Why Close the Threads?

[Tetas]

The water's starting to boil, I think this thread should be closed before the frogs realize what's happening.

[Wakeup]

Originally Posted by playingnthedark

Wakeup, when he puts you to sleep for a week or more. Your dreams will become a nightmare. Chill the fuck out.

You're kidding right? There are whores on this board who would offer freebies for a month to any mod who can vacation me for a week...hasn't happened yet...see how this works?

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=696337

P.S.-Never been in the habit of bowing down to people who don't know how to do their jobs. Fuck up, get unfucked...it's simple...

[Mia Christine]

Originally Posted by Wakeuр

Whores are crazy sometimes...I forgive you...

Wait, we missed something... Was this meant as an apology of sorts?
Towards Annef? Purty Baby?
Trying to find a positive peace here

[Annef]

Im not going back to comment on each comment as it is a waste of energy at this point. But no, I do not think I was being to sensitive. Someone needed ro call him out on that behavior. I still do believe that is the responsibility of everyone in the community including the men to insure that these sorts of insults are not tolerated. I resent the notion that I am being overly sensitive, riled Or whatever. In truth, I'm not even particularly angry. Something needed to be said, and I said it. That is all. God know enough energy has been expended on this.

[Wakeup]

Therein lies your problem...and the problem your moderator has...you consider it an insult when I say the word whore...

That's not my problem. It's a word, and has no more insulting meaning than whiffle ball bat, or drywall. If you are upset by the word, then you're the one who is attributing extra meaning to it...not me...so whose behavior is in question here? Mine, for saying the word, or yours, for first, self-identifying with the word, and second, for adding extra of connotations to the word completely on your own?

Hooker, whore, escort, courtesan...all the same...if you're one, you're all the rest...

That's where your mod fails...he succumbs to popular opinion instead of following the rules...he'll learn...

[Annef]

It wasn't the use of the word whore. Words are not connected to anything. Their power or lack thereof depends upon both the intent of the speaker and the whole node of ideas, which, over time come to coalesce around a word. Don't try and hide behind a word. It's not about a word. It's about your use of it and every negative connotation you tried to bring about by using it. I really don't have anything against you. I could be wrong, but I think you are very young and emotionally conflicted about all of this. I don't dislike you, but you may not behind a word.

[Still Looking]

Don't much care for the word "WHORE"....

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=819322

...and I would NEVER call someone a whore unless it applied. I just don't thinck it applies to "escorts" doing their job.

You can have a big smile on your face and ask a provider / escort how long she has been a "PROVIDER" / ESCORT" and get an answer. Ask how long she has been a "WHORE" and watch what happens!

Me? Yes I'm a "WHORE".

[fun2come]

SL, how long have you been a "WHORE" ?

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by fun2come

SL, how long have you been a "WHORE" ?

Me thinks it was a birth defect.

[Wakeup]

Originally Posted by Annef

It's about your use of it and every negative connotation you tried to bring about by using it.

Show me where I tried to bring any negative connotation into it...

P.S.-It's kind of funny...since your moderator is being all "ignore it and it'll go away", this helps explain things...I like it...

[Spacemtn]

I am certainly not in "ignore it and it will go away mode". Some times we discuss handling of issues in advance and sometimes life itself gets in the way of the process.

The question here is not what YOU take from the word or words used or the context that you want everyone here to believe that you used it in. Posting Guideline #4 does not say to consider context, it says:
#4 - Blatant insults or hostility toward another member will be met with staff intervention. This applies to using our coed forums for name calling, personal attacks, or vulgar slang terms to describe fellow members. If you have legitimate concerns about another member here, share them tactfully in the appropriate private forums or with staff.

The question becomes if the word "whore" can be considered a vulgar slang term to describe fellow members. By the posts of several members male and female, they do find it a vulgar slang term. Since you are not happy with the points that you were given in the other thread or my explanation in PM's. Ultimately since our local members find the term offensive, I feel that it passes the litmus test of being outside of the posting guidelines.

Spacemtn
AustinModStaff

[Wakeup]

Originally Posted by Spacemtn

Since you are not happy with the points that you were given in the other thread or my explanation in PM's.

Whoa whoa whoa! Where did I say I got points? I was given points? You sent me a PM??? Wait...Space...are you divulging private communications between board members in public forums???

It might be best if you have another moderator point you for your violation, otherwise it might be taken as a conflict of interest...

[Still Looking]

Ok, now I understand the monkey shit fighting thing!

[fun2come]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

Ok, now I understand the monkey shit fighting thing!

I am not all clear about it...

Is that when out of towners come to visit, ruffle some feathers, cause some trouble, get the local community all up in arms, get some good well established stuff closed, and then are tarred and feathered out of town?

I remember a nice fellow from Little Rock, Arkansas who did that. That was FUN.

[Wakeup]

Wait...tarred and feathered out of town? You think I'm leaving over this? Heh...it's probably a good thing that staff doesn't post the happenings behind the scenes for the rest of you to see...it gets ugly when they get stepped on by their superiors...

Except of course when staff reveal private communications between members like this...then you all get riled up! See what I mean?