How do I tell her ?

[bigcockpussylicker]

Originally Posted by JS42

This guy is Blade, it's so obvious. It's his usual schtick to ask opinions then quarrel with the answers he receives. Don't know why people are even bothering with answering him.

who?
my schtick?
were there any good answers? logic prevailed
why dont you walk away

[algrace]

Originally Posted by bigcockpussylicker

inactive as in not seeing anyone, anything else she can do as much as I can do, I
example would be facebook
I don't watch what she says or does on facebook,,I'm not clear on what "civvy" means?

Yes. And some men go to strip clubs for the juice served so nicely chilled.

Facebook is a social network. This site...of sorts. Civvy being outside the subculture, general consensus of which is against the underlying perversion present within.

An observer so actively engaged in posting must certainly read the sections of the board for which the site was designed. I look forward to your first review.

[Urban Dahlia]

Originally Posted by bigcockpussylicker

Thank you for the apology

You can disagree with what I post here all you want, I like hearing another view
I dont like yelling and name calling.

People are able to disgree all they want, but when people disagree they need to not show emotion and attack the facts, not the person.
Granted, I am a sucker and will cave when girls cry, but emotions and name calling are not how you win arguments.

I am not trying to win. Please do not mistake my apology for a sign of weakness. I am not playing a game, nor in a contest with you.

I was simply doing what I felt God was telling me to do since the day I posted that... Apologize.

I am a stubborn woman that only God can move and Change lol.

[bigcockpussylicker]

Originally Posted by Urban Dahlia

I am not trying to win. Please do not mistake my apology for a sign of weakness. I am not playing a game, nor in a contest with you.

I was simply doing what I felt God was telling me to do since the day I posted that... Apologize.

I am a stubborn woman that only God can move and Change lol.

I didnt think there is a winner, it was a thread to get other peoples ideas. and discuss those ideas, if any seemed rational,.
no one would discuss when they told me to leave her , etc.

I was happy you agreed that name calling should not be part of an argument/discussion.

[bigcockpussylicker]

Originally Posted by algrace

Yes. And some men go to strip clubs for the juice served so nicely chilled.

Facebook is a social network. This site...of sorts. Civvy being outside the subculture, general consensus of which is against the underlying perversion present within.

An observer so actively engaged in posting must certainly read the sections of the board for which the site was designed. I look forward to your first review.

You are comparing to hanging this site to a strip club?
this site I can access from anywhere and there is no cover charge

review might happen if I can find a provider we both like, or I'll just have to wait till her life insurance vests and afterward see some providers

[algrace]

Originally Posted by ElumEno

You aren't getting the point. You disapproved of her weight gain and taking up smoking. Can you fathom the possibility that her opinion of your activities available in a strip club or on this site would also be one of disapproval?

I could be completely off base and you may be doing this as a couples' activity. Given your tactful history of less than complimentary posts on your view of women, I'm not convinced.

[bigcockpussylicker]

Originally Posted by algrace

You aren't getting the point. You disapproved of her weight gain and taking up smoking. Can you fathom the possibility that her opinion of your activities available in a strip club or on this site would also be one of disapproval?

I could be completely off base and you may be doing this as a couples' activity. Given your tactful history of less than complimentary posts on your view of women, I'm not convinced.

Thanks for pointing out you didnt read this thread or understand what you read

she has always smoked,
Instead of saying weight gain, since those are trigger words,I used "started smoking", since gaining fat is harmful to her health

Originally Posted by bigcockpussylicker

Preventing cancer--


How much would cancer be reduced if people were not fat(BMI<25)?

I don't know the activities of a strip club, you brought it up comparing it to this site, or internet activity.
What is my view on women? What do you have as proof do you have of this opinion?
I bet your "opinion" is based on you not understanding what you read, same as the smoking issue I addressed earlier.

[algrace]

Originally Posted by bigcockpussylicker

That is so obvious, isnt it?

I don't like smokers, does that make me a bad person or anyting?
Smoking is a choice you made, you are smelly, yellowy, etc
you have a zilion reasons why you smoke, I dont like it, but you dont think Im a bad person or judging you etc


I dont like fat chicks,
Does that make me a bad person

IT DOES? why the hell is that?>
Eating is your choice, It makes you fat, more prone to disease and not as much fun in the bedroom as I've never has a fat girl asian cowgirl, but I have had one crush me...

Originally Posted by bigcockpussylicker

Ive been seeing a gal, we are exclusive for several months now.

Over the course of these months, she's added 30-40lbs.
She carry's it well because she uses clothes to hide the fat gain.

she does very little exercise, while I workout 6 days a week.

She rewards herself(stressful job) with food and I was indulging along with her,
She likes to get fast food and desserts, I've taken part in this recently adding to my waistline also.

Since june now I am eating in a caloric deficit and working with weights/walking, I am losing fat.


since June 15 I've been dieting, doing what it takes to shed the extra 20lbs I put,
she will not go to the gym with me(we don't live together, but had been talking about it before I started dieting

How do i nudge her to lose some fat with me?

Did she choose to change? Perhaps understanding the inner conflict you experience when considering a LTR with a fat smoker will remedy with counseling.
Or you are willing to fuck her til you realize her qualities of being a smoker coupled with being fat are in direct opposition to your views on both categories into which she fits.
So, if unable to accept that those are deal breakers, who must change?

[Mizzou82]

how about telling her this, "we have been exclusive for several months now, but you are getting fatter than the pros I see on the side. Here are pics of the last 3 providers I have seen. Can you get your body as thin as they are?" If this girl has any self respect, this should solve your problem.

[bigcockpussylicker]

Originally Posted by Mizzou82

how about telling her this, "we have been exclusive for several months now, but you are getting fatter than the pros I see on the side. Here are pics of the last 3 providers I have seen. Can you get your body as thin as they are?" If this girl has any self respect, this should solve your problem.

why would i tell her that?
re-read the thread, the issue is resolved and Im still got my own free slut