Where Have All The Gentleman Gone?

[dodger]

i say that because ... i am not a provider. i have no real insight to the communications and sessions from a provider standpoint. i am familiar with some guys .. and my own communications and sessions. but that is just a sliver of what is going on. ... and, course, there is 'the board'.

regarding the board .. to me, it's like TV. you don't like what you see ... move on. you can block people so you never have to see their postings. i regularly block users in forums and chat. kind of purifies the environment for me.

i would say there is more ... drama .. in the austin forums than dfw .. and dfw was my aspd and eccie home until recently. even if it is true that dfw had less drama (opinion, not fact), we still felt there was too much. drama may not be the most accurate term .. i think we are really talking about tolerance and civility.

here is my b f skinner suggestion ... reward good behavior in hopes of reinforcing it and seeing it repeated. a 'gentlemen's discount' .. yeah .. that's it ... then i'll try to add that to my other preferred discounts, 'senior citizen', 'early bird', 'veteran', and now .. 'gentleman' .. discount.

yes .. yes .... dodger is a cheap fuck ... a value shopper .. the k-mart john

yes ,,, yes .. i'm kidding .. maybe ... a little .. but i really think if this stuff bothers anyone .. move on .. not necessarily retire ... just block .. and stay true to you better instincts. remember the words of US Army General "Vinegar" Joe Stillwell : "Illegitimi non carborundum" (don't let the bastards grind you down).

short story .. .these ladies offer me the opportunity to live out some erotic romantic fantasies .. and i really appreciate them for it. even though there are some ladies who are not to my tastes and i'll never see them ... i'm glad they participate, make things interesting, ... and provide options for us all.

-------------- for those unfamiliar with b f skinner:

human action dependent on consequences of previous actions. If the consequences are bad, there is a high chance that the action will not be repeated; if the consequences are good, however, the actions that led to it will become more probable.[7] Skinner called this the principle of reinforcement.[8] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/B._F._Skinner

[David.Douchehurst]

Well, h'yar's tha probl'm. Ah'm such a sweet, sum'bitch uva gentleman, tha fillies wuld need ta be a-payin' me fer BCD ack'shun, an' thet's a crappy bid'ness plan fer a hoogar. But ne'er fear, gals. Ah'm purr-feckt-lee fine wif bringin' a big bag o' Tootsie Roll midgies ta 'xchange fer sum poosy.

[rjk61]

I like to think I am respectful and kind. And I know I like women. Would be interested in a meet up.

[ztonk]

Originally Posted by VLombardi

This is bullshit and you know it. The board will never again be a place for respectful company. That is impossible with the number of low self esteem, hate mongers whose daily obsession is centered around finding the next person they can anonymously antagonize and destroy.

If you would leave, that would reduce the number of "low self esteem hate mongers" by one.

z

[VLombardi]

25 hours and 17 minutes

The amount of time it took a "moderator" to make my point. You got me, z! I am in my place now.

Couldn't help yourself could you? Surprised you waited that long.

[fun2come]

BS piled on BS makes the board so entertaining... IJS

[Mike Vronsky]

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I find it interesting with the way that the hobbiest treat the women on the board and BCD that some providers wonder WTF is wrong with some of the hobbiest and they don't understand why.

It is also interesting that you ask this hobbiest to leave when a majority of his posts are about hobbying and not antagonizing or destroying providers.

I would think that if you really wanted anyone to leave you would want someone who antagonizes, destroys and causes the most problems here and not someone who mostly discusses hobbying and partakes in the activity. You probably could even think of a few.

Maybe that is the problem. Is the issue that some people can't see what is obvious? Some people ignore what is obvious? Some people just don't care?

[ztonk]

Originally Posted by Mike Vronsky

It is also interesting that you ask this hobbiest to leave when a majority of his posts are about hobbying and not antagonizing or destroying providers.

Mikey, Mikey.... I can understand why you are confused.

What I did there was something called "irony". My snide comment was directed at his attack of me:

Originally Posted by VLombardi

This is bullshit and you know it.

And I was illustrating that he was one of those "low self esteem hate mongers" perpetuating the perceived toxic environment of Coed.

Sorry to have confused you. Now perhaps you can make a majority of YOUR posts about hobbying and not antagonizing or destroying other members. I'd appreciate it if you could avoid the size 4 bold red font as well.

z

[JohnnyYanks]

Originally Posted by ztonk

... What I did there was something called "irony".

Say, when did irony become a verb?

[Sheep Herder]

Originally Posted by VenusEntertainment

Am I missing something? I used to be a high profile provider that was heavily involved in this community. However, many things have changed that. I visit the board and each time I just see the same thing. Degradation. Verbal abuse. Childishness. Beautiful women/people (inside & out) being picked apart by the same men who pay for their company. It's taken a lot of God Damn therapy to recover from some of the things I've endured in this hobby.

I used to subject myself to this place and wonder why I continued to come back to a place that made me feel terrible about myself.

I'm still working on it I suppose, but WHERE are THE RESPECTFUL kind gentlemen that actually like women?

When you became a whore you became a 2nd class citizen, the overwhelming majority looks down on whores and y'all are not respected in society we give y'all more respect than y'all are entitled already, now you want more....

Your trying to quit whoring but have not been able to fully do it. I have to wonder what kind of loser in a tax free business charging several hundred dollars an hour can't quit after a few years as a multi millionaire. Your therapist can't fix stupid so quit wasting your money.

I bet fewer than ten percent ever overcome being a whore and it sounds like your one of the losers in the 90 percent category.

Congrats to those of you that suck dick a few years make millions and move on I like doing business with that kind.

However this is just a broken whore whose soul got consumed by the industry and now your hanging around whining the we fucked up your head.

Go on and leave your kinda like road kill on the highway the way you tell it.

[gfejunkie]

Originally Posted by Sheep Herder

When you became a whore you became a 2nd class citizen, the overwhelming majority looks down on whores and y'all are not respected in society we give y'all more respect than y'all are entitled already, now you want more....

Your trying to quit whoring but have not been able to fully do it. I have to wonder what kind of loser in a tax free business charging several hundred dollars an hour can't quit after a few years as a multi millionaire. Your therapist can't fix stupid so quit wasting your money.

I bet fewer than ten percent ever overcome being a whore and it sounds like your one of the losers in the 90 percent category.

Congrats to those of you that suck dick a few years make millions and move on I like doing business with that kind.

However this is just a broken whore whose soul got consumed by the industry and now your hanging around whining the we fucked up your head.

Go on and leave your kinda like road kill on the highway the way you tell it.

That's tellin' her there, Ricky boy. Yeah, everybody just loooooooves an internet asshole.

[nuglet]

Originally Posted by Sheep Herder

When you became a whore you became a 2nd class citizen, the overwhelming majority looks down on whores and y'all are not respected in society we give y'all more respect than y'all are entitled already, now you want more....

Your trying to quit whoring but have not been able to fully do it. I have to wonder what kind of loser in a tax free business charging several hundred dollars an hour can't quit after a few years as a multi millionaire. Your therapist can't fix stupid so quit wasting your money.

I bet fewer than ten percent ever overcome being a whore and it sounds like your one of the losers in the 90 percent category.

Congrats to those of you that suck dick a few years make millions and move on I like doing business with that kind.

However this is just a broken whore whose soul got consumed by the industry and now your hanging around whining the we fucked up your head.

Go on and leave your kinda like road kill on the highway the way you tell it.

And yet you participate? Interesting "transference" thing you got going there.

[beam me up scotty]