Being Too Picky??

[essence]

jm bbe f u cld xpl urslf n wt u wnt frm gy so l8tr he cn lct ur incall n hv gd tme pcx r gt

[ICU 812]

I am an "older" hobbyist. I am no longer buff (once was) and now have some physical limitations (eyesight, arthritis). So all I can bring to the party is my personality, wit and charm ,such as they are. As a hobbyist, I try to respect a provider by being well dresseed (Biz-Casual) and clean.

The donation seems to make up for the age and infirmity.

[ICU 812]

Originally Posted by essence

jm bbe f u cld xpl urslf n wt u wnt frm gy so l8tr he cn lct ur incall n hv gd tme pcx r gt

I'm too old for this $h!t.

Whisky-Tango-Foxtrot, Interogative (Emphatic)

[AndyLattu]

Debbie, as a professional service provider it is perfectly fine for you to decide who you will provide services to. Problem is that on a first time client you are not going to have any idea of their looks and hygiene until they actually show up in person. I think most can understand that their will be some clients that you have no interest in providing services, but it can be a delicate issue reputation-wise if you turn away too many clients ... that could make your financial situation worse, not better. But, if someone is so butt-ugly & nasty that you could not provide a good session, best to just be honest and say you don't think you have any chemistry ... nothing wrong with that.

But, in most businesses, there's the old 80/20 rule ... you make 80% of your revenues off of 20% of your clients ... treat your regulars well and build up that stable.

[Ur_1_only]

Originally Posted by ICU 812

I am an "older" hobbyist. I am no longer buff (once was) and now have some physical limitations (eyesight, arthritis). So all I can bring to the party is my personality, wit and charm ,such as they are. As a hobbyist, I try to respect a provider by being well dresseed (Biz-Casual) and clean.

The donation seems to make up for the age and infirmity.

Agree ICU 812...
Appreciate the idea of photos since she's never seen me in person.
Good Idea...

[Jemma Martin]

Originally Posted by essence

jm bbe f u cld xpl urslf n wt u wnt frm gy so l8tr he cn lct ur incall n hv gd tme pcx r gt

I think I lost brain cells trying to read this!

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by Wakeuр

Can't...I'm going for a personal best time between points...maybe later...

Smart move. It seems that modtarding is running rather slow. Plus the end of the month is near and EA is probably not meeting his points quota. But you might want to find out what flavor the points are this week. I hear the queso points are worth the hassle.

[ArisRose]

I could care less about ugly. As long as he smells and tastes like soap I can get down.

[mirandalee]

I have had some unattrative gentlemen I block it out, but if they have a great personalilty it helps, but I dont turn them away that would be too cold and disrespectful in my opinion. I wouldnt want anyone to do that to me if I am not their type or not what they expected but Its best to be as nice as possible.

[Indefinable Ms. M]

Originally Posted by Jemma Martin

Yes I'd decline. I just turned this guy down this morning because he was utterly dumb after I even explained things to him more than once. It's not a mental or physical thing for me...it's more of common sense stuff for me. If someone doesn't understand common sense stuff then that's where I draw the line.

I am still curious what the things you had to explain to and the type of questions he was asking. Can you please enlighten us?

[Randall Creed]

Originally Posted by Indefinable Ms. M

I am still curious what the things you had to explain to and the type of questions he was asking. Can you please enlighten us?

I sure hope it wasn't turn-by-turn directions that the poor guy had to navigate through in live traffic. That's a hellacious situation for us guys, ladies. Just give us one specific location or intersection, and from there it SHOULD be a couple turns from your incall.

Oh, btw ladies, this is sooooo much more fun to do in HIGH TRAFFIC and inclimate weather, all while listening to you mispronounce street names while on the phone and not looking like a guy in a hurry to go get some into panties.

If it's something else you had to explain to him that he wasn't getting, then by all means carry on.

[Jemma Martin]

Originally Posted by Indefinable Ms. M

I am still curious what the things you had to explain to and the type of questions he was asking. Can you please enlighten us?

Please mind your own business. It's that simple.

[Jemma Martin]

Originally Posted by Rambro Creed

I sure hope it wasn't turn-by-turn directions that the poor guy had to navigate through in live traffic. That's a hellacious situation for us guys, ladies. Just give us one specific location or intersection, and from there it SHOULD be a couple turns from your incall.

Oh, btw ladies, this is sooooo much more fun to do in HIGH TRAFFIC and inclimate weather, all while listening to you mispronounce street names while on the phone and not looking like a guy in a hurry to go get some into panties.

If it's something else you had to explain to him that he wasn't getting, then by all means carry on.

Ummm what do you think I'm some ghetto broad who doesn't know how to spell! Um NO! I made one comment and like all threads y'all carry it out of proportion. Drop it! Anyone whose seen me knows my directions are simple and really friggin' easy! It had nothing to do with my directions anyways so drop the subject and get back to the topic at hand.

[Trey]

Jemma you creat your own problems by talking to much, you just come off as a bitch.

[LexusLover]

Originally Posted by trey

Jemma you creat your own problems by talking to much, you just come off as a bitch.

May be that is why she texts instead of talks. Doesn't sound so "bitchy"?

Personally, I would rather talk to her than text ... especially when in traffic! But as long as she keeps the same incall ... don't need to text for a location!