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Old 10-07-2015, 11:49 AM   #91
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Lol ok Lickidyclit the wedding is canceled!
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Old 10-07-2015, 11:52 AM   #92
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Very well said : ) Xoxoxoxoxo
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Old 10-07-2015, 11:54 AM   #93
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Thanks you Lexxxy I haven't tried the other are'a yet lol still breaking out of my shell alittle but I was just curious if it really happens considering what it rought to the table for many...

I gotta explore more hahahahah

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I'm a hedonistic primal pansexual polygamous switch. There are poly/swinger/open/pack relationships out there everywhere, it's doable. There are escorts with husbands that hobby. I have solid friendships and deep connections with some of my regulars especially ones i find on dating sites and convert/guide them to the alt lifestyle we call the hobby. Do i love them? No. A connection and intense lust makes the "transaction" more rewarding for both parties. A rose by any other name is still a rose "paying for my room when I'm in your town" is the same as "giving me a donation towards my time". Like Ryder said, knowing where to draw the line is important.
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Old 10-07-2015, 11:55 AM   #94
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Feelings happen and expressing them is fine. If they're not reciprocated just don't be butt hurt (or let any one know) for very long less you make yourself look like a loser.
Yes very true... some don't get it and that's when the but hurt happens..
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Old 10-07-2015, 11:56 AM   #95
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Yes very true... some don't get it and that's when the but hurt happens..
Baby step us through the process here. Please?
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Old 10-07-2015, 11:57 AM   #96
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Oh ok so sometimes its one sided??
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My advice is listen to the hook Kayla Ryder, who appears to have turned mindfucking psychologically vulnerable customers into an art form.
I wouldn't call it mind fucking but more of a connector as someone else put it.. idk what to call it but it works for me : )
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Old 10-07-2015, 12:02 PM   #98
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Please lets not be rude to the ladies guys!!!! Its just a matter of me learning more n more to to expect!!! thats is pretty much all I am asking!! we are all on this site for whatever reason's but fact is we here!!!
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I wouldn't call it mind fucking but more of a connector as someone else put it.. idk what to call it but it works for me : )
When we say "it works" what do we mean.
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As long as it works then your good!!!
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I wouldn't call it mind fucking but more of a connector as someone else put it.. idk what to call it but it works for me : )
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Oh ok so sometimes its one sided??
Yes when it goes past the "line" it may become one sided feelings... or not even so much as one sided feelings but one knowing when reality needs to come into play. And things maybe having gone to far..
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When we say "it works" what do we mean.
Well it works as I have connections I have made with clients that make us both happy... sometimes it doesn't work though and that's when u end up with a stalker/multi handle troll.. lol
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Well it works as I have connections I jave made with clients that make us both happy... sometimes it doesn't work though and that's when u end up with a stalker/multi handle troll.. lol
Refreshing honesty. Most hooks are not so forthright. And at least Kayla here says it right in black and white so there's no room for misunderstanding unless her customers are deliberately deluding themselves.

Nice job.
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Old 10-07-2015, 12:11 PM   #104
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Although I do see this as violating one of the ten commandments of love conning which is of course to avoid speaking plainly at any cost.
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Well it works as I have connections I have made with clients that make us both happy... sometimes it doesn't work though and that's when u end up with a stalker/multi handle troll.. lol
When it works, it can work very well
But when it doesn't, time to move past it. Period.
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