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Originally Posted by Whispers
We are not paid with the expectation of what is said remaining private... It's a common expectation in the transactional nature of a guy seeing a lady....
But Hey!
Let's start a new thread and put some shit on the table!?
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Yes let's do that.
It will be the perfect platform to list all the reasons why I think the locker-rooms are a crock of shit and completely obsolete (I still follow the rules but damn the locker rooms are just stupid!). Yes, they help compartmentalize the bullshit but still, sooooo many reasons why we don't need them. We should try it for like 3 months and see what happens (best, social, experiment, EVER!)
I, for one, am a proponent of:
If you got something to say, say it to my face.
I can't stand gossip. If I catch myself "gossiping" I have no problem going straight to the person I was talking behind, and telling them to their face what I said before it even gets back to them. Sure it's easier to go with the pleasantries and the passive aggressive banter however, things usually end well or end for good when you just air it out.
No point in burning down the house you live in.
I would rather put things on table and talk about them in the open.
Issues are less likely to get misconstrued. Resolutions are made.
Maybe even put thing back on the shelf.
Though we are the mightiest of dysfunction, in a way, we are family...
And before you all get to shaking me down...
It wasn't me.
. Or, is that "market driven" gossip, part of that capitalist system of transparent consumerism all our beloved armchair economists are always blustering about? Girl, please.
