If one is trying to control the other, one or both are going to crash and burn.
If one or the other gets to clingy, one or both are going to crash and burn.
If you want some free time with a gal. you have to come up with something you both want to do. Or at lease something you would not mind doing but she wants too do.
never rush her or let her rush you. sure way to crash and burn.
this board is falling into the same rat hole a once great hooker bar did. Its not as I have not broken a few rules of the board.
when I have tried to be on the edge for sure I slipped a few times to the wrong side of that edge. But too many are just out out breaking.
example: I heard many on here have on the first few times seeing a gal offer her to let her read eccie from his account. Some even the first time. In a way to try and buy her. Sooner or latter one or both going to crash and burn.
Back to try and find something both want to do:
I hope this guy will not mind me using this example.
Anyways
I guy meets a new stripper at a stripper club. And they talk.
He get out take for 150. She was good and wants to repeat. And does.
Soon finding it was easy to hook guys, she ups it to 250.
To get time to try and talk her down again. He offers rides to work.
Soon she starts getting overly dependent on that and over abuses.
So they agree on a cash price on when she needs rides.(fucker reads to much of that OSD BS LOL)
but the cheap bastard still wants 150
she taint buying into that.
again reading way to much OSD BS
Hay can I watch you and your boyfriend have sex. She thinking I always wanted a duo. 50 to watch 80 to join in. The 3 set the ground rules.
It goes down MFM duo with no bi stuff per one of the ground rules set before hand. Its all for her.
After the do was done, both guys talk. Head to the TV to watch a baseball game.
She loved the Duo
. So makes them snacks served with beer.
All seem happy now.
Now lets say as your looking free time other than sex. You can ask, don't be butt hurt if says NO even if you know its something she wants to do. btw never beg take the no. So lets say she says yes. mmmm its to see a new movie. And you both go. Its not a fucking date. Its just two that know each other going to see a movie. No more no less.
Did I say never rush into or try and control each other.
So as I'm not a crunch fan, Thanks for this thread anyways.
So rereading this thread, and knowing some of the ROS of past crash and burn. Most should not try this shit and keep it business only. For ya are doing it all fucking wrong. well most of ya.
btw.
lets say you as a guy find the right gal, or gal finds guy. Where ether will not try and control, fall in puppy LOVE, get to clingy, take advantage of riding the other down a highway of hell. Yet it was just two doing something, and have being doing so many times for a time now. But something the other wants to do in life may end it. Do not hate it, embrace it.
mmmmm example
She finds and get the opportunity to do something she wants to do. But it may be the end of her hooking days and your relation with. Tell her to go for it and mean it. Even if it leads to the end. For if you do not, it will only lead to the end. And who wants a both butt hurt end.
Ok most will have no fucking idea what I am saying, so fuck and leave.
. But there's a long way to go especially with the likes of Frankie Fine, Veronica Boyt, etc...