that needed someone to help out. Always giving in to the impulse to save people, I went there, and I saw her running barefoot on the street, being chased by this guy, she had taken a beer bottle and slammed it against his face, smashing his teeth, leaving toothless, and blood streaming from his lip. Crazy. She was crazy. I took her home and she was trying to get money for her PT, but I told her I wouldn't, and threatened me she would go to Grant and get the money herself. Somehow I did manage to take her home. The following night, I got a call from her again, she was hysterical, and screaming in my voicemail, when I called back she said was bleeding and was going to ECMC cuz some trick in Niagara Falls had cut her up. She wanted me to meet her there, but I didn't go because I wasn't sure if it was real. She used her sister's name I guess because her real name might ring bells. Who knows. The following day I spoke to her driver who told me that what probably happened is that she tried to steal something and the guy panicked and pulled out a knife and she probably tried to grab it and in doing so deeply cut her pinky and her ring finger. He said she came out running naked covered in blood, but he didn't think it was that bad because before they went to ECMC, she wanted to stop at McDonalds because she hadn't eaten in four days. ECMC took a naked white female covered in blood that night. After she got out the next day no one heard from her. I contacted her sister and her mother and no one had heard anything. The following day she was at my doorstep and all I could do was hug her. She said she was done with the PT, and spent two nights with me trying to kick the habit. Unfortunately, she left and went back to the dude-father now toothless, and got even worse. But like I said, when I looked into that guy's eyes I saw that he loved her and really wanted her to quit, and there is no one that could have done it, I didn't understand her, and I couldn't accept who she was, but he could, and all I can do is pray that she does find salvation somehow. I would never know what this was all about. She did lie about many things, the dude-father was actually her PT boyfriend or something, and she always seem to want to present to me the best picture about her. She always told me about her high grades at ECC, etc. that she came from a good family. But the damage was there since she was 13 and still continued. Near the end we got in many fights, so bad that she was telling me she was better than me while crying because I told her people in my neighborhood were telling me that she was bringing me down and people rumoring that I had the same problem she had, and that she hated me. One time she said to me, that she was fucked up, but because I wasn't fucked and I was doing this to her I was a bad person. She always went back to that guy though, the one that beat her. was doing that for a whole year, back and forth, and only last week she came knocking at my door with a bag of clothes telling me she left him for good. I later found out the people in the building kicked her out. She left her clothes at my place and she left to feed her addiction. The next morning I threw her clothes into the dumpster tired of having enabling her this whole summer, angry with myself, hating myself, that I couldn't save her, that I didn't do the right things, say the right things, that maybe could have saved her, maybe, and though I do hate her for getting me this involved, I also hate myself for letting her down. I told her to leave me alone and that I never wanted to see her again. She went back to that Guy who personified her addiction. And after this experience I'm weary of Backpage.

[Doove]

I'm just gonna not say anything.

[cowboy8055]

Never get involved in these women's lives. You only have yourself to blame for this nightmare.