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Meerschaum · 12-18-2013, 09:18 AM

Musically, I would say GFE is Barry White style love making.

PSE is NIN "I wanna fcuk you like an animal"

!VI! · 12-18-2013, 11:25 AM

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Originally Posted by corona

She is more CCPE. Cray Cray Provider Experience...

Sorry not relevant to OP?

bojulay · 12-18-2013, 02:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Wulf_Princess

IOP?

and i would say its a two party job

The best I think is where it's all mixed together from one minute to
the next, not like 15min of GFE and then 15min of PSE.

More like a hot lava flow with explosions intermingled.
With the passion ampt way up, like it is the last time
you will ever get to do it.

I hate anything listless, distracted, or boring, and I hate compartmental things.

And if I ever get that attitude from a girl that I'm just the next guy,
I had just as soon hit the road.

A guy also has to have the attitude that he is going to show a girl the
best time she has ever had, whether it is or not, he should have that attitude,
and the girl should have that attitude about his time as well.

I'm talking perfect scenario here.
If it's a one sided affair then it wont happen.

Some guys seem to have the attitude that it is all up to the girl,
they are probably the ones most disappointed.

skirtchaser79411 · 12-18-2013, 08:22 PM

maybe it just me but why is the wulf so concerned about gfe vs pse should she not just manage herself after the first time she was here sure sounded like pse to me just my 2 cents

SpiceItUp · 12-19-2013, 12:27 AM

If the BBBJ is slow and sensual and you stop just short of your gag reflex it's GFE

If he grabs your face and fucks it like he's trying to bust a hole out of the back of your head, you gag on it and he pushes another few inches in until you are actually licking his balls while all the way down, tears run down your face and trails of saliva run from his dick every time he pulls out, THATs PSE

!VI! · 12-19-2013, 06:06 AM

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Originally Posted by skirtchaser79411

maybe it just me but why is the wulf so concerned about gfe vs pse should she not just manage herself after the first time she was here sure sounded like pse to me just my 2 cents

you comment does not make since and it's also not relevant to OP

!VI! · 12-19-2013, 06:14 AM

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Originally Posted by SpiceItUp

If the BBBJ is slow and sensual and you stop just short of your gag reflex it's GFE

If he grabs your face and fucks it like he's trying to bust a hole out of the back of your head, you gag on it and he pushes another few inches in until you are actually licking his balls while all the way down, tears run down your face and trails of saliva run from his dick every time he pulls out, THATs PSE

you version sounds more like Sub/Dom

which is a type of PSE i guess?

based on what i've read, 40% of guys say gfe is a wild hardcore without regards for natural boundries

everyone else says, the best mix seems to be 15 min pse (15-30 min PSE) 15 gfe to end with whats more to be desired.

I am not one to be dominated that's for sure, so is there a level of PSE that doesn't seem so, one sided?

pfmtony · 12-19-2013, 06:26 AM

PSE can be the woman in charge.... I know a gal that says tony fuck me in the ass, and then grabs me and stuffs it in. She then orders me faster, harder, faster until we both lose it. She is total PSE when she wants greek and she is in charge. Yah I'm pounding her silly but its what she wanted.... But then we hug kiss and cuddle after thank goodness. For me LFK and DFK are probably more important than BBBJ. I won't see anyone that doesn't offer those 3.

!VI! · 12-19-2013, 06:57 AM

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Originally Posted by pfmtony

PSE can be the woman in charge.... I know a gal that says tony fuck me in the ass, and then grabs me and stuffs it in. She then orders me faster, harder, faster until we both lose it. She is total PSE when she wants greek and she is in charge. Yah I'm pounding her silly but its what she wanted.... But then we hug kiss and cuddle after thank goodness. For me LFK and DFK are probably more important than BBBJ. I won't see anyone that doesn't offer those 3.

LFK?

pfmtony · 12-19-2013, 07:35 AM

WP there is a sticky thread on acronyms you can search for......

