Wanna know what some girls REALLY think?

[Guest071711]

I'm surprised how offened some of these men are by this. It's just for laughs in my opinion gosh! And i'm sure hobbyist have said worse thins about us on this board!!! Things visible to the public!!!

[MsPrittiKitti]

i agree molly.
i thought it was humerous also.
have i had all those feelings about 1 boyfriend, no way!
maybe im lucky!!
have i had a gent go through 3 covers in a 30 m session, yes. i typically will only bring 2 or 3 for a 30m session. so I was starting to feel a little not prepared.
have i had a gent that spent 30m in texas heat + traffic...walk through the door w sweat dripping & deodarant not working, yes. did i offer him the shower 3x (and he declined), yes. did i go straight for cbj? HELL YES!! lol
have i had boyfriends that tell me "im worth so much more"...yup!
have i wondered "youre right, i need to raise my rates.." -yes.
ive also thought gosh...im a total dumb ass...what he really means is...i cant believe i had my way with you for much of nothing.

have i worked for anyone other than myself-hell no!!
have i got burnt out on this lifestyle, nope.
i make my own rules, my own schedule. and this is play for me.

BUT---i still think what the author of the blog had to say was pretty darn funny.

[Sensia]

Originally Posted by M A X

People! People! Take the defenses down and simply read or don't read the blog. If it ain't aimed at you, then it ain't aimed at you. If you see yourself somewhere amongst the author's complaint's, well...then maybe you should take heed and adjust whatever it is you are reading that you feel defensive about. While the author of the blog is jaded, she does list some valid points that can actually be disconcerting to some of the ladies.

Also, please note that the author is an entirely different individual than London. Many of us read on this board on a daily basis and even if you only read on it now and again, it's pretty obvious that one almost has to come in with their boxing gloves, if not on, than at least close at hand. Please believe that she already knew she was gonna get "torn a new one" when she posted this thread. I don't think the blog says anything much different than the Letter to the Gentlemen did a while back. It's just a little more blunt and stated less tactfully than the Letter.

If all "gentlemen" in the hobby were actually gentlemen, and they each behaved and groomed in a manner that was acceptable by most, there would not have been a need for either the blog or the Letter to be posted anywhere. The author of the blog would most definitely be less jaded and and maybe even enjoy what she does as much as some of us independents do. She would also have more control over her clientele and hours.

Do the ladies realize that the gents have issues with some of us? Yes. Hopefully we do not let the complaints that do not to apply to us upset us either.

Now...everyone back out there and let's have some "make up" sex! I got the Max Factor. What you bringin'? (OK sue me....the last statement might be perceived as threAd "ish") LOL

Yes, agreed to your post. I can see so much defensiveness.. and I am not understanding why we can't learn from blogs like this.

There are a lot of truths in what the girl said in that blog. Too many of us ladies are always talking about what that gal posted in our own private areas on this board. Did the blogger come off a bit abrasive, sure she did. No one wants to acknowledge the obvious things she did state in that blog that are so true.

Damn shame more women on the boards can't truly express themselves for fear of all this backlashing.

[lisa.lisa0302]

Afternoon everybody

If the blog does not pertain to you, whats the fuss about?

Some guys pay without a problem, smell nice, or jump in the shower, dont haggle, don't pinch my nipples, bite my pussy, talk to me, treat me like a queen from 30mins to an hour........if you are that gentlemen and a gentlemen to other lovelies, well thank you so much. Its greatly appreciated by me.......they know who they are. They are greeted with hugs, kisses and smiles.

Now if you are not gentlemen, well shit. Stop haggling, stop biting the pussy, stop comparing us to other providers. Your experience will get better. If you wonder why the provider stop returning your calls, she is probably looking at her sore pussy you bit all over. She is probably thinking about the fact she asked you to shower and you said no. She is probably thinking damn, if only he could have been a gentlemen.

Its just a blog. Does it pertain to you? If not chuckle and move on. I am sure you men have blogs about us somewhere in the dark, heck some of the men bring it to co-ed.

Have a lovely day
Lisa

[MrKlean]

+1 Bizzer and Tony
Nothing in life is perfect.
When providers feel like that, they should leave the business. If all a provider can think about with 2 free hours is that rant, she has more problems than the hobby. That rant is not descriptive of most hobbyist......maybe a few.
No one is perfect, provider or hobbyist, everyone just try your BEST to make every session a great one

[hotlips_houlihan]

LMAO Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus.

[CoHorn]

I would be bitchy too if this is true with the blog author. Maybe she should rethink her business model.
We only have 15, at the most 30 minutes between appointments… Sometimes, we have NO time.

[NatalieSummers]

Hey guys and gals...the link the OP posted was put up on aspd years ago! Then, of course, aspd went away, and here it comes again and everyone's upset....it was written by someone who was getting out of the biz and she just went off and had nothing to lose. I, personally, thought it was funny....loved the 2 towels=filet mignon!
Just ignore it. And be grateful that Dallas has so many beautiful women to choose from with low donations. Check out Eros.com. The visiting ads for Dallas. pretty low....they don't come here because there is too much competition. Check out DC, Philly, NYC....the visiting ads. Big money in those cities. And those guys don't blink an eye on a donation of 300, 400 and up for an hour. Count your blessings, guys.

[ItalianaPrincess]

Why can't we all just HAVE *FUN* and get along????!!!!!


*FUN* being many many acronymns = the naughtier, the better!


XOXO
Italiana Princess

[TheBizzer]

I agree that this is much ado about nothing. However, such is the risk when you generalize. No amount of disclaimers is going to change that.

Think of this way. I've been robbed, scammed, lied to, b&s'd, nc/ns'd, unappreciated, badmouthed, etc. I've met girls with unkempt girly things that smelled like cat food, and girls obviously a day or two into their period. I've walked in to find used condoms on the floor, no clean towels, and even bare mattresses. It's part of the hobby. However, if I came on here with a "Ladies, get your acts together, you charge way too much and don't give me the service I expect" rant, I doubt prefacing it with "don't worry if it doesn't apply to you" would make it flame retardant. It's just a little offensive no matter how you spin it.

Also, the OP's "some of you guys better wake up" follow up to the link didn't exactly help matters, as it sounds very condescending, like a lesson. And what grown up likes a lesson?

[DFW5Traveler]

I personally wasn't offended by the post and I feel for any provider that may have to endure poor behavior. My only beef is that the issue goes both ways and providers are not immune from poor behavior or hygiene. A bash-fest is a bash-fest, if you can't see both sides of the argument, it shows bias.

Challenge: If I can be accused of any of the poor behavior in the linked thread, I challenge any provider whom I have seen personally to come here and publically humiliate me since none have said anything in private. This is not an invitation for a provider I haven't seen to make a BS claim.

[Guest100513-2]

Originally Posted by NatalieSummers

The visiting ads for Dallas. pretty low....they don't come here because there is too much competition. Check out DC, Philly, NYC....the visiting ads. Big money in those cities. And those guys don't blink an eye on a donation of 300, 400 and up for an hour. Count your blessings, guys.

The other reason they don't come here is the asshole guys report providers that use fake pictures and lie about their age.



All of you guys angry about this should wear a skirt for a week.

[Randy4Candy]

Hmmmmmm, there appears to be bells attached to the chain being pulled - and they're ringing.

I'm not sure that this post and a couple of others that have cropped up recently are really about the alleged "topic" - but, OTOH, I'm not exactly sure what they are about.

[Int3rested]

follow the money..

[Randy4Candy]

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