What is your favorite part of being a provider ?

[Boudin3112]

Appreciate your honesty Melissa. Refreshing to see that instead of always in character and falsely giving some men hope and a posting advertisement. Thank you. Do not mix business and pleasure and those of you that are business owners or have a special skill know exactly how destructive it can be to mix them.
I have seen seen lots of prostitutes, and I have paid top dollar. I have never seen a street walker type prostitute, not that I would not have in my past as yes, she is a person too. Never seen a toothless, stinky prostitute either, must have been lucky.
Ever notice how instead of answering the question, some people try tear down others? Means i said some truth. Lily you turned the topic back to me as if i have to prove anything to you, i don't. Usually best to remain quiet when you do not know the other person. I do not insult you or others I just speak truth and if that bothers you, look into your own self and figure out why.
Al, everyone thinks I am cynical, lol!! All I do is speak truth. Question: what is your favorite part of being a provider? Answer: Cash! Not to meet people, anyone ever meet new people starting a new job, he'll yes, we all do. Not our favorite part though, lol. Meeting other prostitutes is another good one, lol. Be honest with yourselves, because we out here all know the truth anyway.

[Lily Kat Wood]

Originally Posted by Boudin3112

Ever notice how instead of answering the question, some people try tear down others? Means i said some truth. Lily you turned the topic back to me as if i have to prove anything to you, i don't. Usually best to remain quiet when you do not know the other person. I do not insult you or others I just speak truth and if that bothers you, look into your own self and figure out why.

You seem confused. The OP asked a question, which I answered. Since you're not a provider, you can't speak for me. I thought you said it was unwise to speak of what you don't know, but there you go... And since you don't get cash out of this hobby, that can't be YOUR answer to her original question. It's just YOU hijacking her thread with your sermon about how whores are never to be trusted. Okay, we get it.

[Alicia1]

Originally Posted by jl11

So you break hobby etiquette and know each other while not providing.

That's me I am low volume, no more than one a day just a general rule and I enjoy hanging out with some of my clients also!

[Melissa Madyson]

I have been there and done that. It for me has never worked well. I am a business owner so I keep my business separate from my non- business relationships.

I have mistakenly in my past seen regular clients for "Just dinner", or "Just to chat ect." and when I tell you after a while they think they can just "Drop on by", without a paid session appt. well it happens...

So now it is PAY ME FOR MY TIME, DO YOU, AND JUST GO OUR SEPARATE WAYS.
Money is what pays my bills, and hey if I can make long term friends along the way then I am happy. If not so be it.

If everyone was honest here I think the answers would pretty much be the same as mine.
IJS
M.M.

[DallasRain]

I have a couple clients I have known a LONGGGGG time...so I treat them extra special....I have one I go to Whataburger with {offf the clock} after our playtime.......another one I have known over 6 years and do kickass doubles with,so I decorate the room in fun party decor and put out snacks .....another one I dress skimpy & we go to Twin Peaks or Hooters {off the clock} after our playtine....and I have one gent that when he books me for at least an hour when I tour his city,I have him come over a couple nights later before I leave town for a freebie 3some.

I try to make this business fun...but still keep it a business in most ways.

[Lily Kat Wood]

Originally Posted by Melissa Madyson

If everyone was honest here I think the answers would pretty much be the same as mine.
IJS
M.M.

So who is it that is not being honest? And are you saying that only your experiences have merit? I find that even the same gentleman can treat two different ladies differently, but under your examples all of the guys on here are not to be trusted. That's even more confusing. How can they become your friends if you don't trust them?

[jl11]

Originally Posted by Alicia1

That's me I am low volume, no more than one a day just a general rule and I enjoy hanging out with some of my clients also!

Well I'm not married and my s/o has become more of a female roommate friend that knows I am promiscuous, but I wouldn't break the discreetness and hang out with a provider. Like I said, I've always thought that it was proper hobby etiquette to pay, enjoy, get out and maybe send a thank you text or call, and that's it.

[Lily Kat Wood]

Originally Posted by jl11

Like I said, I've always thought that it was proper hobby etiquette to pay, enjoy, get out and maybe send a thank you text or call, and that's it.

I think that your take on the etiquette is perfect for a good portion of the gentleman that I only see once and especially for your situation. At the same time, for the gentlemen that I see more than once, I don't feel the need for hard and fast lines. I have been doing this for a couple of years now and don't find myself having to constantly fend off my regulars over stepping their boundaries. Quite the opposite. There are some great guys on here who don't need to be told how to act. I truly enjoy that. Jl11, are the lines there because of your relationship or because that's what's expected in the hobby in your experience?

[jl11]

Originally Posted by Lily Kat Wood

. Jl11, are the lines there because of your relationship or because that's what's expected in the hobby in your experience?

No, but like I said the relationship has come more to NSA. She's bi, and enjoys women on the side. There are providers that I've seen which I would take out to dinner or grab a glass of wine with, but not pay a provider's rate for it. I pay for the lay, and that's not me that she's just a set of holes. I enjoy the company with the friendly ones, but don't need attn. from a woman, or a woman to mope to. I don't need to try to impress anyone else by taking an attractive woman out.
Plus, whose to say that something else develops emotionally while going out with a provider. Sounds like a trainwreck.

[Hojo]

Train wreck is a good description for the responses to this thread. Thought this question was posed to the providers not the guys to pontificate the dangers of developing a friendship with someone nor to deride providers who answer the question. What a novel freakin idea. Maybe one of yall should start a thread on what you think someone else thinks. And news flash just because you call something the truth doesn't make it so. believe me. A bunch of wonderful people have told me so. The google even said it. See!
Dallas I want to become a regular. Lol. (I'll even make the snacks)

[Nicole Cox]

To answer your question.

Cash & Dick. I don't date socially outside the hobby. So, it satisfies my sexual needs (most days) as well as my financial needs. And while I'm not looking for a husband, boyfriend or thunder buddy. I really enjoy meeting new people. Life is good in hobby.

[jl11]

Originally Posted by Hojo

Train wreck is a good description for the responses to this thread. Thought this question was posed to the providers not the guys to pontificate the dangers of developing a friendship with someone nor to deride providers who answer the question. What a novel freakin idea. Maybe one of yall should start a thread on what you think someone else thinks. And news flash just because you call something the truth doesn't make it so. believe me. A bunch of wonderful people have told me so. The google even said it. See!
Dallas I want to become a regular. Lol. (I'll even make the snacks)

I see that you're new here. Most Coed section threads never stay on course, and this one has been rather tame and civilized.

[MOCHAakaMOCHA]

I'm a social being who likes to get nasty ..... so lol basically getting to be myself and be paid well for it .

[monkeyseeyou]

Mocha. Who the hell can argue with that?

Originally Posted by MOCHAakaMOCHA

I'm a social being who likes to get nasty ..... so lol basically getting to be myself and be paid well for it .

[MOCHAakaMOCHA]

Originally Posted by monkeyseeyou

Mocha. Who the hell can argue with that?