What is your opinion on ThreADs here is mine

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by john_deere

Sorry.... I got fans that need attention.....

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by LilMynx69

Also for the record, I have seen you call out a guy for being an ass. It's your "followers" and "wannabes" I have a problem with, but that not your fault or concern.

xoxo,
LMx

I try to help them learn their way but some are like puppies and get so excited to be a "bad boy" for a change and just wet themselves.....

[gooose]

Originally Posted by Whispers

I try to help them learn their way but some are like puppies and get so excited to be a "bad boy" for a change and just wet themselves.....

Maybe you should provide SL with some depends.

[Kit_Kat]

Originally Posted by Laz

My opinion is probably already pretty well known but I will state it anyway. ThreADS do not bother me and are sometimes entertaining. However, the threAD should be an indirect ad not a blatant ad. Those that come across as an ad are usually ignored by me and from what I have seen by most members of the community.

Exactly this. I actually enjoy most of the "new photos" style threAds. Why? I like photography . I like looking at hot women. Why the heck wouldn't I want to combine those things? I've been more distracted by the storm storm of negative comments responding to them (or at times harassing them) than I am by the threads themselves. The way I look at it is if you don't approve of it then don't post a response on it. All your doing is effectively bumping a post you don't want to exist. If course you're entitled to your opinion and could express it here, but if you ignore the past, no one bumps it, then it will effectively disappear in its own as other things and more active discussions come up. If you just can't resist them why not pm the girl your opinion and keep it a private thing?

[a10bomb]

Originally Posted by a10bomb
So I have been kind of quiet on the whole whispers SL thing going on over the past month or so. I am just not one to start up shit or add fuel to fire type of guy.

Yet here you are.....


Yes I am you wanted to hear from those who are usually quiet so yes here I am

I am usually the guy who likes to comment on reviews or post something funny in the sand box or comment on someone else’s thread in the co-ed But with what happened to Jennifer Everlasts post getting deleted the other night I started to think maybe these guys (Whispers and SL)are right.

We are..... too many of you in San Antonio don't know it and even your Mods are having to learn it....


There’s that narcissism again


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So when I originally typed this it was a few days ago and at the time I was a little upset about what was going on with the now infamous thread getting deleted now that it is back with an explanation I do understand it I guess. I personally have nothing against Mokoa

You should.....
Why?? He has never done anything to me specifically Oh wait maybe you’re talking about moving my birthday thread that someone started. Oh wait that one wasn’t hobby related some of the responses were but you know what I don’t care where it is at because I don’t care about view counts or how many responses I get like others do


Now here is the thing I don’t agree with whispers, SL and a few others on which is the subject of ThreADs in coed. First off I do want to thank LeaMadison for the clarification on what the Mods guidelines for threADs and since no other mod has been willing to respond about it. Here is what was said

“In essence, it says that threADs are not against a specific rule. Of course if ones posts a threAD then they open themselves up for comments calling it such!

as well as our rights to express our displeasure with it....
Not actually what she said but I will agree you have the right to express your displeasure you just don’t have to be cruel or obnoxious about it

A thread becomes an ad when specific dates and/or services are offered and appointments are solicited. When that happens in a Co-ed forum or an ISO forum (or just about any forum that is not an AD forum) then it becomes a violation of Ad Posting policies. At that time staff can take action.”

Now with this being said I agree with I think it was Whispers who said maybe this should be added to the sticky in coed “The Final word on ThreADs”

Not me....


My mistake I don’t remember who said it I thought it was you

But here is what is ticking me off and what I want to ask Whispers and SL why are ya'll so against ThreADs or the women posting them?

For the most part it has to do with the way it turns grown men into little pussy whupped wusses having to comment and earn some attention from a lady they don't have the money to see or will never see anyway....


How do you know who has the money to see who you yourself have said you don’t write many reviews I write them because I enjoy writing them I also choose to interact with the ladies in threADs because it is fun to flirt back and forth with them and the ones I flirt with are the ones I have already seen or plan on seeing

But if a lady is WORTH seeing then she can run her ads and have business WITHOUT The need to push the boundaries....


But it is ok for you and SL to push the boundaries???

SOME ladies OWN their ThreADS and I tend to give them some respect.....

many post simply to get their availability seen and with no real interest in interacting with you or anyone else and many are too blind to see or too dumb to understand it...


And somehow you manage to compliment some (the ones that don’t fight back at you)and insult the rest(the ones that do stand up for themselves)

How do they hurt you, the board or the coed section? I am not sure where it was but I remember reading somewhere that all you wanted was for the women of this board to post their ads and basically STFU especially if they were the ones who spoke out against you or the ones that didn’t agree with you. Well my response to that is this:


You feel fine in their exploiting the system..... Expressing my distaste for them is also allowed by the system and you have a problem with that.

