Enlighten me, Gentlemen. A 'great hj vs. a 'good' bj?

[Aphrodite]

DD darlin' - I love a man who knows his pickles! Would you like me to throw in a moon pie to sweeten the deal?
Did you want bologna or something more exotic....ummm, like, olive loaf?

All others must bring their own sammiches *wink*


And uhhh...pickles ;-)

I am not a statistician but, seems there are a fair number of men who are Hand-fans - don't get me wrong, I love them both...but, the whole 'tease/denial' thing is worth exploring...after I finish mah pickle *grin*


Aphro-Rosie 2.0 -Dite

[David.Douchehurst]

If'n yew throw in a moon pie an' make tha soda an RC cola, don't matter whut size, an' make tha sammich a hard salami (not thet Ah needs any help!), toasted,wif provolone an' hot mustard, Ah jus' might take ya out fer a malted milk shake at Amy's after we're done "ringin' tha bell-chain fer some Kraft mayo".

[junkweed]

You guys are showing your age.





http://youtu.be/z0QERpNudfA

[Aphrodite]

Right we are! When ah feel real exotic and all, ah likes to mix things up with a moonpie and a grape Nehi! Makes me tingly in mah girly parts!

*wink*


~A~

[David.Douchehurst]

Originally Posted by junkweed

You guys are showing your age.

Mebbe Ah am, but that's jus' how long it took this ol' dog ta git a lot more tricks in la cama unner his belt than a buncha young punks ever gonna git learnt.

An' as fur as moon pies and RC cola goes, tha really good thangs in life are timeless!

Originally Posted by Aphrodite

When ah feel real exotic and all, ah likes to mix things up with a moonpie and a grape Nehi! Makes me tingly in mah girly parts!

C'mon, babydoll. Looks like we'uns gots us sum hard werk ta do!

[atxbrad]

Originally Posted by RALPHEY BOY

I will be nothing but honest here, No woman could ever give me a hj better than I can give myself.. period... it does not work for me..

Blowjob all the way on this one!!!

Originally Posted by Monk Rasputin

What he said.

A blow job is like meatloaf. Or pizza. When it's good, it's very, very good. And when it's bad, it's still pretty good.

Monk

I'm ith Monk and Ralphey Boy. Hands down a BJ is better

[lovesbustyblondes]

The seductive and sexy art of a great handjob is sadly a lost art, either the hard and fast quickie style or the long drawn out volcanic eruption stroke style that can be just as intense or more than a bj or sex no question.

The problem is most guys have never had an amazing handsmyth work on them before or had one to full mind blowing completion. It's usually just viewed by the guy as an appetizer, not ever as a main course.

So guys like on this post strongly state there is no way a hj could ever be as good or ever better than a bj. But if you've only had McDonald's you would say nothing beats (no pun intended) McDonald's food, but then one day you eat at a world class 5 Star steak house and viola your whole mindset gets shifted and then you see the proverbial hj light.

Like any woman will tell you, having an orgasm by a guy's fingers, mouth and c&ck and on the kitty or the back door all have different intensity and arousal levels for her. Most woman statistically can't or don't ever have orgasms during traditional sex, but oral and clit stimulation gets them off much easier.

No different with hj's and guys. For me hj's can be equal to or even sexier and more erotic than bj's. Because the woman can be inches from your face looking right into your eyes, talking nasty dirty to you (nothing better in the world) and most importantly making out with you (again nothing better) while she strokes you all the while she is setting the pace from fast to slow and back and forth over and over til you can't take it any longer.

You can't do those things at all when the woman's mouth is full with your manhood (except when they're doing c&ck eyes up at you then there's some eye contact or she stops and sprinkles in some dirty talk). But most woman don't do or do very little of those things when bobbing for apples, its simply head down and no talking like the teacher or librarian used to tell us in grade school (and not the sexy teacher or librarian either).

I love to no end both hj and bj's equally, but picking just one over the other would be like picking who's your favorite child or just picking just one favorite song or movie. It's best to keep a good tight rotation of them both in a great sex life, either in your personal life or with a sexy provider you meet.

My two cents.

Breast Man

"Fantasies do nothing for you or anyone else if they just stay locked up in your head and never are released."

[KissLover]

Cold pizza vs hot steaming fresh pizza. The first ain't bad, but the second is awesome. That said both are a spectrum and they overlap. Sometimes the lady' shelf evaluation of either is biased and exaggerated .

[Listener]

First of all a great BBBJ includes a great hand job except with a warm moist mouth, talented tongue and full lips at the end of each stroke.

A blow job without hand work is boring as hell just as a hand job without oral skills is both boring and a complete waste of money. Rosie palm knows how to please better than any provider ever could.

[Aphrodite]

First of all - I LOVE 'LovesBustyBlondes' handle :-). Smart man! Hehe!

I have learned, and NO, this is not a ThreAD, that there is a sensual art form to a truly great HJ. It isn't about pumping a man's cock as a weak form of foreplay. It is intended to be an intimate, and very focused form of cock worship. If done correctly, it should take a man to the brink...over and over again :-)~


Aphrodite - the coconut oil queen :-)

[Knockthebottomout]

I'll take a solid HJ over a BJ any day of the week!

[lovesbustyblondes]

1000%, a good or a great BJ MUST have ample hand skills involved. I swear so many woman don't know the hand twist from up to down, if more ladies new this there would be less war in the world.

[lovesbustyblondes]

I can't fault your obviously flawless and astute logic on me darling!

Gentlemen always prefer blondes, but brunettes are pretty awesome too.

I couldn't agree more with you Aphrodite (I love your cousin Cupid, we had shots a while back and he had some crazy stories about you girl!).

A great HJ is the ultimate cock worship at least to me because the woman when doing a BJ her head is down most of the time and her eyes closed.

Whereas when you’re doing a HJ the woman can be staring at your cock or into your eyes the entire time and reinforcing how much she loves your cock with dirty talk that would give a gay priest a lifelong hard on.

But I will say, "pumping a man's cock" as you say is also amazing just as much as a long drawn out HJ session. Fast, hard and fast to get you to explode in a few minutes is very very hot.

BL

Originally Posted by Aphrodite

First of all - I LOVE 'LovesBustyBlondes' handle :-). Smart man! Hehe!

I have learned, and NO, this is not a ThreAD, that there is a sensual art form to a truly great HJ. It isn't about pumping a man's cock as a weak form of foreplay. It is intended to be an intimate, and very focused form of cock worship. If done correctly, it should take a man to the brink...over and over again :-)~


Aphrodite - the coconut oil queen :-)

[BlisswithKriss]

There is much to love with both. You'd think that with a delicious bbbj it would be a given that you wouldn't last knowing that a hot lady's lips are around your member, so I have to ask myself, am I desensitized by too much BJ action.
I'm finding it more and more difficult to cum this way. God knows why.
Sometimes I'm thinking that a slow buildup of foreplay could do the trick, but I have to get into the zone and really focus on what's happening to me.
As for a good HJ, it's going to depend on how it's done. I've been exposed to the technique of have my cock slowly massaged by a hot hand from behind as I'm on all 4s with my ass in the air. The feeling of my cock being gently pulled downwards and I can feel her fingers delving around my crack and asshole makes me shudder with that thought. Throw in some dirty/erotic talk and it's show time!!! IMHO a definitely more luscious way to be handled with sexy aplomb. Certainly food for thought. It's always good to think about a different way. But finding a lady to participate with your ideas is sometimes a challenge.