Non-GFE

[Little Miss Cuntcakes]

Originally Posted by savak

Limited menu , i.e. no daty, fiv, kissing bbbj is obvious. Also not being amicable or approachable.

But also when a provider makes a session feel like a transaction by telling me "i dont mean to rush you...but you asked for (this) much time". Or if a provider turns a session into a situation where i have to brushed out the door on the dot when the alotted time is up.

i avoid amps and backpages for this reason. I know its a business and we pay for a certain amount of time, but the whole idea is the ILLUSION that it isnt a transaction.

When booking with a provider do you express that you are looking for Gfe or is it just expected? Ever take into consideration you are not the only client to been seen that day? When your scheduled time spills over or you're running late it make me late for the next scheduled appt.Time is money. If it feels like a transaction it's because it is. Best way to avoid disappointment ask or state to the provider of choice that you are looking for Gfe before booking.

Also...I am a "backpage girl" . I'm am not in the business of robbing people, clock watching, using fake pics or bad business period. So please do not label us all bad because of others fuckery.

Fuckery
N.derivative of the word FUCK

Absolute bullshit;utter nonsense;something rather suspicious that can bring fourt uneasy,angry,or irritated feelings;shenanigans.;deceptiv e behavior
Or some other fucked up shit.

**Please && Thank You

[Guest101114]

Originally Posted by Candi Staxx

in my opinion, I feel if you are getting paid X amount of money to give a man experience-you should do just that that!

I would never let a guy just sit around for an extra hour, but yes I am totally guilty of sometimes going 15 minutes over, no big deal. Yes my time is money, but I only see 2 Gentlemen a day, and yes, I always give my absolute fullest. Can't say I speak too much of other gals when I have dick in my mouth, but I know daily I see new clients who are WAY to suprised and grateful by amazing service and treatment than they should be.

Would'nt call that getting taken advantage of, no worse than say selling oneself for less than it cost to fill up a Yukon. Plenty do, I feel THATS getting taken advantage of. Giving an extra 10min convo time, nope.. dont feel taken advantage of, at all!

I don't mind if guy stays over a few minutes or leaves a lil' early... I think um, everyone does that... Unless you set an egg timer... I thought we were talking about a much difference time span... I know nothing about you Candi... Except that you started a thread that peaked my interest in coed (http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=859069&highlight=) and your really tall... Hehe I wasn't trying to be mean to you.

I am a very nice funny loving girl... Even if I sound like a bitch in my comments on here at time... Hehe.

Regarding the GFE/Non-GFE and getting what they paid for... ah, fuck it... I started rambling so I erased it... But it was on topic lol.

I apologize savak... I read your reviews (or um... What I could see... Yeah.) and it seems like you went over your time on every one... It's none of my business what goes on between other providers and their clients... I could care less...and maybe they didn't mind them going over... I still feel like if you went way over and didn't even tip... That is rude and unappreciative.

I obviously misinterpreted what some of you were saying.

Just saw your PM you sent to me Candi... Geez... Could you be any sweeter? Like I said, I wasn't being mean... Just stating my opinion. Thanks for not getting all offended... It says a lot about your character.

Happy Sunday everyone!!

[thatgirlbailey]

This is just me personally. I do respect every lady and the way she does what she does. I think (as I have stated before) if it has worked for you then keep it up if not change. It's really simple. Guys all like different things. Some like flip flops and sweats, some like lingerie, some like a tshirt. Some want a girl bent over and lubed up when he walks in without a word spoken. Some want to be the only man in the world when they are with you. Some want to talk about the hobby. Some want to vent about their wife. Some like to kiss. Some want you to hang from the ceiling fan in a batman costume. Etc. Etc. Etc.

My .02

It is really simple. Read the reviews. If a lady sounds enticing but, does things you don't like or doesn't do things you like then that is where you should say something if you want to do out on a limb and see her anyway. I see a gent who likes me but, does not like GFE and he made that clear. We wam bam thank you ma'am and he is out. I HATE HATE HATE putting labels on things when it comes to the hobby. Like Mokoa said GFE can be taken 5,231,990 ways.

