Annoying Appointment Request! UGH!!

[samantha thom]

[quote=hd;2719120]OK, so what was this all about? I just woke up from having a 2am appoint. this morning and apparently missed something here?

I saw Rosey Palm, she's usually available anytime.




Hi Sam [/quote

Hi HD!! There ya go....everyone can contact Rosey Palm if they have an 'emergency' need at 2am. :-)

It's nothing HD....I'm not mad anymore. The man who aggravated me last night, STRANGELY, sent me another message saying that he's even more intrigued to see me. (??) He apologized and realized that his request wasn't very gentlemanly asking me to come out to see him (a stranger) late at night. I'm telling you....our brains work differently late at night....his and mine. LOL. It's all good!

[Randy4Candy]

Originally Posted by samantha thom

Ok...this part I'm the one who is clueless. I did not know women see men that late. (??) I had no clue. I didn't even think to put a stop time. Thought it goes without saying that 1am is way too late, not to mention the short last minute notice unless you're a 24/7 on-call physician or IT person called for emergency. I will specify on my profile now. I could be online answering email during late at night relaxing but having an appt that late...I don't want to do. Thanks for all the input! and no, don't be sorry...no one lost cause no one did anything he/she didn't want to do.

OK, this worked out - YAY!

There may have been a little vino at work when you posted the Original Post Not THAT big of a deal and there is also a little something to be said about not being a "seasoned pro" and having thought about all of the possibilities.

You made your decision on the side of safety and that's always smart. However, it is one thing to have a positive, healthy self image and another to take up the tone you did in some of your earlier posts. Like I said, there may have been an outside agitator involved - the glass(es) of wine. I've been guilty of that, too - especially several decades ago when I was your age.

Well, one lives and learns. We could use some sophistited, level headed, thoughtful and intelligent YOUNG providers around here. Keep making the right moves as you have in clarifying your availability. And, take a deep breath and don't break out the claws until a few hours have passed.

Good luck and don't sweat this too much. Plenty of the good providers around here have made some unforced errors, made the adjustments they thought necessary and now enjoy a good reputation and client base.

[oldmarine]

Originally Posted by samantha thom

Ooooooo!!!! Another challenge....tell me what is YOUR NTRP rating first? haha...I love these cute emoticons!!!

Just messing with you samantha. I am only a 3.5 player but on a good day I can hold my own against a 4.0.

[samantha thom]

Originally Posted by Randy4Candy

OK, this worked out - YAY!

There may have been a little vino at work when you posted the Original Post Not THAT big of a deal and there is also a little something to be said about not being a "seasoned pro" and having thought about all of the possibilities.

You made your decision on the side of safety and that's always smart. However, it is one thing to have a positive, healthy self image and another to take up the tone you did in some of your earlier posts. Like I said, there may have been an outside agitator involved - the glass(es) of wine. I've been guilty of that, too - especially several decades ago when I was your age.

Well, one lives and learns. We could use some sophistited, level headed, thoughtful and intelligent YOUNG providers around here. Keep making the right moves as you have in clarifying your availability. And, take a deep breath and don't break out the claws until a few hours have passed.

Good luck and don't sweat this too much. Plenty of the good providers around here have made some unforced errors, made the adjustments they thought necessary and now enjoy a good reputation and client base.

A little vino and a lot of blue balls on his part late at night. I'm telling you....it is better not to roam around late at night. :0)

Unforced errors??? NICE TERM!!! I love my fellow tennis players!! I will minimize my unforced errors and maximize my winner shots.
Thank you, Randy!!

[samantha thom]

Originally Posted by oldmarine

Just messing with you samantha. I am only a 3.5 player but on a good day I can hold my own against a 4.0.

:-) Perfect...we will have good competition! I warn you though...I am a very aggressive player. Hope our paths will cross in the future, OldMarine!

[S-Man]

Samantha,

The request was made through P411, right? Could the person have accidentally chosen 1am rather than 1pm on the dropdown box?

S-Man

[Roothead]

maybe add a qualifier like "24 hr advanced notice required" ?

[PODarkness]

Sam, from where you were sitting it looked rude, but look at it from where he was sitting. There were many indications that it was ok to ASK if you were available for a session. If you are not "on the clock" don't answer business communications.

