Are all the providers really leaving or is the hobby naturally cleansing itself?

[rockerrick]

Originally Posted by JohnBrown7

To be clear (and to possibly open some eyes.)

To be perfectly clear,the only one who opened anyones eyes on this thread is Whispers!

[budman33]

Originally Posted by rockerrick

To be perfectly clear,the only one who opened anyones eyes on this thread is Whispers!

yes eyes opened and boggled and then a face palmed. For someone with so much reflection and insight into the dark side of this hobby and vowing to be even more honest and direct with the ladies here.

and on the other side of the coin, delights in turning out strippers on rent and bill day. girls that could benefit from this sage advice if only they knew the existence of eccie. I see pearls of wisdom, shared with the young women who could benefit from it most? I think not.

But whatever, we're here to fuck.

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by budman33

yes eyes opened and boggled and then a face palmed. For someone with so much reflection and insight into the dark side of this hobby and vowing to be even more honest and direct with the ladies here.

and on the other side of the coin, delights in turning out strippers on rent and bill day. girls that could benefit from this sage advice if only they knew the existence of eccie. I see pearls of wisdom, shared with the young women who could benefit from it most? I think not.

But whatever, we're here to fuck.

AHHHHHH... So you are one of those huh? A guy that believes women should be guided to place that will teach them to raise rates/charge more.....

You are right that I do not guide any of them here.

Maybe I make it easy for them to cross the line but they don't really want to think of them selves as crossing a line..... More than a few that have been to the luncheons are aware of the site and have said they want nothing to do with it because they are not a whore. You seem to be unaware of those discussions as to why strippers provide ITC and OTC but deny they are prostituting themselves. Preferring instead to think of themselves as having a few select friends with benefits.


BUT... Over the years I HAVE introduced more than a couple of ladies to the sites that have went on to become successful Indies or Agency girls....

But only when they bring it up.....

[budman33]

But you wax poetic about the damage of this lifestyle to them but bring them in.. over and over. I know you are a self admitted hypocrite.. but damn. One one hand you tell us how it breaks them and on the other you ... seem to have a perverse enjoyment being the catalyst.

Yea I guess its fun to turn a non-provider into one, but then you post about how you KNOW the damage, the emotional tolls, the rocky road they may set them-self upon... and then you say... "Turn here please, great shortcut."

That's karma I don't need

[Whispers]

There are some EXTREMELY negative aspects to this lifestyle.....

I may be the "first" with a number of ladies but I am seldom the "last" or only one..... If it's not me it's going to be someone else....

So let me get this straight... Your OK with the ones that are IN the lifestyle, just don't want to know how they got here or be one that gets them here?

We all have moments when we are not proud of what happens around here.... what we do..... but at the end of the day.... the more information... the greater the accuracy..... the more decisions can be made in an educated manner. Not just by us but by the ladies as well.

The information that came out recently opened a lot of eyes.... and ears.... I've heard from some guys that will never write another review.... one that may never hobby again..... a couple of ladies that share those feelings about certain clients....

I don't gloat over the damage done the ladies.... I know many of them and care about a few of them..... I try to make sure where I interact with any of them that I am open and honest about my interests....

But.... I'm not here for relationships..... I'm not looking to flirt..... I don't particularly want to be # 4 for the day, #11 for the week and #37 for the month...... So I prefer newer talent....

I'm not fucking virgins.....

[budman33]

Originally Posted by Whispers

I may be the "first" with a number of ladies but I am seldom the "last" or only one..... If it's not me it's going to be someone else....

thats a moral cop-out and you know it. It might be someone else, and it might not have ever happened. you sound like a dealer with that comment. come on man, I was just starting to like you.

None of us are fucking virgins, duh, may last was when i was 18 and I'm pretty sure she was lying. she had skills. that's not even remotely the same.

[ztonk]

Originally Posted by budman33

But you wax poetic about the damage of this lifestyle to them but bring them in.. over and over.

I think you are overestimating the numbers here... I'd hazard a guess that an overwhelming majority of the ladies that Whispers has had on his arm over the years do not go the provider route. Some might hook up with another guy or two or three, but that's probably about the extent of it, as they really don't think of themselves as sex workers... just a lady trying to make ends meet with some awfully nice older gentlemen with the means to help them out.

Originally Posted by budman33

Yea I guess its fun to turn a non-provider into one

I'm not sure of your agenda here... I think Whispers has constantly said that he only mentions this site when *they* insist on knowing about it.

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[budman33]

think, guess, probably, agenda. hmmmm

You have about as much facts as I do ztonk but you are equally supported in your opinion as I hope am I.

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by budman33

You have about as much facts as I do ztonk

Not that is incredibly funny... But you would have to be a member f the "in crowd" to really understand why!

[budman33]

yes king narcissist .. all hail the king /sigh

[sixxbach]

budman33,

You are no know better than any other hobbyist. You think because you are nice and kiss ass that it somehow makes you better than me or anyone you don't agree with? Eating sushi with some providers doesn't make you holier than thou. You are still a john my friend.....

sixx

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by sixxbach

It was brought up in a recent post that it seems that many providers are leaving the hobby. Thobby. There have been 3 recent retirements by well known providers who have been around at least 3 to 4 years.

I feel that providers are not being "run off" but simply the hobby is cleansing itself out. The provider shelf life is much shorter than a hobbyist. No one can argue that providing takes a physical and emotional toll that most cannot endure for too long. For every Kat there is a college cutie (who lasted maybe 6 months). Hobbyists can hobby much longer because the emotional effects are pale compared to providers.

Providers also must compete with the never ending slew of new providers ready to make their mark and cash taking advantage of being the new girl. Established providers must count on cultivating business relationships with their regulars and make sure their A game is on to attract new clients as well.

I don't feel the girls are leaving in droves. I feel the hobby pool is mearly going through its natural cycle of cleansing itself. There are new providers who have joined in the last few weeks who are making their marks, becoming someone's ATF, etc.

I will personally miss Natalie Reign. I am also happy for her because she seems to be in a great place in her life. Besides, providing is meant to be a means to an end, not the end....

Thoughts?

Sixx