Light French kissing.... I don't see girls that dont kiss. Heck I'm known for stopping ladies mid BJ to kiss more. making out is total GFE.

Guest020720 · 12-19-2013, 08:43 AM

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Originally Posted by bojulay

The best I think is where it's all mixed together from one minute to
the next, not like 15min of GFE and then 15min of PSE.

More like a hot lava flow with explosions intermingled.
With the passion ampt way up, like it is the last time
you will ever get to do it.

I hate anything listless, distracted, or boring, and I hate compartmental things.

And if I ever get that attitude from a girl that I'm just the next guy,
I had just as soon hit the road.

A guy also has to have the attitude that he is going to show a girl the
best time she has ever had, whether it is or not, he should have that attitude,
and the girl should have that attitude about his time as well.

I'm talking perfect scenario here.
If it's a one sided affair then it wont happen.

Some guys seem to have the attitude that it is all up to the girl,
they are probably the ones most disappointed.

I like your version of it, although Tony's can be good too...if you start off slow n easy, then get a lil rough n nasty with things, then finish off gentle n sweet.

It all really depends on what the guy wants in the session to me. Last night I had a fairly across the board GFE experience. Only thing that might be described as PSE was during DATY, he really went to town - and that was on him - not me - and it was an outter body experience. (sheets were wet, which isn't a thing I can offer to clients, it just happens from time to time)

Anyways,

It is what it is. I base it upon what the guys like or want, which is, IMHO, a quality of a good provider. You have to be able to cater to their needs. And HEY, if you don't do PSE, you don't. It's not a big deal. Just make sure you mention that in your ads. Same goes for GFE. Guys want to know what is or isn't on the menu.

pfmtony · 12-19-2013, 09:38 AM

Angie that does sound fun. On DATY I like to get crazy sometimes.... Fingers, lube, all holes, grind it on my face and leave me begging for air, grab her hips or ass and pull her into your mouth and face, uhm yes please. Ask anyone that knows me this will get me ready for other activities.

You being 6'2" though I fear k9 might be out of the question.... Those legs must be impressive. I'm just 5'7".

I love a mix of GFE that just naturally transitions to PSE. I don't look for or schedule PSE sessions though. Setting expectations leads to disappointment. It's more fun to relax, meet, chat and see where it leads...... That's my secret if I have one. Remain calm.and cool, talk a bit, be kind gentle and turn on the BFE in response to GFE and just see where it all leads.

LickHer · 12-19-2013, 10:51 AM

I suggest you just look at some "porn" to see what an actual PSE is. In all of my "porn" viewing experiences is occurs to me that pretty much "anything goes" and in 98% no "protection is used at all, 100% "Bare Back." I believe the PSE "experience" for most providers and most hobbyists is really just a little "dirtier" GFE experience than a true "porn star experience" experience...
I've actually asked some of the providers that "offer" both PSE and GFE (usually charge more for PSE) and all of them have trouble explaining and most use "Greek" as the "PSE" difference... To me, I've never had a wife/girlfriend that won't do "Geek" in fact most want it far more than I do. So to me there is no such thing as a "difference" between GFE and PSE

Eva Damita · 12-19-2013, 11:00 AM

There is no single right answer perfect for EVERYONE. Find your own style, or discover if PSE is even your forte, as it may not be. Try watching some raunchy porn. That should help.

SpiceItUp · 12-19-2013, 11:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Wulf_Princess

you version sounds more like Sub/Dom

which is a type of PSE i guess?

based on what i've read, 40% of guys say gfe is a wild hardcore without regards for natural boundries

everyone else says, the best mix seems to be 15 min pse (15-30 min PSE) 15 gfe to end with whats more to be desired.

I am not one to be dominated that's for sure, so is there a level of PSE that doesn't seem so, one sided?

Lol that's not Sub/Dom its just rough sex, and replace the one leading in my scenario with the female instead of the male if you like. Either way it's an illustration of a more "no holds barred" and "dirty" type of BBBJ. The same idea applies to other sex acts.

Try to grasp concepts instead of nitpicking details?