ROCKIN BRANDY I'm a girl trapped in a man’s body... HELP!

[Guest062019]

Just like I said in the beginning, she should have just updated the fact she was post op and this would have not happened. She was not born a girl so she does owe society at least the option to decide with the correct information. It will be a cross she will have to bare from now on. On the reality side of it , if a male truly thinking she is a female( which I can totally tell it was a guy) finds out later , there is a safety issue for her. Your fucking with a mans sexuality... That could totally backfire. I would be sick to my stomach and really not sure what I would do. Jmo but if she just says it up front then she would avoid a lot of hassle . And I know she said her I'd and bla bla bla.. The true fact is she was born a man... Just bc u cut ur dick off does not give you The right to not disclose. It's the same as having herpes but to take medication and never have a breakout... The other person should be told to be able to weigh the risks

[RocKin BraNdy]

I never denied it! The very first posts I posted here was on the subject! I was contacted by some guys from that thread that said I should go say hello in the WW so I did. I have not had intent to trick anyone nor will I, and its very well disclosed now.

Originally Posted by Mata Leon

Just like I said in the beginning, she should have just updated the fact she was post op and this would have not happened. She was not born a girl so she does owe society at least the option to decide with the correct information. It will be a cross she will have to bare from now on. On the reality side of it , if a male truly thinking she is a female( which I can totally tell it was a guy) finds out later , there is a safety issue for her. Your fucking with a mans sexuality... That could totally backfire. I would be sick to my stomach and really not sure what I would do. Jmo but if she just says it up front then she would avoid a lot of hassle . And I know she said her I'd and bla bla bla.. The true fact is she was born a man... Just bc u cut ur dick off does not give you The right to not disclose. It's the same as having herpes but to take medication and never have a breakout... The other person should be told to be able to weigh the risks

[junkweed]

Originally Posted by Mata Leon

Just like I said in the beginning, she should have just updated the fact she was post op and this would have not happened. She was not born a girl so she does owe society at least the option to decide with the correct information. It will be a cross she will have to bare from now on. On the reality side of it , if a male truly thinking she is a female( which I can totally tell it was a guy) finds out later , there is a safety issue for her. Your fucking with a mans sexuality... That could totally backfire. I would be sick to my stomach and really not sure what I would do. Jmo but if she just says it up front then she would avoid a lot of hassle . And I know she said her I'd and bla bla bla.. The true fact is she was born a man... Just bc u cut ur dick off does not give you The right to not disclose. It's the same as having herpes but to take medication and never have a breakout... The other person should be told to be able to weigh the risks

I gotta say, such a long thread over this. Her BP ad said post op...I don't think she was hiding anything.

I have no dog in this hunt because her ad says she is "tight" so kind of a deal breaker for me.
Anyway, she doesn't owe anyone anything in terms of disclosure. None of us do. Everything about this board is a half-truth and it's for our own sake that we make it that way. Not to mention it's illegal. Bottom line: You pay your money, you take your chances.

[RocKin BraNdy]

Oh baby theres plenty of other stuff we can do thats um, a lil less stimulating nice sloppy wet bj by someone with soft lips that knows how to get the pressure just right? Someone who knows how to edge you like a pro haha? Oh trust me, youd enjoy your time clients tell me I look better than my pics btw, and yes voice and everything, passable. I am most def all female maybe you could come see me and clear some of this up haha, give ya a nice discount

Originally Posted by junkweed

I gotta say, such a long thread over this. Her BP ad said post op...I don't think she was hiding anything.

I have no dog in this hunt because her ad says she is "tight" so kind of a deal breaker for me.
Anyway, she doesn't owe anyone anything in terms of disclosure. None of us do. Everything about this board is a half-truth and it's for our own sake that we make it that way. Not to mention it's illegal. Bottom line: You pay your money, you take your chances.

