When a regular no longer is, or can be, your regular

[wanttohavefun]

Originally Posted by Tatiana M.

I know that there have been many threads pertaining to having a regular. I apologize if this has been discussed before, I've only been participating in the boards for about a month now. Anyway, my question is, what would constitute ending a courtship with a regular? Either with a provider or a hobbyists? Unfortunitely, I've had to tell a couple regulars I could no longer see them, the reasons were various in nature, but it's never an easy thing to do. Some were becoming a little too attached and jelouse, some started to abuse my time to the extreme (example) paying for 1 hour but expecting an overnight, some started to hassle me for BBFS, some invaded my privacy and wanted to know my addresse and other personal details, and one gent did an illegal substance around me. Out of all of these circumstances, I've only had one regular get angry when I told him I could no longer see him. The rest took it in stride, they were mature about it. And frankly, I'm surprised. So what have your experiences been like? Guys, did you have a regular provider but had to end things? What was the reason? Ladies, what about you? What have been your experiences in the past? Having a regular is great. But what about when you can no longer see that regular? How does it end? What is the best thing to say? Did you lie, or did you tell the truth? My curious mind wants to know what y'all have to say. Luv, T

In my case the regular provider(my 2nd) I had to stop seeing because I was taking a break from the hobby and women in general. I was honest about why, that it had nothing to do with her and she seemed to take it fine.

For me the big thing is for the provider to let me know before the issues get to the point of stopping me from seeing her. With the current lady I'm regularly seeing, we've agreed to talk about stuff well before the issues become chronic.

[JONBALLS]

simple....she dropped a duece and clogged the toilet..

then took body spray perfume and drenched my fucking bathroom in it

there is such thing as a FAN...just flip the switch on the WALL!

I washed the whole fucking room and the stale perfume stench is STILL THERE, days later..

the first day I could taste it while sitting in the living rm and got a headache from it

and that led to trying to power wash the whole fucking room

I thinck Im going to have to repaint the whole fucking thing.....shes done

[guest032013]

Originally Posted by JONBALLS

simple....she dropped a duece and clogged the toilet..
....shes done

Considering the size of her stretched out anus, did you expect a more delicate turd homie?

[JONBALLS]

shit happens, the perfume is the FUCKING DISASTER..

[guest032013]

Originally Posted by JONBALLS

shit happens, the perfume is the FUCKING DISASTER..

She was trying to be polite

[JONBALLS]

I know ,,,somehow this will be ALL my fault

[Guest091813]

thanks folks..its funny coming to a small town from a large city..still making the adjustments and working things out sometimes seems slow at best..any rate..thankyou for the sweet things youve all said..ill make a go of it for abit longer...

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by Tatiana M.

Anita, after 5 years you would think he wouldn't treat you this way. Sometimes the best thing you can do is put your foot down and show people you won't tolerate any BS anymore. Once people realize you won't put up with nonsense, they come around and get their act together. It's too bad he had to lose you in the process. However, it does sound like this man may have a very real anxiety disorder. I don't know.

Bullshit, the tard is a turd. Believe it or not this is not uncommon. A regular that becomes flighty. One old DFW provider used to have the same old regular call her two to three times a week to make an appointment. It quickly became a joke because he never showed up. Oh she worked her schedule to allow time and got ready. But he never showed and never called. I suspect he was a drunck but she would never tell.

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by anita germane

thanks folks..its funny coming to a small town from a large city..still making the adjustments and working things out sometimes seems slow at best..any rate..thankyou for the sweet things youve all said..ill make a go of it for abit longer...

Do I need to come up there and rub your booty?

[Guest091813]

Originally Posted by pyramider

Do I need to come up there and rub your booty?

yes pleaseeeeeeeeeeee

[Tatiana M.]

Originally Posted by anita germane

ms t..your right..however this is a smaller city than what im used to...
seems sometimes in a smaller city they have a certain type of lady they like..
i dont seem to be fittin that bill...

which kinda makes me laugh since this is new york and all....anyone is supposed to make it here...

I gotta do what what I gotta do to make the rent and fill the lunchboxes...sad cuz my rent is very good..
i'm still having issues..so very sad...

I have never had an issue in a bigger city..Ive actually checked things out back there in my ol "city"
..still alot of the gents that adored me still do..

I may have to bounce..
sad for me ..since ive come to adore this city and the city's surrounding me..my recent
recant on visiting buff really kinda enforced this thought process...

what do you do..i dont know..im sure ill have ladies and gents that are like.."u aint gone yet"
and others that are cool are are like..dont go..
what cracks me up really..is when a guy says..your on my fav list..and i find out later..im last listed under 13 provider s
that havent been in the biz for years and thats under the list of all the 45 providers here on this board...
and i havent heard from this gent in over a year..i feel just so special..thanks ya'll...

hahaha..come on man..for real.................

I would say that you gotta do what ya gotta do, you know? If your getting a great deal on the rent here, maybe you could look into traveling to those major cities where business is better, but still live here? Many women do it. I mean, some ladies live in Florida and travel all over the United States. Look into your options. I'm sure your a great provider.