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Originally Posted by engineering_nerd
Yikes. So much going on. I know two things after reading this all...
Definitely not seeing Frankie.
Think any provider who shares personal information about a client openly to other clients is 100% wrong. It is also sad that most providers believe being creepy or even stiffing others is justification for publicly outing someone on this board.
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This whole cluster-fuck has made me reevaluate my decision to hobby in an environment where a good % of the ladies think it is OK to do such a thing.
I only do out-call at my cave which means I am really exposed. All it takes is one bat shit crazy provider and a false accusation to get your entire life plastered across the boards.
Granted the mods did the right thing but the problem is the current mindset of many Eccie ladies that outing in an open forum is acceptable if you're pissed enough.
All the mods can do is intervene after the damage is done and ban the disposable alias that was used to inflict the damage.
Combine this with mob mentality and your entire life can be destroyed in a heart beat. Not worth it to just to stick my dick in a rent-a-hole.
I'll gladly pay the cost of a dinner and an evening of being charming to get an overnighter. Not as convenient but it's sure as hell a shit load safer and you get a whole lot more bang for the buck.
That being said I still look forward to Whisper's 3 part series on screening that he keeps eluding to but not quite delivering.