[Guest062114-5]

Originally Posted by TSKrystiKakes

I have a few things to say on all this, 1. Referring to male to female TS as "he/him" (whether pre OR post op) is highly insulting. Same with a female to male and referring to them as a her. While it is OPINION it does not make it FACT whichever way YOU see it. Opinion are like assholes, EVERYONE has one. 2. Gender & sex are two different things. While being pre op, my sex is male, my gender is female. 3. Being post op does NOT make you female, I am in NO WAY saying this to put down anyone. Sure documentation for legal reasons will give you female status, being post op, I would STILL be a transsexual. So it may still be a good idea to have TS in your name if you are one. I know its all bullshyt labels, etc, but you have to understand the way a guy thinks....he sees a pretty girl, doesn't know she used to be male or still has a penis, feels an attraction, finds out, he then feels hurt, the "fragile" male ego will then cause him to lash out, and it can be dangerous. Its pretty pathetic, yes, I know....

As a rule, when in doubt about how to address someone, I ask. Some people like "Black" some like "AA" , it doesn't hurt me a bit to accommodate their wishes.

Why anyone would call a M2F Pre OP TS anything other than SHE or a LADY is simply just bad manners, in my opinion.

That said, there isn't even a choice in a Post OP TS case, she's legally a woman, so she needs to be addressed that way, period.

I do think that it's something that should be shared and disclosed...because it will attract some and help avoid those who have a problem with it.

Overall, RB, welcome and I hope you do well here and in life. I have a soft spot in my heart to transgendered people, so I truly mean it.

xoxo, LMx

[Pilgrim78666]

Holy shit! This thread got blown up! Brandy welcome! Sorry this was your intro to the site, with all the kinky things that go on bcd I don't think anyone here as room to throw stones.

[RocKin BraNdy]

Thank you

Originally Posted by LilMynx69

As a rule, when in doubt about how to address someone, I ask. Some people like "Black" some like "AA" , it doesn't hurt me a bit to accommodate their wishes.

Why anyone would call a M2F Pre OP TS anything other than SHE or a LADY is simply just bad manners, in my opinion.

That said, there isn't even a choice in a Post OP TS case, she's legally a woman, so she needs to be addressed that way, period.

I do think that it's something that should be shared and disclosed...because it will attract some and help avoid those who have a problem with it.

Overall, RB, welcome and I hope you do well here and in life. I have a soft spot in my heart to transgendered people, so I truly mean it.

xoxo, LMx

[RocKin BraNdy]

Thanks

Originally Posted by Pilgrim78666

Holy shit! This thread got blown up! Brandy welcome! Sorry this was your intro to the site, with all the kinky things that go on bcd I don't think anyone here as room to throw stones.

[fun2come]

Originally Posted by RocKin BraNdy

... I edited this for the sake of my business, offer stands.

No problem ...
But makes me wonder which one of the 5 barrels I would look into ... oh right no Greek, so 4 barrels


Thanks for the offer, but No Thanks and as I have said already in your welcome thread:
Stay Safe, keep it honest, and have fun.

[shayla84]

What I cant understand is why the mods are letting a provider get attacked. Hmmm, if I were you sweets I wouldnt answer these guys a few of them get off on talking shit about other people because this is there life, you notice the same ones who talk shit are the ones that basically live on here, they have no life or are very misrable in there life so they get together on here call eachother friends even though they talk shit about eachother when there with a provider but since they have no real friends on outside or are just depressed with there life they do this. Theres only a few but there are so many really nice gents on here too, so welcome sweetie, I hope your time here is fun and eventful. Have a great week

[Guest062114-5]

Originally Posted by Mata Leon

Just like I said in the beginning, she should have just updated the fact she was post op and this would have not happened. She was not born a girl so she does owe society at least the option to decide with the correct information. It will be a cross she will have to bare from now on. On the reality side of it , if a male truly thinking she is a female( which I can totally tell it was a guy) finds out later , there is a safety issue for her. Your fucking with a mans sexuality... That could totally backfire. I would be sick to my stomach and really not sure what I would do. Jmo but if she just says it up front then she would avoid a lot of hassle . And I know she said her I'd and bla bla bla.. The true fact is she was born a man... Just bc u cut ur dick off does not give you The right to not disclose. It's the same as having herpes but to take medication and never have a breakout... The other person should be told to be able to weigh the risks

Originally Posted by RocKin BraNdy

I never denied it! The very first posts I posted here was on the subject! I was contacted by some guys from that thread that said I should go say hello in the WW so I did. I have not had intent to trick anyone nor will I, and its very well disclosed now.

