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dirty dog · 12-15-2014, 07:49 AM

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Originally Posted by amyoto

chickenhawker? are you 12? no need to be rude kid. its not my place to answer for other people. if they want to come forward they will. i simply provided you my input, if that's not good enough then oh well, no skin off my back.

I think what you will find is that the percentage of individuals engaging in this type of behavior is no larger than the percentage of people who do this with women they pick up at a bar. For you and him to say that this is happening at a greater rate in the hobby world is baseless speculation. While no one is suggesting that this does not happen, we are suggesting is the OP of this post has a history of making baseless speculation that tend to impact on providers hurting both their reputations and their pocketbooks. He will of course issue an apology a couple of weeks later but of course the damage has already been done.

amyoto · 12-15-2014, 08:48 AM

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Originally Posted by bp6570

You got me, I am a kid, but only 11.

If you had spent more than a minute on this site, you'd know that this topic (bbfs) has been discussed many times. No one who disagrees with JH denies that it happens. What most of us have an issue with is his baseless speculation & accusation that he has knowledge of many folks who are engaging in this behavior. Additionally, he continues to start posts or comment on others posts that harm the reputation of reputable people without any regard to how his actions may harm others. Many members have advised him to tone back his rhetoric but he continues to create drama & not listen to what others are telling him. It is foolish to assume that one is always right and ignore the well intended advice of others.

yes ive seen his other topics. i dont take them as seriously and i do find it entertaining. lets face it though its not hard to ignore someone dude. you posting on his topics only fuels him more.

willdooit · 12-15-2014, 04:42 PM

I will not bbfs unless she`s my SO, I had a condomn break while I was having fun,this freaked me out. We all have to be safe out there

bp6570 · 12-15-2014, 05:55 PM

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Originally Posted by amyoto

yes ive seen his other topics. i dont take them as seriously and i do find it entertaining. lets face it though its not hard to ignore someone dude. you posting on his topics only fuels him more.

You are right. It would be easy to ignore him & I usually do but it is kind of cowardly to sit back & let him make his accusations without challenge. Me & others posting on his threADS does seem to encourage his continued behavior but someone needs to challenge the stupid things he says & does.

malwoody · 12-15-2014, 10:10 PM

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Originally Posted by willdooit

I will not bbfs unless she`s my SO, I had a condomn break while I was having fun,this freaked me out. We all have to be safe out there

That's nice that you can go commando with your SO, especially if she knows about the 17 times you've done it with a Hooker..
I don't know if I would mention the equipment failure though..

Happy Holidays,
JR.er..I mean MW

Jayhawker · 12-16-2014, 08:06 AM

Wait you guys are upset because I made a post about being safe. You guys are literally upset because I advocate playing safe.

Even if it is just one person being unsafe it can hurt the whole community. What is the harm in making a post about being safe and protecting each other?

Again, all it takes is one person to start a bad issue. I have read guys say they know a provider that goes bb so if each of those guys knows one and they start seeing each others providers that is how issues come up.

As for hurting providers...please tell me which providers I have said something negative about that was baseless speculation that I had not seen? As I recall it you guys were commenting negatively about a provider and calling me her pimp and telling me how horrible she probably was and I was a liar and blah blah blah. Now, because I am advocating being safe, and I am saying protect each other and protect providers I am a horrible person and I am making accusations about providers. Just tell me which provider I have accused of anything or have said she should not be seen?

You guys have some serious issues.

Jayhawker · 12-16-2014, 08:17 AM

The reason why bb is worse in this 'hobby' is because of the sheer number of men each of these ladies see. If we are exposing them to any unwanted gifts we are harming their families and we are harming other guys. If a female meets one guy in a bar she usually isn't doing it 3 to 4 times a day.

I can't believe you guys are literally upset because I am advocating being safe. I find that so very strange. I can't understand why each of you are so upset with anyone simply saying be safe and don't get injured.

