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Originally Posted by Txn5inThick
I would take passion and attitude over tummy any day of the week.
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I second Txn...albeit by a slim margin. However, I would be lying if I said that sexy abs on a woman is not hot as hell. Furthermore, in knowing what it takes from busting my own ass in the gym 6 d/w for the past 20 yrs, I doubly appreciate any effort taken by providers who sacrifice their valuable time for weights & cardio to achieve a fit body & abdominals. It is not only the workout itself that takes effort and deserves praise, but there is also the nutritional aspect, scheduling and prioritizing, consistancy, dedication, etc...not to mention all of life's existing responsibilities and distractions to deal with.
Conversely, there can also be sub-par genetics and/or having been a parent that some ladies may feel is preventing them from participating in a thread like this. HOWEVER, for those providers who fit into this category and are in anyway unsatisfied with your appearance...you are in luck since what many gentleman perceive as "the" all-encompassing attractive appearance in a woman is something much deeper than what is simply evident on the surface in your mirror. Every single one of you ladies, flat stomach or not, already wake up every morning with the ace in the hole that can trump any magazine cover model-worthy appearance....and, that is truly genuine passion, sincerity, connection, sensuality, and complete devotion to the moment with each hobbyist as if every encounter is the most important experience to you on earth. You will not find it in any make-up compact, magazine, or plastic surgeon's scalpel, either. It is already there in each of you; it simply needs to be unleashed if it not already has.
Imho, THIS is what I honestly want most from a provider and what I look forward to in the days leading up to our encounter...and this is what I solely take away and will remember many years from now in the twilight of my life.
Anyway, just food for thought on what can be a delicate subject...