The openly honest thought process of a minority hobbyist from 2010 to now, on a dead horse topic….

[StinkyFingers]

Originally Posted by Zanzibar789

I think these providers and their Pimps have the right to choose as I've stated. Personally I have too many RW friends to be concerned with biased providers but I like giving my two cents anyway.

I find it laughable that I would visit ANY client and slowly convince her I want to be her pimp that's not a very good Return on Capital Employed (ROCE) for me and quite frankly is a time waster. However, I think it's deeper than Dorian's understanding and his message should have been two-fold.

One to the women who are truly (discriminating Indy) and another to the Pimps controlling the girls he wants to see. The issue for me in part is ultimately rooted in socioeconomic factors that many of these providers have lived with or been led to believe all their lives. It's hard for many of them and even their PIMPS (who I know is running things behind the scenes and reading this as I type ) it's hard for them to accept educated and very successful young (or older) black guys at face value.

For the Pimps reading this specifically, I understand your hustle. I suspect either (1) you were never brought up around good examples of black academic achievers and so your circle of influence has always been negative. You likely think that successful black men can only be found in Sports or Entertainment. (2) you envy when you look in the mirror and sense a personal failure by way of comparison, or (3) you're afraid black guys pose too much of a retaliation risk if you storm in on a session to intimidate.

That's how I would have laid it out if I were Dorian. Then again I probably wouldn't have at all.

Then you don't understand Pimps. For a pimp, it's a very good return on investment ... they make their living getting a cut of a lady's business. It's what they do. Much easier to cut in on business that's already established than to try to break a new girl in. And, no, they don't try to do it slowly.

Like I said, if you're a black man, it's all in your references. You got good references, no problem.

For a lady, easiest way to avoid it ... don't put yourself in that position to begin with.

[Guest021817-2]

Originally Posted by Dorian Gray

You don't read my reviews do you? I've fucked some ugly bi-atches. I'm into psychological self mutilation obviously

Dude, you should have propositioned your AC guy.

[Dorian Gray]

Actually that episode has yet to be concluded.

Remember, its in the episodic format

[drax1]

I guess there's just another and another and another NBA crying thread every other week. No less the last
one just got killed and behold a new one pops up like clovers.

[Russ38]

Originally Posted by Dorian Gray

Russ. This thread is officially awesome

Yes indeed Dorian......what comes to mind is.....

[CaptainGo]

Damn! Pretty transparent post Dorian & I agree with Russ...kind of a snapshot of the slow progression of the hobbiest's mindset and the negotiations we make internally...lol. Enjoyed it....Thanks!

[canihitit]

Quote:
Originally Posted by canihitit
what the fuck. this gawd damn thread. damn dorian. just damn.

i think if we spend more time discussing the pussy we get, instead of the pussy we can't get, things would be great.

don't wanna start any shit DG, but gawt damn man. gawt damn.

Originally Posted by Dorian Gray

I know right. I look & act like the little punk bitch you always expected, right?!

to be completely honest, and i know its gonna be hard not to take this the wrong way, but here it is. it never crossed my mind how you looked. but you do act like a bitch. i wouldn't say punk bitch, but just a plain ole bitch.

i know i said some fuck up shit. i know. but if you can believe it, im not trying to start any shit w/ you. i don't want online drama w/ you dude. period. as a matter of fact, i apologize.

[Hot to Trot Daphne]

Yeah, this is going to go well.

[oilfieldscum]

Originally Posted by Luxury Daphne

Yeah, this is going to end well.

I fixed it for you

[Mr. Romantic]

I miss SensuousLydia

[DarthMaul]

First of all, I closed that thread and I closed the thread because I am tired of the same fucking discussion coming to the same fucking conclusion. There is none.

Originally Posted by Lauren Mayfair

Somebody should suck your dick for free just for referencing Baudelaire. I mean, not me. But somebody should.

Originally Posted by Lauren Mayfair

Awww. Dorian. You know I'd totally fuck you.
As long as you don't tell anybody . . .

I love this woman. Can you "catfish" me for a few years?


Dorian I am glad to see you have made it to 37, wait until you turn 50 and you won't give a fuck. You may not make it if you let that shit get to you. I have experienced prejudice that would make you faint, before you were even born.

My Dad told me "Son, I have some bad news for you. You're black, which means you have to work twice as hard, be twice as smart and if you ever use your race as a reason for failure, get the fuck out of my face!

I am sure if you let one of these NBA ladies know..."I am Dorian and I will take care of all of your bills!" - NBA Policy gone

The other ones will just not be attracted to brothers. Damn I am not attracted to certain types of women. What do you know!??

I think you should find something or someone you care about more than yourself. If you cannot...You're fucked.

[Dorian Gray]

Originally Posted by DarthMaul

[B]

I think you should find something or someone you care about more than yourself. If you cannot...You're fucked.

We've been down that road. Remember. I slept in your garage. There is no reason to care anymore.

[Liliana Vess]

Tl;DR

[Sarunga]

Originally Posted by Dorian Gray

Finally, one day I just woke up & when I logged on it didn’t bother me as much. Then a little less the following month. Then to around the current level of 5-10% annoyance.

So, this would mean....if you were to give it some more time, it would go down to zero.

Here's the proof:

Originally Posted by DarthMaul

Dorian I am glad to see you have made it to 37, wait until you turn 50 and you won't give a fuck.

Take care of yourself, DG.

[starflash]

DG.........Been reading your posts for a long time.....Especially enjoy most of your attachments or quotes, but have usually sensed an edge, or suppressed anger in many of your comments. Never gave it much thought till reading your post tonight. As a white guy, the NBA ads had no impact on me at all, and it never dawned on me that those rejections are a real shot at people the provider not only doesn't know, but never will.......... That crap has got to hurt you on some level, even though posted by a total stranger.....Or maybe just because it's a stranger.......No deep philosophical ending to this reply, but wanted to let you know you reached at least one person on the board who isn't going to give you a smartass answer...........One day we might all learn to live together, but I'm pretty sure it aint gonna happen anytime soon.........