Kendal Clarkson. What sort of hooker logic is this?

[Milfhunter1]

SMDH

[Foodie1]

SMDH too at guys all too willing to kiss a girl's ass and make excuses for her.

[TehRyc]

Unless your review of her is fake, it definitely could have been used to help narrow down on who you were to her, when you'd seen her, and perhaps alleviate the stalker/insane vibe you may have been giving her. No one said anything about her screening process or if you gave a picture originally.

Your comprehension skills don't seem to be as sharp as you think they are and perhaps you should take that into consideration before hurling insults out at other people, especially when it seems like you yourself are one tiny insult from toppling down all over again.

[Foodie1]

Lol man. She hurled the insult from the very beginning. A picture was the very first thing she asked for. There was no opportunity to talk about anything else. And btw I did tell her that I had written a review and when even after multiple insults by her. She based all of her assumptions based on the fact that she didn't recognize my number. Stop WKing already.

[GingerLyn Harte]

So I see where my comment set you off. My last statement was a negetive one towards your connotations in the OP which makes my entire post appear to be bashing ONLY you. For that I am truely regretful. I have bad precision of language and am trying to work on it.
I was definitely not trying to lecture you on HER asking for YOUR pic. I bet she has been following the thread so I hoped she would read my post and see that she fucked up yalls whole situation by not stating her new screening practices before answering your question. I assume once she answered she KNEW she fucked up. As I also get nervous when an unknown number asks about specific menu options (I think LE..and if the gent doesnt pm me or txt from the number I associate with him I think psycho marine or another bad egg) hence her defensive nature...but point being...still her fault...

you would just come off as more gentlemanly if you had maybe tried to see from a few other viewpoints or had you not used the ugly sounding word "hooker" or at least tried to figure out the motive besides her just being a flat out bitch.
I like to think most people are good but make mistakes..

Also sorry for the "kid" statememt...I felt you were acting childish which is why I used it...but that is rude. I should not have.

Hopefully I have cleared some things up and I hope you will agree to let bygones be bygones. I know I have a lot to learn in this life and every diagreement gets me one step closer by allowing me to see my own pitfalls from anothers point of view.

I hope you enjoy this beautiful Saturday dear
Xoxo~Ginger

[VictoriaLyn]

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Originally Posted by Satoshi

Dude where did you see that I said that I had no intention of seeing her? Show me. .

Originally Posted by Satoshi

I just texted her. I just wanted to ask a menu related question. Period. That was it. I wasn't trying to see her.

[Foodie1]

Thank you and you're a stand-up gal for being able to admit your mistake. Kendal on the other hand, not so much. What other side is there to think of when you're called a name just for not sending a pic. And she kept on being a straight up biatch. Then she tried to cover her ass by saying she's seen multiple guys fitting my description so she doesn't know who I am to then saying she's only seen one guy fitting my description and he's a regular and she knows his name to imply I'm lying.

[Foodie1]

Originally Posted by VictoriaLyn

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That statement was for my mindset AFTER she answered my question. This is in my original post. Besides is she a mind reader? How would she know my intent in order to justify her response? Is not sending a pic considered a time waster now?

" I let her know that I've seen her before and I'm thinking about seeing her again but I needed to ask her a question."

[JohnnyYanks]

Hasn't anyone called the WHAAAAAAAAAAAAMBULANCE yet?

[Old-T]

Satoshi,

I don’t know you, I don’t know Kendal. All I am going by is what is in this thread. I’m not even sure why I am taking the time to write this, but I don’t like to see people franticly digging their own grave and not even noticing how deep the hole is getting. I tried the subtle approach and it went clear over your head (not hard when you are already standing in a four foot deep hole) so not I will be a bit more direct. After that, if you don’t stop digging I will assume you are beyond help.

Let’s start with some basics: you have been on here almost a year and you feel this topic—this thread—is worth a quarter of your career posts? Wow. I hate to inform you, but it just isn’t. She didn’t rip you off, she didn’t threaten you, but because she was not as professional as maybe she could have been, you have this level of emotional meltdown? You made your first post. Part vent, part warning, part whatever else. Since then you have piled on 20+ additional posts that really don’t say much more. The mere volume of your posts on this point degrade the effect of your initial post because they make you come across as vindictive. The warning value it may have had is now lost on most the readers.

Second, while the way you describe it Kendal probably did make some mistakes, so did you. And when several poster have made that comment you get more and more defensive. You stop hearing that many are saying the blame is shared—you only want to hear complete condemnation of Kendal and complete repudiation of your actions. Hate to tell you, but by now you should realize that the jury has spoken and the verdict is not the one-sided-slam-dunk you expected. Learn from it. Make your next contact more likely to go smoothly. Hint: MAKE IT EASY FOR ANY LADY YOU CONTACT TO REALIZE WHO YOU ARE. As others have said, start out by telling her “Hi, I am Fred. I saw you before but it was under XXXX phone number/YYY e-mail, etc. and I have a new number now”. Better yet, contact her through ECCIE (I assume your handle has not changed), or get a P411 account. Better still, get in the habit of sending a quick personalized thank-you note after a good date, and then forward that back to her with your new, “Hi, I had a good time visiting you last time, I would like to inquire about meeting you again”. MAKE IT EASY FOR HER TO REMEMBER YOU! No, that is not a “requirement”, it is just good business practice.

Third, referencing Little Ricky Poo (AKA moonshiner) to strengthen your argument rarely goes well. He is one of the dumbest misogynists god ever allowed to exist, so if you say “L.R.P. agrees with me”, chances are you have blown your credibility with most sane posters of either gender.

Fourth, and last. You finished off your hole-digging with a complete loss of credibility. When you have nothing intelligent left to say—when you know you are outnumbered and out gunned—the maniacal loser will shout out “WHITE KNIGHT”, just as a Greek warrior might cry out to Zeus to lift him out of a fatal battle. And screaming WK works about as well as calling out to Zeus did.

Give up this fight. You lost. Go lick your wounds and come back smarter next time.

[Foodie1]

Sorry Mr.T, tell me what exactly i did wrong in my approach that warranted an idiot response from her. You say folks are saying there was wrong on both sides but I only see Ginger saying that. I don't need to have been on here for X years to know what respect is. Besides she answered the question without needing to know who I am. Was I trying to schedule with her? NO! So what did it matter who I am at that point.

[Old-T]

Originally Posted by Satoshi

Sorry Mr.T, tell me what exactly i did wrong in my approach that warranted an idiot response from her. You say folks are saying there was wrong on both sides but I only see Ginger saying that. I don't need to have been on here for X years to know what respect is. Besides she answered the question without needing to know who I am. Was I trying to schedule with her? NO! So what did it matter who I am at that point.

I have neither the time nor the inclination to hold your hand. You can read with an open mind or you can't. I will give you the most obvious point:

You contact a lady, you do not make it easy for her to know you are safe, and you ask her a question that could easily get her in legal trouble. But YOU get offended???

There is much more, but at this point you do not seem worth my time to explain. And looking at the bottom of my previous post it seems as if more than Ginger agreed with my perspective.

[Foodie1]

I don't need any explaining to man. I've talked to girls that won't even answer questions without screening. Totally respect that. That's not what happened here. You're the one that needs explaining to.

[Foodie1]

Originally Posted by JohnnyYanks

Hasn't anyone called the WHAAAAAAAAAAAAMBULANCE yet?

Idiot.

[Milfhunter1]

SMDH