I have been said to be GFE. I suppose because I do treat it like a RW date. I will say though there are times even I personally may just want to get down and dirty right to business or days I want go slow. That is why I like seeing return gents...guys if like "GFE" being a repeat with any lady is a great thing...it only gets better the more comfortable you get with someone.

I treat every single date just as that a date. If we click then we see each other again if we don't we don't.

I don't think any lady should be down on another lady for what or how she does things. There is a guy or guys out there that will see her before they see you any day. That is the beauty of the hobby.

I do think a lady should only do what she is comfortable doing because I promise you if she doesn't like something and does it anyway you will know most of the time.

In that....guys do your research and don't be scared to let a lady know what you want it makes it easier and more fun for us both.

Ladies do what works for you

Sorry to rant :/

XoXoXoXoXoXoXo

P.S. You San Antonio guys are REALLY luck SA has a LOT of stand up ladies! I have never seen a better group of ladies!!

[thatgirlbailey]

On a side note....holy crap ur_mom I just looked at one of your BP ads and you are SMOKIN!!! Definitely my new lady crush! I may have to treat myself and go get a massage!

Sorry off topic. Won't happen again.

[Guest101114]

Sweet Bailey... A refreshing breath of reason... You called it "a rant" hehe... Yep, girls can run their business the way the want... Just because one girl does something or doesn't... Shouldn't mean that some guys should expect it from all of us... Extra time... Going over time... GFE... Non-GFE... Whatever it may be.

I was being real defensive and I apologize once again... I just got real upset because I don't like to see women getting taken advantage of and thinking this is right when a guy will purposely go over and not tip or give appropriate donation for services rendered... Thank you for explaining yourself in the PM you sent to me... I cannot see the private comments or ROS so it appears different to me... I am sorry I jumped at you.

I just looked at an ad "ur_mom" has posted on backpage too Bailey... She does look pretty hot!!

[Samcro84]

Agree with Bailey - SA has a great bunch of girls. Thank you all. The whole ECCIE community is really great in SA. Agree also that ur_mom she is sizzlin!!

[Candi Staxx]

Again, Thanks Savak! I had the pleasure of starting this business many years ago in an Agency, although there's no need to be with one now (I was new at this and in College then) I can say to this day, I learned alot about the hobby and just catering to men fully. I just believe in offering experiences. My rates are a bit high and yes at that price I feel I should be getting literally get every drop out of you =)

And +1 Ur_Mom
I also use BP. Yes it certaintly has its pros and cons for us, but for one to label any girl of BP bad is just silly. (you guys know how many hard core drug addicts are on here even yes) I used to use it everywhere, suddenly for me its no longer worth the trouble, except in a few cities. Just wanted to say "I know" with the whole BP stigma thing, however my BP funds from 2011 were what bought my car in cash, so I think I'll just keep on doing what I do best! Stay safe!

And YAY Karla =) I know us ladies all have other ladies we favor on
the board (your on my list!) lol thats why I was like oh no...not "her"! And btw dont hold back being a "bitch"...it makes you sexy =) Love a woman who speaks her mind regardless!

Also +1 with evvvvverything Bailey sad for sure!

[thatgirlbailey]

Originally Posted by XOXO Karla

Sweet Bailey... A refreshing breath of reason... You called it "a rant" hehe... Yep, girls can run their business the way the want... Just because one girl does something or doesn't... Shouldn't mean that some guys should expect it from all of us... Extra time... Going over time... GFE... Non-GFE... Whatever it may be.

I was being real defensive and I apologize once again... I just got real upset because I don't like to see women getting taken advantage of and thinking this is right when a guy will purposely go over and not tip or give appropriate donation for services rendered... Thank you for explaining yourself in the PM you sent to me... I cannot see the private comments or ROS so it appears different to me... I am sorry I jumped at you.

I just looked at an ad "ur_mom" has posted on backpage too Bailey... She does look pretty hot!!

