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London Rayne · 01-31-2013, 07:43 PM

I don't want a fk buddy on my OFF TIME lol. I guess that was my point. I don't lead anyone on as to what I want, and I think my posts should further reiterate how upfront and candid I am about anything and everything. I am simply asking when did guys start acting like girls....all clingy, misreading things, and up a girl's ass. It never used to be that way. WE were the ones who fell in love after 4 dates, but not anymore.

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Originally Posted by Salsa man

Hello Ms. Rayne, I'm confused. Do you want a fuck buddy or do you want your clients not to get to clingy?

If you want a fuck buddy, that should be very easy to set up. You have the luxury of choosing your lover and financially being reimbursed for your time. Or should I say test driving your lover. When you think you found that hobbyist where you think you can make an arrangement with. Set him down and explain what you want in the arrangement. Make sure he understands the rules of your arrangement. I would say the best one to get would be someone who's already tied up in another emotional relationship. Make sure that he is a seasoned hobbyist, not a newbie. This'll reassure you not to have the SO drama.

Since this is not a boyfriend girlfriend situation and you do not want any ties. You must go Dutch in everything. If he buys you flowers. You buy him flowers the next time and tell him why you bought them. If he continues to do nice gestures like this, terminate the arrangement immediately. Men and women are alike in this aspect.

Take for instance if I give you flowers and then I text you the next day. You don't return my text. In my mind I'm thinking why did she not returned my text after I've been so nice to her. It creates stockists behavior. Thank God that I don't act like this and think this way. I can't help it I'm a slut!

Basically what I'm saying is if you give something, do not expect anything in return. Unfortunately about 90% of the general population do expect something in return. When you think about it, it's kind a mafioso way of thinking.
That is why I'm saying everything must be Dutch.
Too bad you're not in San Antonio, because there's a lot of fine hobbyist that would probably accommodate your request. We are big sluts down in Texas.

London Rayne · 01-31-2013, 07:45 PM

I was being facetious honey...no one but true friends know where I live. I was not talking about ME in this entire scenario, though I have had to deal with a few things I mentioned.

QUOTE=brandilynn;1052289219]Yes many more clingers! Why are you letting people know where you live, that's just inviting trouble.[/QUOTE]

London Rayne · 01-31-2013, 07:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Loggimir

Sounds like LondonRayne is a mean lady.

LMAO..you get a gold star for being intuitive. No, I am not mean just because I like certain things. I don't call you a pussy because you like the opposite, do I? Not yet anyway, but do keep posting bwahahahah.

Cpalmson...give me a about a month, and I will be there. Want to get in before Spring Break.

brandilynn · 01-31-2013, 08:23 PM

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Originally Posted by shorty

So are you saying if you have a guy your fking for fun you would go to hotel? I can't see that happening because there's no need for the added expense since probably both of you have a place. I would be leery of this. It sounds like someone would be hiding something if you can't pick them up at there place or possibly have a nightcap.

Fucking for fun is different. We are talking about a pay for play scenario. If you do it at the girls home, depending on the state you live in, the girls home will be seized if in trouble.

London Rayne · 01-31-2013, 08:27 PM

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Originally Posted by brandilynn

Fucking for fun is different. We are talking about a pay for play scenario. If you do it at the girls home, depending on the state you live in, the girls home will be seized if in trouble.

Agreed. I have three incalls to entertain in. Only 2 good friends and sugar daddies know where I actually "live." They also know my real name, DOB, and many other things because we travel together, and they have booked my flights on their miles. Trust me, I am very much an advocate for NOT shitting where you eat lol. Then again, I have a mortgage, not a lease, so it's not like the bank can take my house from me or kick me out, but being I have a child, I would never see random strangers in the very same place I live.

Hey, you should start a thread about that lol.

drsmooth1 · 01-31-2013, 08:55 PM

That clingy shit been gradually happening since the 80's but has morphed into something tummy turning in the 21st century.
Far too many men have given away their man cards in favor of the cunt, smh. I don't condone the old school abusiveness, but damn at least men were men.

I thought that was what the hobby was for, it's at least why I started, bitch give me some and then get the fuck on.

JessicaKnightly · 01-31-2013, 09:58 PM

For London:

I thought you might like this.

Just to be clear I'm not calling you a bitch or a pussy. I just thought you might like to use this photo to express your point.

burkalini · 01-31-2013, 11:16 PM

Being a pse kinda guy I never have that bullshit problem. I like to get off. I like to get the lady off and then I'm off. Too many women to fuck yet for that love bullshit to get in the way. London you need to tell the guys to take off their fucking skirts

London Rayne · 02-01-2013, 04:34 AM

LOL....you just like saying the word 'p*ssy' don't you?

Dr. Smooth...amen.

Burk, I think guys are actually looking through my closet for a skirt bwahahha.

To be clear, I am not opposed to love and actually still value chivalry and romance, BUT with the RIGHT person. If that's not you, move on. A woman is like a cat...you have to work for our affection, and we don't like sharing the litter box!

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Originally Posted by JessicaKnightly

For London:

I thought you might like this.

Just to be clear I'm not calling you a bitch or a pussy. I just thought you might like to use this photo to express your point.

sardyop · 02-01-2013, 05:25 AM

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Originally Posted by London Rayne

I don't want a fk buddy on my OFF TIME lol. I guess that was my point. I don't lead anyone on as to what I want, and I think my posts should further reiterate how upfront and candid I am about anything and everything. I am simply asking when did guys start acting like girls....all clingy, misreading things, and up a girl's ass. It never used to be that way. WE were the ones who fell in love after 4 dates, but not anymore.

London, I would be more than happy to just do the up your ass part then leave. Would that make you happy ?

London Rayne · 02-01-2013, 05:54 AM

Only if you have a microd*ck bwahahaha. Someone has not read my reviews. :_

Guest110516 · 02-01-2013, 09:27 AM

If someone else has posted this, I didn't copy you. I'm just too lazy to read all of the posts.

Anyway, London, this thread make me want to cry. Hold me in your arms, please?

London Rayne · 02-02-2013, 12:55 PM

Hold yourself lol. I don't get paid for that bs.

Guest061613 · 02-02-2013, 03:18 PM

You are an interesting read. If I was dealing with you and we had become intiment. I would believe I would do the same as John Favreau in this scene.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vZChD...e_gdata_player

PhantomofTheOpera · 02-02-2013, 07:03 PM

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Originally Posted by JessicaKnightly

I agree with this statement. If you have time, this is great:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UbCnNSZKsr8

Interesting listen but not what I was driving towards. I do not agree with the oration by the guy talking, but Spritual Awakening, and enlightenment would go a long ways towards correcting a lot of issues in this country. The political correctness along with the foolsih idea that Oprahing of young boys by the single Mom's will get things done.

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Originally Posted by PhantomofTheOpera

Blame the feminists for the masculinization of women, and the feminization of men for what you described LR.