Since the the last line above was not in blue I am assuming that you said this since I know I didn’t So I fixed it for you. As for my answer First I don’t have a problem with them exploiting the system because they are not actually hurting me you or any other board member by posting a ThreAD. You on the other hand I do have a problem with the way you express your distaste for the threADs because you do it in such a negative way that you end up chasing some of the providers and hobbyists away. This is supposed to be a Community where we are all welcome for what we are which is a community of providers and hobbyists.

You KNOW they are running a business right? Let them standup for their business... They don't need some guy that would not get the time of day from them for less than $50 defending them.....


I absolutely do know they are running a business but If they do promote or standup for their business they just get harassed and talked down to you by you and your minions. Plus how are providers any different in the way they promote their business as any other company who promotes their business whther it is in a movie a newspaper a tv show for ezmple look at the movie E.T. one of the most beloved movies of all time has one of the biggest threADs if you will with Reese's Pieces the made a fortune off of that ThreAD but did anyb ody complain about it no they just went out and bought more Reese's Pieces

COED Discussions:
Hobby-related discussions belong here. Let's keep these discussions on-topic, thought-provoking, and more importantly...entertaining!

So by this definition as long as the threads/ ThreADs are hobby related (and since the hobby refers to hobbyists having sex with providers) or thought provoking and entertaining. Nowhere does it say who has to be entertained men or women nowhere does it say that only men can post these threads hint the title of the section of the board being Coed

You have not seen me lobby to have any of their threADs closed or removed.... I rather enjoy being able to express my displeasure for them and rile up someone like you.....


So basically what you are saying is you get off on causing trouble which is the definition of a Troll
From the Urban Dictionary—
1. troll
One who posts a deliberately provocative message to a newsgroup or message board with the intention of causing maximum disruption and argument





Here is what I say to that: So what if they are. They really don’t hurt anybody they get the guys of San Antonio excited they give an insight to what kind of personality the girls might have. Whispers and SL (and whoever else is on your side)maybe you don’t like to know about the women of this city maybe all you care about is getting your nut,

You are greatly in need of a reality check if you think that very many of those that post are really giving you any insight into who they are as people outside of the forum.....


Well considering most of the ladies I have interacted with here on the boards I have either seen BCD or at a social or even some away from the whole provider/hobbyist situation have a very similar personality to the one they have here on the boards now don’t get wrong I didn’t say they are exactly like they are on the boards just like I am sure you’re not the same narcissitic troll that you so like to be here on the foums



So now the question becomes do you have the right to post your distaste about threADs. Absolutely you do. Some may not understand the reason. Some may think ya’ll are trolls who have to bad mouth everything (well maybe not everything maybe just the things that you don’t like or the people who don’t agree with you). I mean hell we just received more guidance from a mod that said ThreADs are ok and it is also ok that members can post their dislike for them but let’s look at this. I mean some may think ya’ll are just trying to start something just to stir the pot which is kind of the same thing the providers are doing when they are posting their ThreADs they are saying look at me aren’t they?

Yup.... They are....... I just make sure when they are saying that that the Spotlight is adjusted properly to them!


And you make sure that spotlight is also on you at the same time
There’s that narcissism again

And you two negatively commenting on threADs aren’t you saying hey look at me also. Kind of the same thing isn’t it?

Nope..... It's more about saying.... "See them for what they really are,.....


I think most of us here do see them for what they are we are just not all cynical like you are about it.



Again all of this is my opinion.
What is yours?

hmm..... Mine is that a handful of us...... are going to shut down and run off a shitload of them.....

Again my opinion but I don't think that is waht the majority of San Antonio wants
Why?

Because we don't have feelings that can be hurt.....


That’s actually kind of sad I see why whoever it was said they pitied you I am starting to feel the same way

We post within the guidelines
It’s ok for you to push the boundaries but not ok for providers to do it???

People enjoy what we have to say and truthfully they enjoy the chaos that ensues.....


Why?

Because we want to? because of the way it brings out the wusses at times and they are fun to fuck with.....

It's kind of like going hunting and having a dog that runs in and startles the birds and they all pop up..... then you can get your shot off....


One or two properly placed comments shuts down a threAD as well as brings out a half dozen people with lame responses that show how little they think and there is entertainment in that to some....

Or are you doing this because you are starting to wear you welcome out in Austin and you need a new place spread your shit. Or is truly just a look at me type of thing either way I think the majority of San Antonio is over you trying to hijack not just a couple of threads or the coed but an actual community.

[Still Looking]

[dearhunter]

ThreADs are an open invitation to fuck with the OP, using everything they post as you see fit.

The purpose of a threAD is to get members to look at the OP. Thus, anything done or said (within the guidelines) about the OP is on topic. If an OP is not careful in how they word a threAD, they open up everything they have posted in the AD section and open board to discussion.

What is not to like about that?

Those who bitch and whine about the lack of civility in a threAD can live with the knowledge that they are for threADs.........they just want to control the content.......which is not going to happen.

If Whispers, Still Looking (insert you favorite asshole) choose to make threAD experiences unpleasant for the OP, there is not much you can do about it. It is the price of admission.