Originally Posted by travelerman

Agree with Bailey - SA has a great bunch of girls. Thank you all. The whole ECCIE community is really great in SA. Agree also that ur_mom she is sizzlin!!

Haha told you guys!

I act like I stay all busy on the board and really 50% of my time is admiring the lovely...well ur_mom stated it best...wits & tits of all the ladies!!

[Candi Staxx]

Yes indeed!

Call me a lil lesbo....but the LADIES of SA are going to be my reason for finally taking up on a invite to a social soon, have'nt said this about any chicks in a while, but there's some ladies on here I'd realllllllly love to meet off here!
We really do have some of the best ever, IMO!

[sms918]

not to go off topic, bailey "hang from a ceiling fan in a batman costume". The imagery alone of you doing that bought a smile, thank you.
mom,jae, yea picture really nice.

ok, back to topic.
Practically( I think of her as first) my first provider told me a lot about hobby and what and what not to do. I booked 2 hours because I prefer to get to know someone first. she said some providers wouldn't book new friends 2 hours because not knowing if connection or not.
Provider can make sure of pse not always gfe, she wasn't talking about acts but comfort level for both. I always read profiles and reviews to see how friendly provider is. Everyone has their own taste. providers and hobbyist alike.

I personally don't like the short appts and don't make them, I understand why people do them just not for me. Normally I like an hour or more. I don't like clockwatchers, set a timer when you get there, keep checking their phone for calls, or finish early and get dressed you leave look at time and it's 40 minutes
instead of hour. I'll admit I don't pay attention to time and like to talk before, during, and after. Sometimes going over a few minutes or longer. usually provider or I can tell it's getting about time or we check time. I think every situation is different, and every day is different.

My suggestion is buy a clock put in plain sight and both sides be fair about it.
Repeat friends are always going to have a different set of rules. Provider and hobbyist should treat repeat friends differently than a new friend that doesn't know them. That should mean both provider and repeater don't try take advantage of each other.

I'm glad to be part of this community and I've seen people help each other out. Some are very friendly toward others, others are not. I know you shouldn't get attacked for posting or starting a thread and being honest. I can tell you anybody that's met me knows I can write a longer post here than I talk at a m & g. Some people are very different in person than on here. I know one provider who posted a thread and was attacked for being heartless, she is very nice in person. same goes for some hobbyist in person.

[thatgirlbailey]

Haha sms that would indeed be an interesting scene!!! Knowing my clumsy self I would somehow get tangled and have to call in a rescue team LMAO

I so agree with everything you said. I do in fact keep a clock in my play room. I am not a clock watcher per say but, I will be the first to say that in more than one date we have both lost track of time so it is nice to at least know what time it is. I do let dates run over most of the time but, I some times have to cut it at time or close to time due to RW responsibilities. One of the many reasons I am low volume.

I have heard the same about ladies not wanting long dates for the first one...I was shocked when I heard this. I normally ask for a longer date for the first one. I have to be comfortable with someone before we go knockin boots. I like you am a talker as well. Of course I LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE the bedroom fun as well though.

I think a lot of people put WWWWAY too much thought into the hobby. It is pretty simple really.

Also agree with you that repeat friends are a different story. When I say that I do not mean that they get special treatment per say I just mean there is a different level of comfort.

I too could go on for days about all this but, I will spare you guys from any more of my boring .02

Disclaimer: Again this is what works for me to each their own

[Stanfeld]

*per se ...sorry, couldn't help myself.

[thatgirlbailey]

Originally Posted by Candi Staxx

Yes indeed!

Call me a lil lesbo....but the LADIES of SA are going to be my reason for finally taking up on a invite to a social soon, have'nt said this about any chicks in a while, but there's some ladies on here I'd realllllllly love to meet off here!
We really do have some of the best ever, IMO!

You should go to the Hallow Weenie!! I would love to finally meet you in person

[guy fawkes]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NRxrCBvt7TM

[nerdy123]

No offense ma'am, but in the posts and reviews I have read of you= you are not GFE