To answer him right back, and dress him down for asking if you are open for business sounds a bit over the top. If you call a pizza shop for a pizza, and they answer the phone, but only to yell at you for calling after they closed, what would be your reaction?
E-mails are not intrusive. Were you venting?

Perhaps I'm missing something here, but where did the anger come from?

[Guest091813-02]

Glad it all worked out. You said you'd been drinking wine. . .usually best to stay off the keyboard with any alcohol in the blood. I'm sure the guy meant no harm and may have even had some drinks himself.

If you ever add body rub with L1 or L2 to your menu, and I'm not suggesting any fees less than your standard GFE fees and am happy to pay your full service GFE rate for this less intimate service, I'd sure love a visit with you. Would even possibly pay more. . would need incall. Please consider. Just as you have your boundaries, there are those of us who really try to save GFE for the SO but would love to enjoy their visits with wonderful women like you.

[pyramider]

If those fucktards saved GFE for the SO then they would never do GFE. Thus, the reason why they hobby.

[samantha thom]

Originally Posted by PODarkness

Sam, from where you were sitting it looked rude, but look at it from where he was sitting. There were many indications that it was ok to ASK if you were available for a session. If you are not "on the clock" don't answer business communications.

To answer him right back, and dress him down for asking if you are open for business sounds a bit over the top. If you call a pizza shop for a pizza, and they answer the phone, but only to yell at you for calling after they closed, what would be your reaction?
E-mails are not intrusive. Were you venting?

Perhaps I'm missing something here, but where did the anger come from?

LOL...yes, you're missing something. It's ok...I know it's a lot to read. It all worked out, he apologized, I apologized. It's just that I seem to take it personally if guys forget that we're real women and deserve to be treated like one. I'm not talking about 'hobby etiquette' and e-mail communication timing but common courtesy etiquette such as asking a woman to see a stranger at 1am. That's all. The man involved understood my perspective now and I understood his. Hehe!!! A man is a man after all, right? He has needs.
I don't mindd getting late emails or responding to one if I'm still up. But I'm not meeting anyone late.

[cheyene5254]

I support you, Samantha completely. You took the time to write your profile and anyone hoping to spend time with you should take as much or more time reading about you and your schedule. I don't think you were rude at all, and it's true you shouldn't sacrifice your values to please everyone. I've read your profile and reviews and believe you to be a wonderful lady. I hope someday to have the opportunity meet and spend quality time with you. I play tennis too.

[PoppyToyota]

WOW! You get offended when a guy wants to give you his hard earned money. I don't really understand what's offensive about asking you if you're available at 1am. All you had to do was A. Ignore the Request B. Tell Him You Were Not Available. If I'm cruising P411 and I see a lady is ONLINE I would ask her if I wanted to see her. You were obviously ONLINE because you seen the request right? Several ladies have taken request after the posted hours. We all just need to rub our earlobes and say WooSaah. Have a wonderful day.....

[samantha thom]

Originally Posted by PoppyToyota

WOW! You get offended when a guy wants to give you his hard earned money. I don't really understand what's offensive about asking you if you're available at 1am. All you had to do was A. Ignore the Request B. Tell Him You Were Not Available. If I'm cruising P411 and I see a lady is ONLINE I would ask her if I wanted to see her. You were obviously ONLINE because you seen the request right? Several ladies have taken request after the posted hours. We all just need to rub our earlobes and say WooSaah. Have a wonderful day.....

Arghghgh..no, that's not what offended me. I appreciate it and am always grateful that a guy wants to meet me. I understand that some ladies may need to take late night appointment and work 3rd shift. Not I...and I clarified that on my profile now. Being online doesn't mean I'm available. I'm online and connected all the time on my smartphone even when I'm sitting in bed resting. I already mentioned many times why I was offended. It's all over now, it's behind us. He and I understand each other better, apologies were said to each other and appointment set up for next week. He told me to stay strong, type A, fiery and feisty! ().

[samantha thom]

Originally Posted by cheyene5254

I support you, Samantha completely. You took the time to write your profile and anyone hoping to spend time with you should take as much or more time reading about you and your schedule. I don't think you were rude at all, and it's true you shouldn't sacrifice your values to please everyone. I've read your profile and reviews and believe you to be a wonderful lady. I hope someday to have the opportunity meet and spend quality time with you. I play tennis too.

Thank you, Cheyene! Maybe we'll get to meet in person one day, spend some time with each other on and off the court.