BigMikeinKC · 12-16-2014, 08:19 AM

It takes two to do BBFS. No condom, no session. Individual choice.

Jayhawker - It seems you have a lot of issues with people who many of us don't. It is time to take a look in the mirror and see what the common denominator is. I'm not trying to be mean, but go back and read your posts and pretend someone else wrote them and see how they come across as if directed to you.

As far as the insults from others, you have to let them roll off your back sometimes.

Jayhawker · 12-16-2014, 08:39 AM

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Originally Posted by BigMikeinKC

It takes two to do BBFS. No condom, no session. Individual choice. You would not mind seeing a provider who bbfs someone? I only ask guys this because you would not know what they are bringing your way. To say individual choice is advocating the behavior in a passive way.

Jayhawker - It seems you have a lot of issues with people who many of us don't. It is time to take a look in the mirror and see what the common denominator is. I'm not trying to be mean I take no offense, but go back and read your posts and pretend someone else wrote them and see how they come across as if directed to you. I do read what I write and I don't think defending a provider or advocating being safe would offended me. You have to realize they are offended because I defended a provider from speculation, baseless accusations and flat out lies. Then they are upset because I said we should all be safe and not put providers in danger.

They do not have an issue with you because you have not gone against them. I call them out for their bs and it bothers them that I will not let it pass. I understand maybe you want to stay friendly with these guys but as for me, unless they are giving me money I could care less if they like me or not. I hope I irritate the hell out of them and judging by the fact that they always come at me I see I do.

As far as the insults from others, you have to let them roll off your back sometimes.

Please trust me...I only log on here for entertainment of reading what some people write. To know me in real life you would see I don't even think about this stuff.

malwoody · 12-16-2014, 09:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Jayhawker

Please trust me...I only log on here for entertainment of reading what some people write. To know me in real life you would see I don't even think about this stuff.

LMAO....you have an odd way of not thinking about "this stuff."..

You outdid even yourself with that remark...
Gotta go...choking on my coffee

Guest013121 · 12-16-2014, 10:36 AM

I don't think anybody can figure out what's going on with you. You're so wishy washy. One day you want to protect providers and the next day you want to come on here and try to end prostitution or something by announcing that providers bbfs everyone. Lol.

JPHackworth · 12-16-2014, 10:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Jayhawker

Wait you guys are upset because I made a post about being safe. You guys are literally upset because I advocate playing safe. . .
You guys have some serious issues.

I don't think anybody is upset at you for suggesting we play safe. In fact I haven't seen one person on here advocating bbfs at all. I have not and will not ever do bbfs with a provider.

People take offense because you take a tone that suggests everybody BUT you is doing it and proceed to call us unsafe idiots. I don't need a lecture and I don't have any serious issues . . .

. . . unless you count my willingness to continue to engage you in these pointless attempts to keep you on topic. But I'm considering seeing a therapist for that one.

Unique_Carpenter · 12-16-2014, 12:19 PM

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Originally Posted by fredhgolightly

. . . unless you count my willingness to continue to engage you in these pointless attempts to keep you on topic. But I'm considering seeing a therapist for that one.

But all therapists recomend that you express yourself instead of not engaging. So you're doing fine.
I'll send you a bill. Don't worry, only a partial hour and the amount will only be enough to cover the cost of the next bird roast.

SinsOfTheFlesh · 12-16-2014, 03:20 PM

Now that Jayhawker has informed all of us that some individuals go bareback, for his encore he will inform us all that water is wet!

BigMikeinKC · 12-16-2014, 03:41 PM

"I hope I irritate the hell out of them and judging by the fact that they always come at me I see I do."

Sadly you don't irritate anyone anymore. You might have once, but your continued antics have just made you the board laughingstock. You think you are poking for a reaction, but the reality is that your responses are what people find amusing.

If you don't want people to think of you as a clown, stop putting on the make-up and the rubber nose.

Honest to God, I feel sad for you.