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Originally Posted by THN
Let's say your ho cancels because she had a shitty day and she doesn't wanna risk you picking up on that and having a shitty time with her.
Is that not considerate? I mean really? You wanna spend an hour with a cunty bitch? ...
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An hour.
I've had bad days before and pushed through it but when your spidey sense it telling you "don't do it..." Isn't it better for everyone to cancel?
Idk, my experience says listen to your gut. My gut said to cancel earlier but I kept wrestling with it. I should have acted sooner.
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good news for the guy - you cancelled ahead of time so he didnt waste any more of his time and energy.
less than good news for the guy - you cancelled.
i would say that at least one provider a week cancels on a client. and at least one ncns. and at least one client cancels or ncns as well.
it happens, for all kind of reasons - shared and not shared.
and if the provider or client gets bent out of shape about it [not just upset but obsessively or conspiratorially pissed off], then that's
their problem, not the one who cancelled.
if one doesnt feel like going thru w/ the encounter, then by all means cancel. preferably way ahead of the appt, but even 1 minute before, if something happens last minute.
[yrs ago, one provider had to cancel on me as i was driving into her townhouse complex. her provider colleague called me and said the provider had a family emergency. the colleague said "i'm here along w/ our other colleague. what do you want to do?" i arrived and threesome delites ensued].
thn, what could have helped : you set a time for one or the other of you to contact and confirm the appt (using ph, text, email, whatever) [for example, the time frame could set by whomever has to travel the furthest]. that way, if either one needs to back out, a time frame is already defined. yes, either one might still need to cancel after that, but the time frame is there.
and any discussion about cancellation fee, rescheduling, discounts could also be held when the confirmation time is established.
it's all about communication.
that's why it's called "intercourse" (communication or dealings between individuals or groups)