I must stand up for Brandy here. Please correct me if my interpretation is incorrect.

There was a discussion going on about her prior to her even being a member...including a link to her BP ad with photos. An overwhelmingly positive thread, I might add. Then she joined ECCIE and found the thread and joined in and very nicely answered many personal questions about her surgery and her body. She made an excellent first impression there.

Then she went and posted (at someone's suggestion) in WW. We need to remember not everyone understands this site at first and that all your info isn't easily linked.

Since she had openly discussed her Post OP status on the Austin CoEd section the same day (or so), I don't think it's at all fair to imply she was not being honest and open.

Nuff said.

LMx

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by shayla84

What I cant understand is why the mods are letting a provider get attacked. Hmmm, if I were you sweets I wouldnt answer these guys a few of them get off on talking shit about other people because this is there life, you notice the same ones who talk shit are the ones that basically live on here, they have no life or are very misrable in there life so they get together on here call eachother friends even though they talk shit about eachother when there with a provider but since they have no real friends on outside or are just depressed with there life they do this. Theres only a few but there are so many really nice gents on here too, so welcome sweetie, I hope your time here is fun and eventful. Have a great week

I know some providers like that!

[David.Douchehurst]

Well, since Brandy ain't gots no uterus thet means all ma work passing thet thar 'bortion bill didn't amount ta fuck-all. Ah meant to fuck over ev'ryone thet's gots ta sit down ta pee. An' now Ah come ta find out thet Brandy sidestepped ma plan. Dagnabbit! Now Ah'm pissed! Son-uva-BITCH!



Jus' y'all wait an' see! Ah'm a-gonna head back ta the drawin' board and figger sumpin' out whar Ah fuckover ALL them sits-down-ta-pee folk, from h'yar on out! In perpematuity!

[Mr.Crowley]

Zzzzzzzzz

[Still Looking]

It's always amazing to see what gets peoples engines running. It would seem that this is a hot topic where many people have different opinions. It's also fun to witness how when opinions differ people start getting frustrated and upset with those who's opinions are not in line with their own. So here is my 'opinion".

RB is a man. I will refer to "him" as a man. I don't know RB. I wish RB no harm. I wish RB success in the hobby world as I do any other provider.

Now I was born a man like RB. RB choose to make a transition into being a woman. I.... like other men on this board could do the same thing. We choose not to do so.

RB wants to be excepted as a woman. RB has openly stated he has always been a woman with a birth defect. Well RB can pretty much say anything he wants but that doesn't mean I have to except it as fact.

Ok, so let's go have dinner. Do any of you including RB care if you get served by a male or a female? Let's go have our oil changed on our car. Do any of you care if a male or female changes the oil? How about we go to the doctor. Do any of you care if the doctor is male or female? Opps wait a minute what just changed. There are ladies that prefer to see a female gynecologist. That is their right. Should we hate them? Hell no. Why would we? Does that make them haters or prejudice? Hell no. Ok now let's look into having sex with someone. Does it matter whether it's a male or female? I'm just guessing here but I think the consensus would be HELL YES IT MATTERS! Now why is that? Well I think the answer is quit simple. Having sex with someone is significantly more personal than who serves you your food or who changes your oil.

Guys what RB does and how RB conducts his life is none of my business and should have no effect on me. In the same token how I live mine should not effect RB. I don't hate RB because of his choices and RB should not hate me because I don't make the same choices he has or understand them.

There will be those that will be curious about RB. Some will go see for themselves. That's their prerogative. I'll be the first to admit I read both reviews of RB. You won't see me quaking those reviews because I choose differently.

One thing is for sure. RB is going to need to grow some think skin as most any provider can testify there will be those that just won't except or like you. Doesn't make you a bad person. You need to let that roll off of you like water off a ducks back. If your going to hate those that disagree with you or who do not except who you are, then you best expect others to hate you right back.

Now on to more important issues. How does everyone like my new Holiday / San Antonio avatar? Not to worry the baby troll will be back. LOL