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Originally Posted by Gemma34
I do not discriminate against recovering alcoholics.
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BEST ANSWER EVER!!!
so, from me........... I'll see any gent once....
why do I choose not to see black men on the regular? Same reason as I do not see Hispanics, Saudi's, Hindu's or Russians.
They will almost always want to negotiate donation and not leave my space when their time is over.
Or, they flat out short me....
Also, it would seem as though the aforementioned "cultures" are kind of like a 30 yr old on Viagra... they just go and go and go and go and go.... no hi how are you, just more like " your my bitch so get to it and i'll not stop (and you won't know when to leave cuz I hid the clocks)"
All gents have needs and yes cultural and genetic background plays into that.. HAVING STATED THAT... I've met men from all the aforementioned who I have seen again because they did not try to degrade me with the attitude of "I'm in charge of you cuz you charge"...
Also, when a girl is at a lower price point, IN MY OPINION, when seeing a man of "color" (I'm digging my hole deeper at this point, I know LOL) .... actually, I won't even get into that side of the conversation.. I'll just state that women who advertise on certain sites at a certain price point, who sees gents in a "certain" part of town, they ATTRACT the "pimps"
When an individual looks at the history of prostitution in America, in the last 50 years it's been the black man who'se been the pimp... So now, that's the general idea and honestly... just because the black man knows the pimp hustle better than most other cultures NOW doesn't make them all bad.
Initially I did not see black men because I was raised that way.. END OF THE INITIAL STORY..... (which means we, as providers, should not meet with Italians or irish men cuz they ran the industry back when America was a wee country)
After being in the industry and having many positive experiences with black men, as well as the above mentioned, my childish attitude TOWARDS BLACK MEN have changed.. My attitudes against Saudi's will never change...
UGH... I've gone way off base, but this has been a HUGE line of thought for me as I have been posed this question forever..
by BOTH sides of the fence...
no doubt i'll reread this in a few hours and edit, yall just got my first thoughts...
Jazz